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Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
Rainie Yang has a song, and the first four lyrics are particularly well written:
"Ambiguity makes people feel wronged, can't find evidence of love, when to move forward and when to give up, and don't even have the courage to hug."
Love is something that everyone pursues, but not everyone can have a beautiful love.
Meeting the right person and having a perfect love is probably the life that everyone yearns for, but there will always be some people who "can't love".
Sanmao said: "I can't hide my liking for a person, even if I cover my mouth, I will run out of my eyes." ”
Liking someone, but it can't be suppressed, no matter how restrained, each other's eyes will hide evidence of love for each other. These "interactions" between men and women are actually ambiguous with each other.
The boundary of love is whether the opposite sex has contact, but when two people have already been in relationship with each other, it shows that the factor of love in the heart has been generated.
Loving someone is just that. People who have you in their hearts can't help but pay attention to everything about you. I care about your life, and you tell me to take good care of your body, so that each other can have a kind of warmth of being cared for.
Ambiguity, although it will make people have a kind of sourness that they like but cannot get close to, but it will make people feel a very special sweetness. Even if there is no clear identity, no reason to be together, guarding the side in another way is also a comfort to the soul.
Whether a person has feelings for you as a normal friend or something else can be seen in the chat between two people.
The relationship between the opposite sex is not ordinary, mainly reflected in the chat, when the heart can not suppress the like, there will be active and deliberate chat, which is also the most obvious way to express love.
Ordinary friends have the identity of ordinary friends, and his words and words will appear very polite. If it's someone with a crush on you, what you say will always look different.
Two people with ambiguous relationships will not just chat, but more to visit each other to see if they have a good feeling for themselves. It is only a simple communication, but it has expressed what is in the heart and what is thought.
"The eyes are the windows of the mind". When you have admiration for each other, then the eyes can't help but pay attention, and the eyes that look at each other will be full of appreciation.
It is difficult for ordinary friends of the opposite sex to have eye contact. Men and women who have an unusual relationship, just eye contact, and even on the momentary dodge of eye contact, you can feel that the relationship between two people is not ordinary.
When there are others, the eyes of the two people gather together, and at that moment, it seems that there are a thousand words to tell each other, but they can never say it, and can only use their eyes to convey their hearts.
Don't ignore these "interactions", in fact, this is also the proof that you are liked, if you still can't guess a person's mind, you may wish to start from these "interactions", maybe you can find the right person.
Love or no love, can not be hidden, whether it is the love of two loves, or the ambiguity of the lovers above Youda.
Men and women in ambiguous periods, although they can't have "I miss you". "I love you" is such an obvious expression of love as the word. But they will show a tacit understanding beyond ordinary people.
Sometimes, the reason why a person loves but can't love may be out of his own shy personality, it may be that he has encountered the opposition of his family, or he may not have guessed the other party's thoughts, in short, he missed the person he once loved the most.
With these "interactions" between men and women, the relationship will be ambiguous. Many times, with these "interactions" between the opposite sex, the relationship is no longer ordinary.
Fate is a thing that is fleeting, and no one will always stand where you are. When the one who appears is what you want and love in your heart, you may as well be brave once.
Author: Ling Mai, a girl who likes words, is very happy to meet you in my words, and is willing to use the warmest brushstrokes to accompany you to live your life into poetry.