I was very happy with my friend Brother K and my elder sister Xiao Ju, who had not seen him for a long time. Passing by a persimmon tree, I saw this picture in the picture above. We are all a little emotional, looking at such a cold day, still proud of the persimmon standing on the branches, we can't help but stop and watch, think. They asked me to talk about my feelings first, preferably a little poetic.
I said, well, two persimmons reminded me of "deep friendship", followed by a "poetic flourishing" in the face of the wind and frost: a pair of persimmons facing the wind and frost, like soldier brothers who held their positions. They proudly resisted the onslaught of the harsh winter and fought side by side without abandonment.
My sister said meaningfully: This may not be "love" or "friendship", but other reasons! Little K agreed, and said worriedly: This is not abandoned, like one of my employees.
"What's going on?" I asked incomprehensibly.
Xiao K said that he wanted to dismiss an employee, but the employee expressed his loyalty with a handful of snot and tears, saying that he did not want to leave, and he would not abandon the boss and the company.
It is supposed to be a good thing to be so loyal, but little K's expression makes me wonder. Immediately after, Little K explained that this employee had been in his company since the day he joined the job, and if he was dismissed now, the employee was worried that he would not find a job, so he did not want to leave.
Hearing this, I couldn't help but interject, "Won't it?" After saying that, he seriously asked Little K whether he had any other relationship with this employee. Because Little K is a boy, this employee is a girl, and they are all single.
Little K righteously said that they are just the relationship between the boss and the employee, the relationship between colleagues, and there is no other private affection. To make it clearer, he went on to explain that all he was thinking about was the employee's cousin being his good buddy.
Hearing this, the senior sister let out a long sigh. Because I was wearing a mask, I couldn't see the expression of my sister's entire face, but her eyes were deeply helpless, and Xiao K also keenly captured these, so he carefully asked the senior what was wrong?
The sister said that xiao K encountered this kind of "no abandonment" and she experienced the "no abandonment" is very similar, at that time she wanted to divorce but the husband refused to live, because the mother-in-law is her aunt's relative, she also thought about other relationships. After saying that, my sister added with a sigh: "My husband and I are not abandoned!" But marriage is not happy. ”
Little K said with some sadness that the words of his predecessors reminded him of his sister, and his sister and brother-in-law also involved some interests because of business reasons, and they did not abandon the bad marriage.
Little K also said that "not leaving and not abandoning" is originally beautiful, but it is not entirely so; employees and bosses do not give up, because the interests are understandable. But the inseparability in marriage made him particularly sad.
My sister said, yes, some do not leave, hidden more stories; some do not leave, but they have no choice. People like not to give up, but it is necessary to understand some of the truths of not leaving, especially in marriage.
Little K said that although he does not have a girlfriend, he hopes that the future married life must be happy, and the partner's inseparability is because of the love from the heart, that is, the kind that comes from pure joy, not any interest, or anything else.
The elder sister was quite emotional, and said with deep meaning: "In the sea of people, we are one of them." In other people's bodies, there are our shadows, our stories, and I don't know if others have experienced it. ”
Finally, at their suggestion, I documented the process in writing. In particular, I would like to say that, as Little K said, may all the "inseparable and non-abandonment" in marriage have nothing to do with any interests, nor are they for other reasons, but from the heart of love, derived from pure joy...