During this time, the headlines of the entertainment industry were dominated by the things of big S and Wang Xiaofei, and after so many years of trouble, the result was still divorced. However, their divorce has pushed Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao and his wife to the outlet, why is this?
There is news that a few days before Wang Xiaofei and Big S divorced, Wang Xiaofei and Qin Hao had a party, and from the photos, the two people chatted happily. They are all about to get divorced, is it really good to still be outside and Qin Hao to talk about wine?
Therefore, some netizens speculated: Big S and Wang Xiaofei are gone, how far can Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing go?
Because many people know that these two couples have very similarities, Qin Hao and Wang Xiaofei have the same straight male attributes, and Big S and Yi Nengjing are called: the combination of heaven "doing", what does it mean? Just one word: do.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing are not good-looking for a reason, just look at the current situation of Big S and Wang Xiaofei can guess one or two, although the latter frequently show love on the screen, but the truth of the matter has not escaped the audience's eyes.
However, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing had been married for several years, and there was no emotional friction that had been pulled out. The number of shows of love is increasing, and the career is also growing strongly.
Then many netizens are confused, how can the same configuration not produce the same effect? The reasons are as follows:
1. Rush to life in marriage
We all know that Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing had a marriage, and then it ended hastily because of emotional differences. But Yi Nengjing did not immediately throw herself into the arms of other men, and waited for five years in the middle, until Qin Hao appeared.
They attended the same party, at the party, the two just maintained eye contact, Yi Nengjing did not call Qin Hao, but Qin Hao was deeply trapped, because he had begun to like Yi Nengjing since he was 9 years old.
A few days later, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing sat at the table, Qin Hao expressed his love for Yi Nengjing, but Yi Nengjing, who had been hurt by marriage, remained highly sensitive, she did not want to be hurt again, she rejected Qin Hao.
She said: I'm sorry, I don't want to be in love, I just want to get married! I can't afford to play with you, and we won't contact each other again.
I thought that after all the words had been said, Qin Hao should not bother himself again. What Yi Nengjing did not expect was that Qin Hao constantly invited Yi Nengjing, and the two also talked about getting married.
In fact, talking to Qin Hao about feelings Yi Nengjing is bottomless, first, he is ten years older than Qin Hao, and he says that women will grow older than men, which is one of the problems that Yi Nengjing is worried about. Second, Yi Nengjing had been married and had a child with her, and she was afraid that she would not be able to pass the level of Qin Hao's parents.
However, the issue she was worried about was completely out of Qin Hao's consideration, he had his own family status, could make decisions that suited him, and it was said that when he fell in love with Yi Nengjing, he had already obtained the consent of his family.
Even if it is a flash marriage, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing have already communicated with each other,convinced that the other party is the person they are looking for.
Since each of them has put each other in their hearts, what is the opinion of outsiders to them?
2. Mutual tolerance and mutual understanding
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing are completely different in personality, Qin Hao has a straight personality, while Yi Nengjing's personality is biased towards the small woman type.
Two people with different personalities together, replaced by other people, are definitely prone to conflict.
However, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing can tolerate each other, keep each other's personality characteristics firmly in mind, and when one of them does something that the other party cannot understand, they can be tacit and understand each other.
Yi Nengjing sometimes flirts with Qin Hao, letting Qin Hao call himself "baby", and Qin Hao replies to her with his straight male personality: Baby, are you quiet? Changing to someone else, may have been unhappy, but Yi Nengjing did not feel how it was, and often treated it as a joke.
Although two people have different personalities, it does not prevent them from supporting each other's interests and hobbies.
Good love is that although your dream is not my dream, I will do my best to fulfill your dream.
3. Recognize yourself
Many people see Yi Nengjing on the screen selling and pretending, saying that she is acting, but in fact, this is her nature.
Now 50-year-old Yi Nengjing can still be rejuvenated, which is not unrelated to her having a pure childlike heart. She is not bound by the etiquette imposed on others by this society, she wants to live beautifully for everyone to see, she is a rare "jade girl" in this era.
Although Yi Nengjing behaved like a little girl, she could see it more clearly than anyone.
She said: "I have been married twice, marriage does not give you a sense of security, you still have to rely on yourself to feel safe. ”
Someone asked her, you are ten years older than Qin Hao, do you treat him as a younger brother?
Yi Nengjing asked the other party: Will you marry your brother?
I love him, not because he's young, but because he's a good man and I can get the love I want from him.
She said that since she was willing to marry him and become a couple, she should not care about his origins, his family situation, and his age.
If I always think I'm older than him, then why should I marry him?
Compared with Qin Hao, Yi Nengjing has a richer life experience, she has been in the entertainment circle for so many years, and she knows better what she wants.
She knows how to get along between husband and wife, and she knows how to keep that bottom line.
Be able to tolerate each other's uniqueness and inadequacies, while lowering their own stature and standing on the same running line with each other.
Successful couple relationships, that's all.