The energy that changes our lives
It's literally every ordinary day
Wen | Cao General
Source| Cao Will
Everyone encounters bottlenecks in their lives because of all kinds of stagnation, inaction, and anxiety.
At such moments, some people choose to lie flat, and some people have thought about it.
Let's take a look at these pits that are easy to step on, and I hope that everyone will not step on the same thunder.
01
It's someone else's fault
Why didn't this happen well? Someone else's problem.
Why is the progress not going well? Someone else's problem.
Why not summarize? Others did not conclude.
Yes, all problems can be blamed on the outside, I am always a victim, and when emotions come up, my eyes are in tears.
But the question is: Do you really have no responsibility?
Wouldn't it be nice to do a little more yourself? No other soft or hard strategies? Others don't do it if they don't do it themselves?
Why? Because we are ultimately working for our own performance.
02
Why should I spend money on my work?
The computer is not easy to use, go to change one yourself, there is no need.
Ability can not keep up, to buy books and newspaper classes to learn, there is no need.
It is not necessary to consult other people and ask guests to spend money.
Yes, the salary is so much, why spend more money on the work?
The question is: Isn't the time wasted because of inefficiency worthless?
03
The circle is getting narrower and narrower
Everyday life is the company, the family, two points and one line. The world is in this circle.
When you encounter a problem, the clue you can find is only how you did it before.
The pattern cannot be opened, and the answer is the same. And the size of the world corresponds to the number of answers.
04
You don't lay eggs yourself
But good at picking bones from eggs
Watching other people's sharing, you can always find logical loopholes, and then be complacent and scornful.
It seems that I can do everything, but when I want to solve the problem, I can't start.
It's not cleverness, it's jealousy.
05
One drum blows, then declines, three exhausts
Watching others study design, I bought books and courses myself, started for two days, and put them on the shelf.
Watching others exercising, I bought a yoga mat, downloaded KEEP, insisted on it for two days, and turned a blind eye.
Well, the hot blood of this thing, good in the action is strong, bad in the low tide is also fast.
06
Always "if"
If I had tried a little harder in my junior year of high school, I would have been different...
If I had cultivated more XX abilities in college, I would have been different...
If I had integrated the self-media operation at that time, I would have been different...
Every day if, live in the past. But if you really went back to the beginning, would you make a different choice?
Once people live in the past, there is no future.
07
Stay at "I WANT"
But there is no "JUST DO IT"
I want to do a big job this year, and I want to start working hard tomorrow. After one night, I forgot all about it.
Pick up your phone, world news, entertainment gossip, ghost animal videos, all in front of your eyes, so unhappy.
Since there is no beginning, don't talk about failure, because it is not worth talking about failure.
08
Eager for speed
I like to watch "7 days to learn..." "1 hour to master..." "5 minutes to understand...".
I like to learn all kinds of techniques, use them, and feel like I'm upgrading right away.
Well, the easier it looks, the easier it is to forget.
True competitiveness depends on time and experience, not on dragonflies.
PS: Don't expect fate to be suddenly reversed in a moment, those energy that changes our lives are actually in ordinary every day, in a seemingly ordinary habit of thinking.
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