1. Be sure to learn what to say and what not to say.
If you really can't learn, don't make too many points. Once you have a subjective point of view, it is to give people the opportunity to talk to you. Don't just point fingers at the first.
2. Ask others for help, don't skimp on a meal, a red envelope, others will help you a little.
3. Owe others human kindness, remember to pay back, to thank you. Instead of feeling friends, you should take it for granted. Others have no obligation to be good to you all the time and there is no bound. To be friends with you all the time. There are gains and losses, compensation for each other, the relationship can be long-lasting.
4. Keep your mouth shut To vent your emotions, say less and don't say hurtful things. Even in the presence of close people, piercing words cannot be said. Many people's years of relationships come to an end because of one or two sentences.
5. Never fill your mouth
Change "give it to me" to "I try my best", and you will feel that the pressure on you is much less on the expectations of others, and the burden of work is much easier.
6. Don't chew on the root of the tongue behind your back, the partition wall has ears.
7. Don't blindly save money
Saving money doesn't improve our quality of life, it just gives us a discounted life. Spend the time you save money to learn about financial management, so as to really improve the quality of life.
8. If you are just an ordinary person and want to achieve a higher standard of living, it is recommended not to get married too early. Getting married too early means that you are about to prepare the house, the car, the bride price, the savings of two generations are immediately spent, and your energy is involved and occupied in order to welcome the arrival of new life.
9. When your values are not perfect, it is often easy to be biased by the values of others. It's like you've read so many answers, basically you think they're right. But there is no one-size-fits-all certainty about the answer. So you must have your own complete opinion, this thing will, let you help you a lot in this society where no one can rely on anyone.
10. The only way for people to respect you: make yourself stronger The survival of the fittest is the law of nature, and everyone must understand this truth.
I hope that you who are in your youth will wake up a little sooner.