When did you first return to your mother's house when you were married?
I used to think that the world was very small, as long as you wanted to go home, you could go back; what was you afraid of marrying away? It takes less than 2 hours by plane to get home.
After marrying far, I found that the farthest road is the road back to my mother's home, Chongqing married Xishuangbanna, saying that the distance is not too far, saying that there are more than 1,000 kilometers not far.
When I was married far away, the first time I returned to my mother's house was when the child was 1 year old and 10 months old, that is, almost 3 years after marriage, during this period, it was not that I did not have money to go back, nor did I have no time to go back, but I did not have to go back. Married in December 2018, in January 2019 I found out that I was pregnant and wanted to be a mother, and I was extremely excited. Excitement but 2-3 days, hyperemesis gravidarum ensued, bedridden [cover face] can not eat, can not move, the big New Year in the hospital, had to return the booked ticket, hyperemesis to birth, at the end of September 2019, turned around, finally the child was born, wait until the New Year When the child also has 3 months, booked the ticket, bring the husband and the child home together how good, who knows the epidemic is coming, and forced to cancel the ticket. From March to August 2020, my mother came to bring my grandson, and my mother was with us (it was too difficult to bring my child when I was a child), and my mother said, don't go back, afraid that the child will not be satisfied, so shelved the matter of going home. Thinking that the New Year in 2020 can always go back, who knows that the epidemic has recurred, due to the particularity of the work, it is required that it is not necessary to go out of Xishuangbanna, and it is impossible to go back. During the New Year, I hid alone in the bed and cried. Until 2021, in July, I finally took my family back to my mother's house for the first time, stayed for 10 days, and rushed back to Banna overnight due to the outbreak of the epidemic in Chongqing.
Today, invited by a friend to eat pig-killing rice, a meal of pig-killing, let me think of my hometown, miss the situation of killing pigs when I was a child, homesickness spontaneously, I admit, I am homesick again, far married me, in addition to homesickness, everything else is fine.