One is a gymnastics queen, one is a diving queen,
As world champions, how are their parenting concepts different?
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The iron-blooded mother of extreme self-discipline - Liu Xuan
Compared with the encounters of other female athletes marrying into the giants after retiring, Liu Xuan is particularly special: extremely low-key love with artists, and after marriage, the husband and wife work together to live and struggle together.
After retiring from the army, Liu Xuan also showed extraordinary self-discipline in sports in life. Strong time management, college entrance, acting as an actor, opening a studio, acting as a host, constantly stepping out of her comfort zone, challenging herself, super self-discipline has allowed her to achieve good results in these areas.
In the show, Xiao Wukong found that Liu Xuan not only self-disciplined herself, but also showed her admiration for self-discipline for her 4-year-old son Xiong Zhao. Although Xiao Wukong had learned a lot about the strict education of Tiger Mother, he was still shocked to see Liu Xuan's iron-blooded education.
How strict is the education of Olympic champion mother Liu Xuan?
Liu Xuan's husband Wang Tao commented: Liu Xuan is an iron-blooded education, as long as she decides on one thing, it must be completed.
As a world champion, she applied the high-intensity training methods she had received to her son, which can be seen from the name of her son "XiongZhi".
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Super self-disciplined parenting
As Liu Xuan's husband said, every parenting rule of Liu Xuan is an "iron law": the 24 hours a day are precisely divided into each hour, from 6:30 a.m. to 9 p.m., and there are things to do at each time. The schedule is carried out exactly according to the schedule, and the sleep time is even accurate to the minute.
The 4-year-old male needs to practice writing, draw, exercise and learn English every day. When his son was throwing a tantrum, Liu Xuan said: "You have to write when you cry, you have to write if you don't cry, you have to write happily, and you have to write when you roll over." Liu Xuan himself said: At this time, he is more like a coach.
Liu Xuan also has a sticker reward form every week, and her son has to get 31 stickers a week to qualify. There will also be parent reviews below, write down the shortcomings of this week, and improve.
Strict dietary control
Not only is education strict, Liu Xuan is more rigorous about her children's diet. In order to make the child nutritionally balanced, each ingredient is weighed with an electronic measuring spoon, and the stewed eggs must be timed by mobile phone.
Xiong Zhao is 4 years old, and his meals are still unsalted. As for snacks, it is even more resolute to eliminate.
In a later interview, the staff asked, "Have you ever eaten jelly?" chocolate? Ice cream? ”
The answer is all no. I don't even know what jelly is.
The child's father couldn't look at it and thought his son was too pitiful. During the meal, Wang Tao picked up a cookie to seduce the child, and what all the audience did not expect was that the 4-year-old Male Zhao Directly refused, and called it a "sugar-coated cannonball".
He turned to his mother and asked for credit: "Mom, am I doing a good job?" ”
Liu Xuan smiled and praised: "Very good, you are particularly disciplined!" ”
Liu Xuan's self-discipline has already profoundly affected the child, she explained: Early childhood is a critical period for the child's physical development, the stomach is good, the teeth are good, all diets must be strictly controlled, and then there will be better physical fitness. When he grows up, he can eat anything.
Fully protected companionship
Not only that, but what is even more surprising is that Xiong Zhao had not watched TV until he was three years old! The first time I watched TV was the Spring Festival Gala program of that year, and it was only 10 minutes.
In order not to let the child be attracted to the TV, Liu Xuan led by example and never watched TV in front of the child. In order not to let the child develop the habit of playing with the mobile phone, in front of the child, Liu Xuan only uses the mobile phone to make calls.
Remembering the talented woman Wu Yishu who was admitted to Tsinghua before, her father did not use a mobile phone after work, from Liu Xuan, it is not difficult to find that she believes that the self-discipline of her parents is the biggest motivation for children to develop good habits.
Many people feel that Liu Xuan's iron blood is unacceptable, and Liu Xuan responded online: Am I strict? I'm just being a mom by half an athlete's standard, how can I be iron-blooded?
Having said that, many netizens, and even Liu Xuan's husband, will complain that they are too cold-blooded, in fact, Liu Xuan is only a little strict with her son's dietary requirements, in other aspects, Liu Xuan loves Xiong Zhao very much.
Liu Xuan, who posted 8 parenting diaries, quickly appeared on the hot search on the same day, and 8 diaries recorded in detail the daily diet, sleep, and illness records from the day of his son's birth to the present.
With the broadcast of the program, there have also been more and more voices of recognition and praise. In Liu Xuan's house, we see that the 4-year-old Xiong Zhao is very tutored and understands the rules: brushing his teeth and spitting on gentlemen, eating is not allowed to shave rice, dishes and chopsticks should be taken lightly, etc., and he will personally make beautiful head flowers for his newborn sister.
In the face of netizens' comments of "too much", "too cruel" and "heartache for children", Liu Xuan did not rush to explain:
"The more disciplined, the freer, the more rules, he's free. There is no complete freedom, and society has social boundaries. ”
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Grounded iron fist elite education method - Guo Jingjing
Mentioning Guo Jingjing before, people can never avoid the topic of "diving queen" and "rich daughter-in-law".
Nowadays, in addition to the "fairy love" with Huo Qigang, the different "elite parenting" of the husband and wife is more eye-catching.
A few days ago, Huo Qigang accidentally exposed the interior of 160 million mansions on social platforms.
Netizens' focus is on simple furniture, yellowed air conditioning and slightly cramped cramped spaces.
The education of the rich in our imagination is the luxury and exquisite food and clothing and the rich support of thousands of dollars.
But after seeing the parenting of Huo Guo and his wife, I found that the real elite education is not smashed by money.
Public welfare labor-style parenting
At the beginning of the outbreak of the epidemic in Wuhan, Guo Jingjing and her husband Huo Qi immediately donated 70 million yuan to the Wuhan disaster area, and it was not until long after the donation that it was exposed by the media. The couple is very low-key, with almost no formal media coverage, and no hot search.
After the donation, Guo Jingjing did not idle, and then took the initiative to join the volunteer federation and participate in epidemic prevention activities with other volunteers. In this volunteer activity, Guo Jingjing helped cut soap and subcontract masks, for this activity, Guo Jingjing also said that she hopes to educate her three children, how to protect themselves and care for others.
Guo Jingjing not only leads by example, but is also willing to let the children born with golden keys suffer together.
When other children sat in the air-conditioned room watching cartoons, Guo Jingjing and his wife took the children to plant seedlings in the scorching sun.
The couple is dressed modestly, and the child wears a pair of rain boots. The family of three bent over the field to plant seedlings, covered in mud, but their pleasant atmosphere looks very warm through the picture.
After a hard farming experience, you will eat three very simple home-cooked dishes: scrambled eggs with tomatoes, fried potato chips, etc. Between the coarse tea and light rice, the child's face is a satisfied smile.
Huo Qigang said: "Today's children grow up in a happy era, they have not been hungry, and picky eating and waste have become habits. They need to know where food comes from, learn to cherish it, and learn to be content! ”
Last year, there were also "working photos" of Guo Jingjing's children on social media, and the two little guys were washing the car and looking very focused.
From the children's clothing, it can be seen that it is a very cold winter, and although the two children are clumsy, they cannot hide the serious look of the children.
Netizens have laughed at themselves in the comment area: "The children of the rich will wash the car, and the children of their own families will not even wash the dishes!" ”
Hard-working parenting
In addition, making children suffer is not the amateur activities of Guo Jingjing and her husband and wife with children, but penetrates into all aspects of life.
They will buy clothes for children at carpets and discount stores:
Take your child to the subway station, let him hang a public welfare fundraising notice on his body, and help the Women's Federation raise funds for the charity sale.
To make children suffer is not to be unloving, but to be a more responsible love.
As netizens commented on Guo Jingjing's family: it turns out that the rich are not money, but education.
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Parental solidarity is the cornerstone of family education
Gymnastics queen Liu Xuan, diving queen Guo Jingjing, it does not matter who has a better education.
What we should learn and learn from is the parenting thinking of the two champions.
Such an iron fist education can be carried out smoothly, in the final analysis, because on the issue of children's education, parents can unify their positions, and even unify the whole family to resolutely implement their own educational concepts.
Guo Jingjing's father-in-law Huo Zhenting once commented on Guo Jingjing, and the management of children is very strict. He complained: "Gentleness is only for outsiders to see, and I am not given any face at home." Grandpa was forced to unite with Guo Jingjing in education.
Why? Because the child must finish his homework before he can play with his grandfather.
Then to Liu Xuan, although she and her husband Wang Tao have different opinions on the education of their children, the two will never disagree in front of their children, and they are peacefully communicating behind their backs.
Husband Wang Tao said bluntly:
"My wife's and I's educational philosophy has never been particularly synchronized, but now we can only watch from the sidelines."
Although he did not agree with his wife's way of education, he would still choose to unite with his wife. Even when the child appears to be resistant, he will help Liu Xuan convince his son.
Educator Sukhomlinsky once said:
The father's requirements for the child must be consistent with the mother's requirements for the child. As long as the child feels that the mother and the father have different views on the concepts of "can", "can't", "should", "should not", etc., then even the most reasonable demands will be violent, coercive, and trampling on freedom and desire. (1）
children's education,
Parents need to be consistently on the united front.
Such an education,
The last winner will be the child.