Is Leo really "Lion"?

01

When it comes to domineering, many people should have their first reaction being Leo.

Indeed, in the various horoscope personality rankings, Leo is always inseparable from the description of self-confidence and domineering. Probably thanks to the name "Lion", everyone mentions Leo, and the first reaction is the radiant and confident Lion King. In the eyes of most people, the image of Leo is indeed optimistic and cheerful, atmospheric and confident, and will never learn to be low-key.

In fact, fire elephants almost always have this tendency.

No matter what situation they are in, they can always find the right time to show something, as if they were born to live in the eyes of others. Among them, this performance of Leo is the most prosperous.

However, if you assume that Leo is a confident and domineering constellation, then I can only say that your understanding of human nature is still too one-sided.

02

Leo really likes to be in the spotlight.

For this zodiac sign, it is so important to be recognized by others, and it is an exaggeration to say that Leo almost lives for it.

But it should be noted that at this time, the eyes of others must be envious and admired; the focus of Leo's becoming must also be positive and positive.

The logic behind this is actually similar. Lions do crave to be watched, but at the same time they are more afraid of being seen ugly by others. What they fear most is not to lose the eyes of others, not that other people's eyes are no longer focused on themselves, but to let others see their own failures and imperfections.

So the lion you see is often the look he wants you to see, the look he wants you to see after he has carefully decorated, tried to hide, and carefully selected.

03

That's why I say that Leo's domineering spirit is actually disguised.

Behind the seemingly confident, the lion carefully hides its uneasiness and vulnerability. And because of this pursuit of external perfection, the lion has higher requirements for the image he shows, and the need to hide imperfections is also higher.

Let me give you an example.

Many others may think it is a trivial matter that is harmless, such as going out shopping with the wrong pairing of earrings, which has become a big problem in the eyes of the lion.

For the rest of the day, Lions frantically flee from any topic related to "earrings," "jewelry," or even "collocations," and try to avoid being discovered by others as a tiny mistake.

Although in reality no one may notice this slight mismatch.

This constellation has always been like this, being pulled wildly between the two extremes.

On the one hand, it shows an image of more perfect and confident than others, and on the other hand, it is more cautious than others to hide its imperfections. Perfect people don't allow themselves to be flawed, and the two never contradict each other at all.

04

Leo, who seems confident and domineering, is more afraid of his imperfect exposure than anyone else. Leo's "instigation" is also reflected here.

Specifically, they will not do things without 100% certainty, and before they have 100% certainty, the lion's efforts must also be secretly hard work, because the efforts that are not successful are also part of the imperfection in their eyes;

But "winning without much effort" is the basic operation of being a Leo.] 】

So it's easy to understand why Leo's domineering spirit is all disguise.

The unthinking determination you see, the undeniable desire to control, and the self-confidence of the world are all the detailed calculations and plans of the lions. Make sure everything happens as he predicted, and then Leo will press the confirmation button with confidence.

To some extent, the lion is actually very much like an earth elephant, the difference is that the earth elephant is only goal-oriented, while the lion wants 100% perfection from process to goal.

If this perfection cannot be achieved, no matter which step has a slight flaw that the lion does not agree with, sorry, the whole process will be psaa, and it is better to simply and decisively act as if it did not appear in the life of the lion.

Such a lion, do you still feel that he is confident and domineering?

05

As an ordinary person, many times it is not necessary to be too harsh on yourself.

We don't live in the spotlight, and what you think of as "ugly" may not be cared about at all, and your own inner torment is completely superfluous.

Be a little more tolerant of yourself, learn to reconcile with yourself, and accept your imperfections. Between ego and inferiority, find the midpoint of self-confidence, which may be exactly what we should learn.