The 62 old man cried: I danced square dancing for three months, but I was beaten 3 times, and I never dared to dance again. What's going on here? Why was he beaten? Let's take a look at this together.
62-year-old Uncle Chen:
Half a year ago I came to my son to retire. I didn't want to come over, it was too boring to be alone in my hometown. Many people say that having a wife can be boring? At the very least, you can chat with your wife and have your wife company. What I want to tell you is that my wife died two years ago. To say more here, don't play with your phone when you walk, especially when you cross the traffic lights. My wife just loves to play with her phone. I don't know if there are many handsome guys in the mobile phone, or how. Anyway, my wife will take the phone wherever she goes. Play with mobile phones at dinner, play with mobile phones when sleeping, and even play with mobile phones when going to the toilet. I was also completely convinced. Is the phone just that fun? Later, I found out that in addition to my wife, many young people are like this.
I also play with my phone while walking, and my wife is like that. Because of the mobile phone, I had a fight with my wife. And I have quarreled many times, each time to persuade my wife to play less mobile phone. Especially when doing serious things, such as walking or cycling. I didn't hear about it anymore, and I thought I was managing too much. My wife said, I don't need you to take care of my affairs, right? I'm just playing with my phone, what do you do with so much? Take care of yourself. You said that playing with mobile phones is easy to get out of the way. So why don't you say that smoking is easy to get out of the way? You've been smoking for decades, how come I haven't seen you out... You're out of trouble, how to say that I'm weird.
I was directly intimidated by my wife and had nothing to say. Although I smoke, I don't smoke much now. Since then, I have made up my mind to quit smoking. My purpose in quitting smoking was to ask my wife not to play with so many phones. Put down your phone and accompany the people around you. More importantly, playing with mobile phones is dangerous, especially playing with mobile phones while walking. One day my wife was out. Before going out, I specifically told my wife to play with the phone. If you can stop playing, try not to play, even if you want to play the phone back to play. My wife didn't listen.
I don't know what happened, my wife actually walked into the fish pond. Then my wife was gone. If it weren't for this incident, my wife would definitely be able to accompany me to the end, but she lost her wife because of this matter. Who can blame this? I have already said what to do, but my wife just doesn't listen. People who say they should pay attention, every year because of playing mobile phones, are there fewer cases before the accident? In particular, there are more cases of playing mobile phones while walking. Pay attention to safety, life is the most important. After my wife died, I lived in the house for three months. Three months later my son took me away, and my son said that I gave up on you living at home when my mother was there because you could accompany each other and take care of each other.
Now that my mother is gone, it is dangerous to live alone in my hometown. You still come to our side, we look at you more assured. I can't tell you anything about my son. And I'm also worried about something going wrong, so let's go to my son. Just to my son, it was so boring. My son works during the day and works overtime at night. I don't see anyone all day long. To put it mildly, I feel that I am the only one in this family. When I go to bed, my son will leave work. By the time I got up in the morning, my son had already gone to work.
The grandson is the same way, the grandson comes back one day a month, and the rest of the time is at school. The more I did this, the more boring I became, and then I went to square dancing. So many people dance square dance, I also dance, square dance can not only exercise, but also make friends, in one fell swoop. I believe that many people dance square dancing for these reasons, the first is too boring, the second wants to exercise. That's how I jumped. When I was there, I met Xiao Zhang, who was a little younger than me and retired for two years at the age of 57. I talked and laughed with Xiao Zhang.
Soon I became good friends with Xiao Zhang. Friends invite each other to dinner. Or let the other party do a little help. Usually, Xiao Zhang asked me to buy him something, or to take the courier along the way. As long as I can, I will do whatever I can. Then sometimes Xiao Zhang would invite me to dinner again. Unexpectedly, I was beaten up because of this matter. After square dancing that night, I was ready to go home. Someone stopped me when I was home. Originally, I thought these people recognized the wrong person, so I told them, are you recognizing the wrong person? I don't know you, what are you looking for me for? They didn't say anything. Then one of the men punched me in the face.
It knocked out one of my teeth. It hurt me so much that I screamed. Then the others punched and kicked again. If someone hadn't called, they wouldn't have dispersed. Who the hell am I messing with, I'm just square dancing. Why do you just hit me? Then I thought they were the wrong person. If they hadn't recognized the wrong person, how could they have beaten me, I have no wrongs with those people in the past, and I have no hatred in recent days. It should be impossible to hit me, and one possibility is that they recognized the wrong person. Forget it, and there is no life danger, this time it is counted, do not want to worry so much.
Then a few days later I went to dance with Xiao Zhang again. I was beaten again the night of the dance. This time I hit it, as if it wasn't the last time. What's going on here? After I was beaten I pulled the man in my hand and I was going to figure it out. Why hit me? Did I recognize the wrong person, or did I provoke you? Then a man said, don't you know why? I know, you danced with my wife, didn't you? My wife is Xiao Zhang who dances with you. You're so close to my wife every day... The more he said it, the angrier he got and slapped me again.
That's when I realized why I was beaten. It turned out that it was because Xiao Zhang had a husband, and then his husband thought that I had something to do with his wife. That's why they beat me. Then I said, if you say that, the last time you hit me, too. As soon as he talked about the last time, he was even more angry, he said angrily, you all know that the last time I hit, why don't you restrain a little? No one else dared to dance with my wife, so you danced with my wife. Even if you dance with my wife, you have to lean so close, even if you lean so close, you still dance with my wife every day. Even if you jump with my wife every day, you have to invite my wife to dinner, and you have to go out and play with my wife. The more I said it, the more I knew Yao, and I slapped me again.
This time it wasn't as lucky as the last time someone came, and this time no one came. They were beaten so badly that they left. Then I was taken to the hospital. Stayed in the hospital for several days before returning home. After this incident, I was afraid and never dared to dance with someone who had a husband or an object. I just dance with people, but they don't think so. Later I changed to a dance partner, and this dance partner has no husband. This is okay, right?
Dancing with him without a husband should be ok, right? Don't count as a dance partner, count as a friend. He was standing next to me. Then we danced and talked, and it was all in this relationship. Of course, that's the way it is. Sometimes hand in hand. It's just a part of the dance. Anyway, I don't think there is anything wrong, most of them are friends, most of them are dancing and exercising. I have a good relationship with this little Liu. As long as Xiao Liu is more active, I am already scared after being beaten twice. Always this time Xiao Liu is so active, can I not take the initiative? Xiao Liu's initiative was good for me, and I also took the initiative to be good to her. But I was still very afraid of being beaten. But it should be fine, Xiao Liu has no object and no husband.
Unexpectedly, I was still beaten by others. After I danced with Xiao Liu tonight, I sent Xiao Liu home. After sending Sydney home, I was beaten. But it was a very dark alley, and then I was pulled in. I still didn't understand anything, not even a few people on the other side, and I was beaten with a bag on my side. After the fight, they left without turning their heads. Later, I learned that these people beat me because of Xiao Liu. The reason is that I danced with Xiao Liu, and then they couldn't dance with Xiao Liu.
To put it bluntly, I feel that I have occupied Xiao Liu alone. Where do I have it, I just dance with Xiao Liu... I was completely scared. This time it was known to my son. Because of this matter, my son also scolded me, my son said, once you are old, don't toss it, okay? How long have you been with us, about three months. He was admitted to the hospital twice in three months and beaten three times. What do you really want? How do you explain to my mother in the future? Wouldn't it be nice if you were a little bit more self-contained? Are you honestly staying at home? Stop going out and causing trouble.
You have to know that no one else is good. What if something happens again next time? Not every time it will not involve life-threatening, if they are cruel. I'm really worried about you going wrong. When my son said this, I was even more aggrieved. I didn't know what to say, I just wanted to dance, but I didn't expect to encounter such a thing. After thinking about it for a long time, I still don't dance, I don't dare to dance anymore. At most, go there and see, I'm definitely not going to dance again. Square dancing for three months, being beaten 3 times, never daring to dance again... One night I went to the square again. But I saw a man being beaten. There is a sense of déjà vu.
Later, I learned that the man was because he grabbed the dance partner with others, and then he would be beaten by others, in order to grab a dance partner, and then they beat up. Isn't that like what I did before? Forget it, I don't dare to jump anymore, I was still holding a fluke mentality. Now it seems that it is really impossible to dance square dance. I don't want to be beaten, if something happens again, I don't know how to explain it to my son, my son said this for my own good. I must take responsibility for myself and hold back the never to jump again. No matter how boring it is, no matter how much I don't have anything to do and don't dance, I'm afraid...
Competing for a dance partner, and then a big fight, such a case is still rare? I believe that everyone has seen this case a lot, right? I also see this case a lot. When you are older, you are more impulsive, and many times some things will be done more extremely. So in order to avoid these things from happening, try not to dance if you can. Whether the other person is single or what, maybe you feel like just dancing. But other people don't think so, whether it is a man or a woman, we must pay attention to such a thing, and we must not such a tragedy occur.
Obviously, he did not have to be beaten, but he was beaten by others. If you beat it once, you can't beat it three times, so why bother? Even if you have thick skin, things will happen. In the face of such a thing, try to avoid what you can avoid. Even if you have to dance, whether it is ballroom dance or square dance, try to pull away a little distance, and don't dance with a person every day. Otherwise it's easy to get out of the way, maybe you just want to dance, but other people don't think so. When tempted, try not to dance as much as possible without dancing, do something else, other things can also exercise, other things can not be solved, not necessarily dancing. #2021加油带头人 #