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As a city soldier and a descendant of prisoners, why did Gao Huan let Lou Zhaojun commit himself to marriage?

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The place where Gao Huan was born - huaishuo town full of talents

Before the establishment of the Three Kingdoms, the Central Plains experienced the division of the Northern and Southern Wars, of which Northern Qi was particularly prominent.

Emperor Gao Yang of Northern Qi, on the basis laid by his father and brother, changed Northern Wei to Qi in 550 AD, historically known as Northern Qi. What few people know is that Northern Qi was not beaten down by the faint and incompetent Gao Yang, but Gao Yang's father, Gao Huan.

Gao Huan was born in huaishuo town (now the Inner Mongolian generation), in the area of the Xianbei people. What has always been talked about is this talented Huaishuo Town.

Huaishuo Town was one of the six border towns used by the Northern Wei government to resist the invasion of the northern minorities, which was a very marginal area in terms of the political center of the Central Plains at that time. Both environmental and political are very barren. But this such an inconspicuous town is rich in many celebrities, just like Gao Huan, Gao Huan's uprising began in Huaishuo Town.

Lü Bu during the Three Kingdoms period was also born in Huaishuo Town. Of course, there is also Hou Jing, who has always followed Gao Huan's uprising, and later made many military achievements, and is still from Huaishuo Town.

As a city soldier and a descendant of prisoners, why did Gao Huan let Lou Zhaojun commit himself to marriage?

Gao Huan, as a descendant of prisoners, created a tragic childhood

However, Gao Huan's ancestral home is not Huaishuo, but a Bohai Gao family. Because my grandfather was exiled to Huaishuo, this was born here. In ancient times, officials were exiled, along with their families, and this Gao Huan was one of them.

Although the Gao Huan family is known as the family of officials and eunuchs, because of the relationship between the grandfather, the family began to be broken. His father was an idle drunkard gambler, and his mother died when he was young. As a result, gao huan at a young age, his childhood was particularly miserable.

However, although Gao Huan's family situation is not very good, his childhood life is not good. However, under the influence of such a talented environment as Huaishuo Town, he also learned some things that were not in the academy, and these things laid a solid foundation for him to enter the military and career.

As a city soldier and a descendant of prisoners, why did Gao Huan let Lou Zhaojun commit himself to marriage?

Gao Huan pursues his first love, and loves but cannot

Although Gao Huan's family situation is not very optimistic, Gao Huan is notoriously good-looking in the area of Huaishuo Town. In our current parlance, that's handsome.

Good-looking people eat well everywhere they go, and this is indisputable both then and now, especially emotionally.

The first girl Gao Huan liked in his life was han shi, the sister of his good friend Han Rail, and the two fell in love at first sight. Helplessly, only because Gao Huan was very poor, the relationship between the two was strongly opposed by the Han family.

How poor gao Huan is, the area around Huaishuo Town is a vast grassland. In this grassland, the mode of transportation is mainly run by horses, mules and the like. No horses, no mules, just like we walk down the street without a bus. And Gao Huan's family did not even have a horse or a mule, which showed how poor Gao Huan's family was at that time.

And this Han clan is a famous and prestigious family, pay attention to the door to the right, naturally will not agree to this family affair. So the love that Gao Huan had just sprouted had not yet had time to take root, and it was ruthlessly strangled to death in the cradle of reality. It was precisely because he was rejected by this family affair that Gao Huan felt frustrated. In addition to the setbacks, he wanted to get Han Shi even more in his heart. He swore that in the future, when he had succeeded, he would have to get Han.

(Later, when Gao Huan won the zhi, Han had already married someone else.) Later, the man died suddenly, and Han became a widow. Gao Huan and Han's old love affair was rekindled, and the two were together again and had a son. Of course, this is an afterthought and will not be repeated. )

As a city soldier and a descendant of prisoners, why did Gao Huan let Lou Zhaojun commit himself to marriage?

The soldiers on the castle tower meet the humble noble maidens

Due to Gao Huan's low rank and the influence of his own ancestors, he has not been very smooth on the road of career. Even if he worked hard, the family's silver was also used a lot, and a lot of relations were made, but Gao Huan could only be a small city tower soldier.

Chinese often said that the horse of Sai Ong is not a blessing to know. It was Gao Huan who said this, he didn't know that the first noble man in his life had appeared.

It was on a windy and sunny afternoon, and Lou Zhaojun stood on the city tower looking into the distance. On the way home, she was suddenly attracted by Gao Huan's burly figure. Under the heartbeat, he called the next person and asked Gao Huan to come and talk to himself.

And this conversation did not matter, Lou Zhaojun accidentally found the young man in front of him. Not only is his appearance outstanding, but his conversation and insight are also extraordinary, and he is immediately fascinated by him.

As a city soldier and a descendant of prisoners, why did Gao Huan let Lou Zhaojun commit himself to marriage?

Lou Zhaojun posted family assets and staged a romantic love affair with Gao Huan

After returning home, Lou Zhaojun, a girl with a bold personality, decided to marry Gao Huan. However, helplessly, Gao Huan's door was really not good, so this family affair was strongly opposed by the Lou family.

The Lou family is a famous and prestigious family of the Xianbei clan. Lou Zhaojun's father was an internal cadre of the Xianbei clan at that time, and his official position was equivalent to that of the current provincial governor. How could such a prominent aristocratic family accept Gao Huan, a poor son-in-law?

What's more, the society at that time paid attention to the door-to-door pair. And Gao Huan is not only poor, but also Han Chinese. You must know that the status of the Han people in the Northern Wei countries is very humble, and this family affair is not in tune with how to look at it.

Sure enough, when Lou Zhaojun went home, he was opposed by the Lou family. And the reason is the same as the Han family, Gao Huan's family is really too poor, the Lou family can't see it. The Lou family also felt sad that their precious daughter had suffered in the past, so they refused this family affair.

However, Lou Zhaojun has always been a very assertive person. In the face of her family's opposition, she would not sit still, so this lonely girl personally proposed to herself.

After she found out Gao Huan's intentions for herself, she decided to "force" her family to agree to marry Gao Huan, so how to force it?

First Lou Zhaojun "brainwashed" his family, Xiaozhi was emotionally reasonable, and then staged a cry, two troubles and three hunger strikes. Let the family shake a little, at least not to joke about their precious daughter's life.

Gao Huan's side used the money that Lou Zhaojun privately gave as a bride price, and from time to time showed his true ability. Although he did not have an official position, he still had a little ink in his stomach, and he also had a deep affection for Lou Zhaojun.

So the two sang and reconciled, and finally coaxed the people of the Lou family to obey, which agreed to the marriage of the two.

Therefore, from this moment on, Gao Huan had a romantic love, and his life had just begun.

Overall:

Some people say that the marriage between Gao Huan and Lou Zhaojun was Gao Huan's high climb, but in fact, it is not.

Gao Huan's good looks were favored by Lou Zhaojun for one reason, but think about it in reverse. In the identity of Lou Zhaojun at that time, it was a simple thing to find a good-looking man to marry. However, he was partial to Gao Huan, but he was still moved by Gao Huan's Ling Yunzhi.

If so, marriage is a big gamble. Well, for Lou Zhaojun, her gamble has just begun, and her discernment is also destined to be a winner. This marriage is a win-win cooperation for the two. Gao Huan needs a platform to show himself, while Lou Zhaojun needs a gamble to prove himself.

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