Hope son Jackie Chan to change his life

In families with limited incomes, parents always weave fantasies and instill stories of heroes in adversity in their children. For example, Ganluo was 12 years old; the children of neighbors were admitted to the Shanghai Institute of Finance and Economics; the children of a relative got rich in business; and so on.

The human mouth, in addition to eating, is talking. The food that can be eaten comes at the cost of labor or money. However, talking is different. Letters open the river, can be endless. Some of the words are very reasonable. I just don't see the specific steps to implement it.

Just saying nothing will change anything.

Jackie Chan is the wish of all parents. However, can parents give correct and specific implementation steps on their children Jackie Chan? At each step, can the parents prepare the corresponding provisions and appropriate necessary conditions?

Li Ka-shing has been in the business world for decades, and first of all he can grasp the wealth himself, so he can replicate all this on his son over and over again. Looking at the top international elite families, their success is copied from generation to generation within the family.

The successful model and experience of the rich can be copied many times in their children. The poor only have unsuccessful experiences and the desire to become a dragon. How many unsuccessful models can bless children's success and pass it on to future generations? This situation is not nothing, but an absolute isolated case, also called a small probability case. Completely negligible.

From 2012 to 2015, my boss was very close to me. Since 2013, I have repeatedly done my job, telling me to buy a small apartment with 60 or 40 square meters in the second ring road of Wuhan, so as to get rid of the guerrilla life of renting everywhere. Helplessly, the family unanimously opposed, and under the rebellion of the people, they only chose to give up and follow the advice of their superiors. In the eyes of the elders at home, it is safest to store limited cash in the bank or hide it at home, and hold it in your hand when you are fine. Can commute to work on time, and have a monthly salary. Everything is in order, how good it seems to the elders of the workers' and peasants' class! At that time, my third cousin saw a relative buying a house in Wujiashan, Wuhan, holding nearly 500,000 yuan in cash. In 2013, the house price of Wujiashan was only 3,000 to 4,000 yuan a square meter. Helplessly, the parents strongly opposed it, and they could only give up. By now, hundreds of thousands of cash lay in the bank. The old man holds the bank passbook and plays with it all the time. The passbook is in hand, rest assured. The idea of retiring as a worker, once a critical illness, with cash, can suffer less in the hospital! The elders had never seen that real estate would be a major event in wealth growth at that time, so they also used their only experience to limit their children's economic activities.

In 2012, my eldest uncle wanted to take over a shop that sold tiles and other building materials for house decoration. His parents also disagreed, and later, under the persuasion and guarantee of his uncle, who had more than 100 million assets, he took out the 200,000 yuan of the pressure field and let him take down the storefront. By 2018, he took this opportunity to buy a large house of about 160 square meters in the city. The car is also available.

Big money depends on fate, and small wealth depends on diligence. I remember a sentence in the "Betrayal" of the Doudou Trilogy Department summed it up well: Entering the Buddha's Gate is not pure, and entering the business world is not wolf-like. The ending of such people often does not have a good ending.

Think back to that year. When the Chu and Han armies fought for supremacy, Xiang Yu tied Liu Bang's parents to liu bang before the two armies threatened Liu Bang to surrender. Liu Bang's handling at that time was really admirable. Further ahead, during the Spring and Autumn Warring States period, Prince Wei escaped from Wei after being convicted of his father. After the old king's death, the throne passed directly to the son of Prince Wei. After that, Prince Wei saw that his son had become king, and he thought of returning to Weiguo. Unexpectedly, he was rejected by the new king and did not allow him to step into the country.

Today, after 40 years of economic construction, China has begun to advocate common prosperity for the whole people. But what can be done to really get rich for all? Certainly not direct money. It turns out that once many people get rich, they tend to fall directly. Statistics show that 70% of people will return to poverty again in the next few years after becoming rich. It is also said that when the Chinese is reduced from 1.4 billion to 6-700 million, everything will be solved. However, with reference to the United States, the total economic volume and scientific and technological plate of the developed countries are larger than those of China, with a population of only 300 million, and it is not poor everywhere! The same is true of Japan and South Korea.

When wealth and opportunity come to you, do you have the ability to catch it and the wisdom to control it?

To get rich together, the first thing is to change people's thinking. Let everyone understand that social wealth is limited. It is the right choice to concentrate money and use it for specific economic development. Only when the economic hematopoietic capacity and the maintenance of reasonable revenue and expenditure are completed, and there is a surplus, is the premise of prosperity. Of course, in the concrete implementation of theory, how can it be implemented in a down-to-earth manner without deviating from the norm is another concrete problem.

During the period from adolescence to the 20s, the influence of parents and grandparents (grandparents and grandparents) on the children is crucial. The age of 20 is also the essence of life. All the members of the family help the 20-year-old to establish a correct outlook on life and make a difference, then this young man really realizes the wish of his father and grandfather - to hope that his son will become a dragon.

Many low-level parents are more than enough and insufficient in their hopes to become jackie chan, and they are absolutely supportive in spirit, but when it comes to getting parents to use the money and energy used to play mahjong and to set an example for their children with the right practical actions, few parents can persist. Ordinary people do not have an adequate supply of resources for their children. It is also confusing in terms of theoretical guidance. Because they themselves have no successful experience to use as a reference. Their children, under blind conditions, can only accumulate experience with their own trial and error. Under such conditions, people who are destined to rise from the bottom are very few individual cases.

Ironically, the more unsuccessful parents are, the more they like to impose their own ideas and demands on their children. Some parents will even say things like "only strong and domineering parents, there is no rainy day" to increase the burden and strength of their children. I remember that when Mr. Yi Zhongtian talked about the choice of his children, Mr. Yi would collect relevant information through his own ability, summarize the advantages and disadvantages, and let the children choose themselves. In a variety of things, the most important thing parents should do is to tutor their children's independent decision-making. Instead of arranging everything for the whole process for the children.

From the age of 20 to 40, in the past 20 years of struggle, if you can achieve some achievements, then the road in the future will naturally be better. After men are over 45 years old, all health functions of the body will decline. After the female animals get married and have children, their bodies will also decline. At this time, if the economic conditions in the family are not improved, then he (or she) can only sacrifice his or her own physical health in exchange for temporary economic gains. After more than 60 years of age, whether you can live a healthy and decent life past 80 years old depends on the previous efforts in the period from 20 to 40 or 50 years old.

The long-term preparation of the individual is important. But the dividends caused by occasional coincidental changes in society are also important. People who stumbled into education jobs in the 80s, today's pension is also impressive. Most of the elementary and junior high school teachers who used to teach me will have pensions close to or more than 5K. If both husband and wife are teachers retired, the pension of the two today will easily exceed 10,000 yuan a month. In small towns outside the sixth tier, this income can completely lead a decent retirement life. Such people, if the two generations work together in the economic construction of the family, it is easier to make their children turn over.

Dragons give birth to dragons, phoenixes give birth to phoenixes, fleas with bed bugs, and the children of rats can fight. Hope to become a dragon into a phoenix, what have you prepared for your children?