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If you see this in this life, you will not see each other! A funeral, see life

author:Man of the North 2018

Last night I received news that my lover's grandmother had stopped breathing at two o'clock in the morning yesterday. The lover heard the bad news and burst into tears, I had to persuade her, although this time is useless, after all, her and grandma's feelings are very deep, grandma is very painful to her, but for grandma's situation, the family is also psychologically prepared, because grandma has been comatose two years ago, the old lady in her eighties can be so comatose for two years, you can imagine how much effort the children need to pay day and night monitoring and care. The old man has cultivated four sons in his lifetime, all of whom are teachers, and they are all well-known filial pieties! So the old man's coma can persist for two years itself is a miracle, this miracle is all dependent on the four brothers for two years twenty-four hours of uninterrupted rotation of care, regular fixed points to inject nutritious meals into the stomach tube, what time to eat, a few points of excretion bedside have a detailed record, at that time to see that record really moved me, so filial piety to parents is really rare, the same as children I also feel ashamed. Therefore, the old man's death at this time can also be regarded as the end of his life, in fact, it is also a kind of relief for her. The next day I was buried, according to their customs here, I need to cry and worship, I originally thought that I was in my position, and I had little contact with it, so to be honest, there was not much emotion behind me, and I was worried that I would not be able to cry when the time came. But that's not the case, and it's really happening on this occasion. In the face of such a parting of life and death, there will naturally be a lot of thoughts, there will be a lot of feelings about life, yes, lying here at that moment is the end of life, so that the official painting of a sentence, the coffin board is covered, the nail nail is nailed even if the coffin is finalized. Right or wrong has nothing to do with him. Let future generations comment. The good and bad, the success and failure, and the worries of every loved one have also been put down. There are two parts of the whole process that I particularly remember and that can be painfully felt by onlookers. One is to take one last look at the deceased at the relatives, and after this last glance, the coffin board is covered with heaven and each side, and the person is ghostly from then on. I pulled my wife and said, go and see Grandma for the last time, this time I have seen it, I will not see each other in this life! The words broke out as soon as the wife cried. I actually said this sentence and I was deeply stung uncontrollably. The head of the stage caught a glimpse of three uncles and my father, and even more crying noses and tears, painfully breaking the liver and intestines. In full view of everyone, they hardly look like adults! One by one, they cried with their mouths wide open, Mom, Mom, my mom, my mom, crying and crying! It's like a child can't find his mother. Crying and shouting for Mom. It turns out that the pain of losing your mother when you are old is like losing your mother when you were a child! The same pain is deep in the heart! The second pain that can't bear to look at it is when the coffin is put into the pit, filled with soil one by one, and the last few shovels of soil are about to be covered with coffin plates! Several sons were lying on the mound and crying with their hands on the soil! They know that the soil is finished. I can't see it with my mother in this life! After attending this funeral, it also made me have more understanding and thinking about people's lives! Bless you to have a better and more colorful life!

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