The highest level of love is the heart of a child that you give

From infancy to maturity, life always goes through several stages: not knowing who you are, being depressed; knowing who you are not, disillusioned; knowing who you are, peace of mind. Do you know who you are? This is a difficult time, the world is noisy, housing prices, medical care, maternity, schooling, job hunting, pensions, environment, taxes weigh us down. Retreating and escaping cannot solve the problem, and only by burying one's head in cultivation and carrying the weight forward will we see the dawn of hope.

Live thoroughly, and find that in fact, any kind of personality can not avoid offending people, it is better to be true to yourself, follow the footsteps of the heart, and face this complex and changeable world with a pure heart. Therefore, no matter what age you are at and what kind of environment you are in, you should keep a pure heart. After reading a thousand sails, the prosperity is over, and when I look back, I am still the original juvenile. He is such a person, Yang Nansheng. His story, in the current era of a very scarce child's heart, his love with her has touched thousands of people; he and his story have let us get to know a person with a child's heart who has no regrets about his career and does not care about fame and fortune. As the sentence of "Junsheng I Was Not Born" reads heart-warmingly: If I can accompany you for a lifetime, you will never have to grow up... This is Yang Nansheng's spoiling of his beloved Zhang Yanping.

1. This legendary love has achieved the growth of a heart.

One is Zhang Yanping, a fledgling, simple and naïve reporter, and the other is Yang Nansheng, a wise man who is sunny, rich, has read the world, and has a noble heart. Two purest hearts, just because of love, come together like two innocent children. After 29 years of encounters and 27 years of companionship, Yang Nansheng and Zhang Yanping were in love with each other, leaving a series of moving memories.

That year, Zhang Yanping had just graduated from college and joined the work, and all fantasies about love were in novels and poems. Yang Nansheng is a strivers who are bent on delving into the Rocket Kingdom; but there will be some inexplicable strange fate in the world, and fate has allowed these two people who are operating in different interstellar orbits to meet. At that time, Zhang Yanping was ordered to be interviewed, and waiting for the interview was the rational and romantic scientist Yang Nansheng. Such a simple interview moment, let the two people's simple and lovely hearts gradually approach, gradually integrated.

Zhang Yanping recalled in the book "Junsheng I Was Not Born": It was Yang Nansheng who gently cared for their purest love. Why? In fact, Zhang Yanping and Yang Nansheng love each other, and the only medium is love. For this world and the country, what kind of person is Yang Nansheng? It was not until the last years of Yang Nansheng's life that Zhang Yanping slowly figured it out. The reason for this is that Yang Nansheng has a well-trained habit of secrecy throughout his life; second, in Yang Nansheng's eyes, Zhang Yanping, a super "science blind" who cannot even distinguish between addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, has studied things in his life that are nothing less than magic for Zhang Yanping and cannot be told. Zhang Yanping said, "When I didn't know all of this from him, I was unrestrained and free in front of him, enjoying the transmission of mutual love and soul to the fullest." If I knew everything then, would my love be humble enough to never blossom in the dust? As a result, he didn't say anything to me. Perhaps, he thinks those are not worth saying.

Yes, Yang Nansheng's spoiling of Zhang Yanping did not stop there. Good love, hidden in the details, lies in the bits and pieces of life. Those photos and manuscripts of representative scenes and letters of Yang Nansheng and Zhang Yanping in their daily lives, the interesting things about their lives, the small paintings she left behind when he cooked for him for the first time, and when he annoyed her... All of them portray simplicity and purity. Yang Nansheng, a scientist who has made great contributions to China's aerospace industry, has made a rare romance and beauty in the world, and under his rationality, he is a profound and simple love for Zhang Yanping, this love, across everything, the heart of a child, such as beautiful.

As Zhang Yanping wrote: "The souvenir of love has never been the gifts you gave me, or even those sweet text messages and photos, but you left me, like the changes that the river has left for the terrain." Because of love, I am growing in the direction of happiness every day and becoming a person with a better soul. ”

2. Why does everyone who approaches him fall in love with him?

Yang Nansheng is China's first generation of solid rocket experts and scientists who have made great contributions to China's aerospace industry. His story shows the first generation of scientists of the republic who have no complaints, no regrets, and do not care about fame and fortune for the cause of national defense.

The development of solid rockets is important to a country's national defense, and no one questions it. "Yang Nansheng is the kind of person who will not let go of a scientific truth, and since he knows how important this solid rocket is to the country, he will do whatever it takes."

As for the difficulties, he believes that that is exactly what he wants to overcome, and it is not difficult to engage in science. Zhang Yanping recalled Yang Nansheng, "He is a person who takes scientific exploration, respect for truth, and democratic style as principles." At work, we always discuss with scientific and technological personnel, and when problems arise, he will be the first to stand up and take responsibility, and every technician can ask him questions and consult at any time. He never lost his temper with his subordinates, saying, "Controlling emotions and hypocrisy are two concepts, and willfulness cannot be regarded as a virtue." ”

Yang Nansheng can lead a young solid team to create China's solid rocket industry from scratch and from small to large, not only his outstanding talent and dedication, but also his spirit of independent thinking, love and persistence of truth. No worldly interest can shake his quest for scientific truth.

Such a person, few people do not fall in love, right?

3. The "Heart of the Naked Son" is the core of his life's spiritual world

From love to career, from initial heart to no regrets, even in Yang Nansheng's most difficult moments, he was "shedding tears and burning his heart" and never gave up. The encounter, acquaintance, and mutual observance of Zhang Yanping and Yang Nansheng let us see a sincere and pure moving love story, showing the dedication and sacrifice of an astronaut full of pure heart and national spirit. The initial acquaintance with Yang Nansheng made a fledgling reporter "panic"; the exchange of letters with Yang Nansheng made a young and immature heart soar; the combination with Yang Nansheng made the two beating hearts feel the taste of happiness. In love, Yang Nan is rational and romantic, in the last thirty years of his life, he will give all his affection to "Pingping"; in the years after Yang Nansheng's death, Zhang Yanping is in deep pain, and for more than seven years through 76 diaries to pin his affectionate nostalgia, until one day, she realized that Mr. Yang never left, the author and Mr. Yang's soul combined, living a beautiful, wonderful, more enthusiastic embrace of life, embrace the world.

Loving someone can always find some "evidence" in the details. A hard career will always find those "persistence" in the results. Good love, good career, good destiny... It is never you who say I give, they are all in the heart, the heart of the child that has never been affected in any way.

In the face of time and fate, our little bit of sophistication and cunning is really like dust and sand, and everything is silent. Life is a pure flame, the world burns out, leaving only a piece of sincerity.

The highest level of love has always been the heart of a child you give.

"I was born before I was born"

Zhang Yanping

About author:Zhang Yanping, female, graduated from the Department of Chinese of Shandong University in 1982, senior reporter of Xinhua News Agency, has won the title of "Yangtze River Taofen Award", "Xinhua News Agency Outstanding Contribution Award" and "National Outstanding Journalist" in the Chinese press circles, and his long-form newsletter "Why Soma Flowers Are So Red" won the first prize of the China Journalism Award, and authored the biography "Mu Qing Biography".

Introduction: One is Zhang Yanping, a fledgling, simple and naïve young journalist, and the other is Yang Nansheng, a wise man who is sunny, rich, has read the world and has a noble heart. Two purest hearts, just because of love, come together like two innocent children. After 29 years of encounters and 27 years of companionship, Yang Nansheng and Zhang Yanping were in love with each other, leaving a series of moving memories.

The author Zhang Yanping recorded his encounter, acquaintance and mutual stay with Yang Nansheng with affectionate words, telling a sincere and pure moving love story, showing the dedication and sacrifice of an astronaut full of pure heart and national spirit. The book is divided into nine chapters, and a special preface and conclusion are written to present the soul combination between the author and Mr. Yang and the story of Mr. Yang's lifelong struggle for his career, aiming to share the attitude of living a better life, living a wonderful, and more enthusiastic embrace of life and embrace the world.