Going with the flow, going with the flow, being at ease like a cloud, and being free like flowing water is the attitude that life should have. --Yang Dai
Take the path that suits you and don't get lost
Deliberately greeting the public, and forgetting the self, will only bother and trouble the lost path of life. In fact, thousands of people, hundreds of millions of hearts, everyone has their own thoughts and journeys.
The road is easy to walk, but it is only a pass, not a way to achieve the goal, and it will eventually turn at each other and follow its own home. If the life journey is a long way, although the road is straight, it may not be suitable for itself, and the road that suits you may be a grassy landscape, or a small stream, but it has a more pleasant taste.
God does not let all happiness be concentrated on someone, getting love does not necessarily get money, having money does not necessarily have happiness, getting happiness does not necessarily have health, having health may not be everything as desired.
Yin and yang are the way and beauty of nature; and joy and sorrow are the reality and meaning of life, and life is also a particle of nature.
Although the hundred reds and thousands of greens everywhere are brilliant, they are slightly easy to be destroyed by others, and the grass and trees on the cliffs, although slightly lonely and cold, always give people the arrogance and pleasure of the sky.
Loneliness does not mean that loneliness is self-congratulatory and inferior, it is precisely the maturity and stability after experiencing wind and rain and pain, and it is also the attitude of life that is indifferent to the world after being full of vicissitudes.
No one has taught us the attitude, degree and depth of how to deal with the world, nor the standard of the world, some are just indifferent to self-knowledge and safely cross.
Don't look up, don't look down, look straight ahead
Our suffering comes mostly from comparison and calculation. There is no need to climb high in everything, be harsh and demanding, do not be distorted by gains and losses, decadent because of success or failure, and eventually suffer the body and mind, and lose the mind.
When we read books, we always appreciate and appreciate a book from the highest level. We make the rope, always judging the quality of the rope from the weakest section.
There is a measure to do things, and there is a size to deal with the world. With a degree in the chest, you will be free and at ease in the tedious life, the lightness and impetuosity will always be parallel and will not blend, and you will be far away from the latter if you choose the former.
In fact, life is simple just a choice question, the key lies in their own cognition and trade-offs.
Although people are small, although life is short, but people can learn, people can cultivate themselves, people can improve themselves, people's precious lies in people themselves, not the vision and influence of others.
The people who are surrounded by the city want to escape, the people standing outside the city want to rush in, whether it is marriage or career, most of the desires of life are like this.
As Mr. Yang Dai said:
"In life, there are people who are as strong as wine, crazy as drunk, but they wake up and have nowhere to go. The fate is deep and shallow, so on: countless encounters, countless separations, perhaps unwilling, perhaps expecting, and finally enlightened, it is better to keep a humble heart, a faint but shallow smile. ”
The human condition of the world is more delicious than the bright moon breeze; It can be read as a book, but it can be watched as a play, which is the awakening after you chew and precipitate.
The classics in the book, the magnificence in the play, even if they are longed for and admired, after all, they are only literary and artistic works, and life needs to be real, and life is pursued steadily.
With insight and pattern, the world will always be its own
Only those who are humble are most fortunate to see the truth of human feelings, not artistic performances facing the audience.
Man can condense into a stone, lurk to the bottom, let time rush through the body like water, he only knows that he is in the water, and he does not feel the water.
Disappear among the people, like water droplets wrapped in the seawater, like small wildflowers hidden in the grass, do not seek "do not forget me", do not seek "sai peony", idle and comfortable, get what they want.
If a person does not want to climb high, he is not afraid of falling, nor does he have to be squeezed out, he can keep his innocence, become his nature, and concentrate on completing what he can do.
There is a passage in "One Hundred Years Of Testimonials":
After a person has undergone different degrees of exercise, he will obtain different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. Like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, the more intense the fragrance.
We once longed so much for the waves of fate, and in the end we found that the most beautiful scenery of life is the calm and calm in the heart...
We looked forward to the approval of the outside world, and finally realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others!
Everyone knows what they want and what to give up. However, as he walked, he changed color, lost himself, trapped in the fog of life, curled up in the quagmire of progress, lacked the courage to break through the fence, and blunted the ability to awaken himself.
There is insight, there is a pattern, the world is always its own; no insight, no pattern, can only live as the shadow of others.