Erniu resigned

Erniu's family is actually not harmonious, the atmosphere can be said to be tense, and the contradiction is between Erniu's mother and grandmother. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult contradiction, the focus of the contradiction is who is in charge, although Erniu's grandmother does not have economic power, she especially likes to be nosy and point fingers at everything. Although Erniu's grandmother is not literate and is a small-footed wife, she is also kind to the three erniu sisters and brothers, and she is a midwife who gives birth to dozens of children, which has a very good reputation to the outside world, but she cannot get along with Erniu's mother. No culture little foot mrs does not mean that there will be no struggle, fighting is not moving, outsiders have always said that the mother is not good, often give the mother a face, speak sarcastically and sarcastically to the extremely high level, and will come to jump the well to hang the farce, and the father is sandwiched in the middle is very sad, the mother complains that the father is not towards himself, and finally the father is often biased towards the grandmother, so the mother has become an isolated person, living extremely bitterly.

My mother's hometown is in the mountains of Hubei Province, when I was a child, there were wolves on the mountain who took away the pigs at night, and after a few days of school, I dropped out of school to herd cattle to feed the cattle and take care of my brother. Later, when she married into a family, she probably quarreled and ran to the city to get lost, and was met by the elders of the village who said that they would find a family for her, so they tricked her into selling her to Erniu's father for a 500 yuan introduction fee. My father was handsome and strong, and his body was similar in age, and his mother was willing to live like this. After the eldest sister was born, her mother carried her back to her hometown, and my father was very worried that my mother would not come back, but I was worried about the excess, and my mother eventually came back and continued to give birth to three children for my father (one died before Erniu). Erniu's second sister was born thin, like a cat, Erniu's grandmother felt that it was a female baby who simply drowned, and Erniu's mother was reluctant to do so, it was her own flesh and bones. But the mother of the second cow did not enjoy the blessing of her children in the end, and before her children could grow up, they died of overwork and illness.

Erniu was admitted to the first year of junior high school in the township, Erniu erjie was also admitted to the county's key high school, and Erniu's eldest sister was in the third year of high school. The economic pressure of the family can be imagined, erniu's father has to desperately earn money to pay tuition, erniu's mother often has been doing farm work alone and is very tired, and there is a cow and a pig to feed at home. Erniu's mother had very little contact with her mother's family, at that time there was no telephone but to write letters, and the annual travel expenses were difficult to afford, so Erniu first set foot on the land of Hubei in the third year of high school, saw his grandmother for the first time, and went to his uncle's house for the first time. In fact, there are only more than 100 kilometers of road, and now it takes only 2 hours to drive, and at that time, there was no direct shuttle to transit several times, coupled with economic difficulties. Impression of erniu three years old uncle aunt came once, the eldest sister rode a bicycle with erniu to pick up, but also fell down, 5 years old erniu brother-in-law came once, the reason is to borrow money to get married, but the erniu family also has no money, can only wait for the harvest to sell out and have money and then lend to the brother-in-law, the brother-in-law lived in the second uncle's house for a period of time to help work, just wait to take the money home, and finally borrowed 500 yuan. In addition, erniu's father finally took Erniu's mother back to his hometown (mountainous area) again in the autumn of the first autumn of Erniu, when Erniu's mother was only 41 years old, but her hair was gray, and she had specially dyed her hair black, and her brother-in-law's family had been settled in the county town. O parents of The Mother of Risi, your daughter only saw you again nearly 15 years after she got married. Erniu's mother has no culture and is illiterate, she can't go back alone, she can't touch the road, and Erniu's father has not taken Erniu's mother back in order to save money, so that he can't see his biological parents for many years, just over 100 kilometers apart. Erniu's parents took Erniu's grandfather back to his hometown for a few days, Erniu finally saw his grandfather for the first time, and his grandmother's love is a good memory for many children, but Erniu saw his grandfather at the age of 11 and only met his grandmother at the age of 18. Instead of the grandmother's function is erniu's aunt, although it is an aunt but the age and erniu are more than 40 years old, the degree of love is no less than that of the grandmother, the aunt is full of doting, will persuade erniu to read well, rarely criticize erniu, so living in the aunt's house is a good memory.