The 49-year-old woman fell in love with the 36-year-old guy for the first time and lamented: it turns out that cheating is this feeling. What's going on? Why is this happening? Today we take a look at this case.
Self-narrator: Ms. Zhang, 49 years old
I am 49 years old this year, because I am a person who is more anxious, because I always want to do things well, but because of this, others have given me a nickname, called strong women, because everything likes to do it myself, although in this way, I improve quickly, but people at the same level as me are very comfortable, on the contrary, I am tired, I have never met a helper who reassures me.
Talking about the family, because of my personality, my husband can't stand it, so I sleep in a room, but I think I'm right, I think more, sometimes I think my husband is too childish, so I don't support him, that is, because of this, two people have more and more contradictions, when the children are at home, it is fine, but the children are not at home, the two people are particularly prone to conflict, many people have come to us to do peace, but it is still useless, marriage can only drag on a day like this.
At the beginning of this year, there was a particularly energetic young man who came to the company, he was Wang Tao, to tell the truth I did not expect him to choose to work under me, because according to what other employees said behind my back, who followed me is unlucky, this point is actually I know, but I just want to do things well, what can I do wrong, what others say, I can only pretend not to hear, every day or pretend to get along well with them.
Wang Tao is a vigorous young man, only 36 years old at the time, it is the best period of development, he came, tirelessly, although I have a lot of criticism of him, but he has been persevering, and doing better and better, so that I also believe more and more in him, in private, we have a good relationship, two people often have contact, so that I also have feelings, he is the most understanding of me, and will take care of me, don't look at me every day is very strong, but I am also very fragile inside, also need someone to accompany, but my husband just does not know, Sometimes it is hard to top with me, so it stimulates me more, Wang Tao will not argue with me, but take the initiative to avoid, and then tell me afterwards, so that I am particularly easy to accept him, he is indeed much better than my husband in doing things.
In this way, I had feelings with Wang Tao, but behind my husband's back, with Wang Tao, I felt as if I had become like a girl, I began to become more gentle, in the eyes of colleagues, I also felt that I had changed a lot, my friends also began to change more, these I do not know, now a lot of things are wang Tao taught me, even for people to deal with the world is his guidance, so I did not expect that after this, now do things more easily than before, many people are willing to communicate with me, that is, I rely more and more on him.
That day I went with Wang Tao to talk about a big customer, at that time this matter was particularly important, but the customer has not meant to sign, that night I drank a lot of wine, only to make the customer happy, so that this single contract was signed, but I also drank a little too much, when Wang Tao helped me to his home, and then wiped my face, when the hot towel on my face, I really felt very warm, I was soft, my eyes actually shed tears, no matter what difficulties I had before, I would not cry, But now I actually shed tears, I really didn't expect that maybe I was touched by Wang Tao, and then he helped me to his bed to sleep, and then went to sleep on the sofa myself, that night, I gave him all my heart.
Conclusion:
Although so, I think that there is no good result in extramarital affairs, if you really love Wang Tao, you should be with him after divorce, so that you can also have an explanation for him.