When it comes to Huang Qishan, more people may have gradually learned about her through the 2013 "I Am a Singer" show.
At that time, as soon as she opened her voice with a song "Waiting", she was amazed by the four seats, and people were surprised, how can such a good sound sound be heard before?
For Huang Qishan, everything that happened that year was also dreamy.
Originally, she was somewhat resistant to coming to the show, because she was still studying at the Singapore Theological Seminary and was worried about delaying her course.
Later, even if I agreed to participate, I was only ready to sing twice, and the experience was enough.
But I didn't expect that fate is so magical, how hard I worked before, that is, no one knew her, this time I didn't care much about a singing opportunity, but let her accidentally turn red, become a "yellow mother", into the public's vision.
01 In a lonely childhood, Grandpa and his model play became the best companion
Huang Qishan was born in Chongqing, and her mother gave birth to her when she was 19 years old.
The mother, who was not yet truly mature, handed Huang Qishan over to her father in order to make a living.
When she was a child, Huang Qishan rarely enjoyed the love of her parents.
She lived with her grandfather in a large courtyard of the Shangqing Temple, and her grandfather was a Peking Opera ticket fan, and when she was young, she would also sing operas such as "Wise Tiger Mountain" and "ShaJiabang".
The applause and smiles of the neighbors became the biggest motivation for the young Huang Qishan, who felt that she had received attention and great satisfaction, so she loved singing more and more.
That is, since then, little Huang Qishan has buried the wish of "must be red" in her heart, because after the red, everyone looks at their eyes differently.
In 1980, 12-year-old Huang Qishan heard Teresa Teng's voice for the first time.
Since then, "On the Side of the Water", "Sweet Honey", "Story of a Small Town", etc., have knocked open The Atrium of Huang Qishan's heart and also determined her faith in music.
At the age of 18, Huahua Dance Troupe enrolled, Huang Qishan was excited, this is the place where her dreams come true!
So she asked her stepmother for a 200 yuan deposit behind her mother's back and became one of them.
One day, Xiao Jianhu, the captain of the song team, held a guitar and sang himself in the courtyard, and Huang Qishan sat next to the captain and hummed along.
The captain looked down on her a little at first, and teased her: "Or will you try it?" ”
Huang Qishan began to sing a song by Su Rui's "Tomorrow or Continue", and she can still remember the change in the captain's facial expression at that time.
At that time, the captain was very surprised after listening to it, put down the guitar and strongly asked her to join his singing team, so Huang Qishan had the identity of a singer for the first time.
02 In order to find the opportunity to "drift south", I finally met a noble person
At that time, there was a "Bu Tong 100" in Guangzhou, which was the distribution place of Chinese pop music and the best song hall at that time.
Na Ying, Cui Jian, Lin Yilun and others have all performed there.
Huang Qishan felt that she was no worse than them, and thought of going to compete with them.
Therefore, 21-year-old Huang Qishan went to Guangzhou alone to work hard, and after applying for the exam three times, fortunately, she was promoted by Taiwanese musician Chen Peter and finally became a signed singer of "Bu Tong 100".
At that time, her appearance fee was only a mere 47 yuan per game, which was much less than her previous appearance fee in other resident bars, but Huang Qishan was very satisfied.
"At that time, my biggest dream was not to make money, but to become red at all costs."
She felt she had seized a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, but found that she did not get the exposure she expected.
Someone pointed out to her, you can't be red, maybe it has something to do with your appearance, you should go fiddle and make yourself beautiful.
She was a little hesitant after listening to it, and she also shook her head about whether to "move her face" or not.
Later, she figured out that her voice belonged to God's appreciation of food, and if she moved casually, it would affect her singing.
After figuring it out, when someone talked about her appearance, she simply and directly:
"Listen to my song with your eyes closed!"
Huang Qishan's singing ability is beyond doubt.
Han Hong, the eldest sister in the music world, even said something like this:
I dreamed of singing as well as Huang Qishan.
But no matter how hard she tried, she just couldn't get up.
At her lowest point, she wanted to change careers, and she really did a lot of other things.
For example, opening a hot pot shop, a clothing store, and even working as a temporary female worker.
In 2005, Wong joined the church and four years later she went to Singapore Theological Seminary to study music.
Slowly, she began to realize the change in her voice and figured out who she was singing for, red or not, she had already put it down in her heart.
Later, everyone knows, in 2013, she became popular because of her participation in "I Am a Singer".
03 The emotional experience is too bumpy, and the three marriages allow Huang Qishan to see through life
Huang Qishan's feelings, just like the twisted silk of her name "Qi", twist and turn.
In her first marriage, Huang Qishan repeated her mother's mistakes and married herself very early, when she was only 20 years old.
Due to the divorce of her parents, Huang Qishan has always been very lonely inside, and she longs for her to have a complete family, thinking that if she marries early, she will get the love she wants.
So, when she met a man in the song and dance troupe that made her heart move, she did not hesitate, and the moth threw herself into it like a fire.
It's just that she is too young to have any social experience, and in the face of such a problem as marriage, she obviously does not have enough ability to bear it, and this marriage hastily ended.
In the second marriage, she married the famous Taiwanese musician Tu Huiyuan.
When she was still singing in Guangzhou "Bu Tong 100", once Tu Huiyuan took a group of her friends to listen to the song, saw Huang Qishan, who was singing on the stage, and was instantly attracted by her voice, and the two met in this way.
Later, the two fell in love, and Huang Qishan followed Tu Huiyuan to Taiwan to develop, and the two recorded "The Man Hiding Behind the Music" together.
After getting married, in order to better take care of her family, Huang Qishan resolutely quit the music scene for love at the peak of her career.
In the first two years of marriage, Huang Qishan was still very happy, but gradually, the two argued more and more, and quarrels became a common thing for the two.
This marriage that Huang Qishan thought could grow old for only 5 years lasted, and it ended in divorce.
At that time, the divorce of the two was hyped up by the media, and some people said that the two came together because of music, but they separated again because of the disagreement of ideas; some people speculated that there was a third party involved.
In short, the failure of this marriage made Huang Qishan physically and mentally exhausted, and all her thoughts were gray, and her career and love at that time did not exist overnight.
When the two were good, Tu Huiyuan created the songs "Cut Love" and "Listen to the Sea" for Huang Qishan, and later due to the divorce of the two, Tu Huiyuan gave these two songs to Zhang Huimei to sing, and did not expect That Zhang Huimei to rely on these two songs to become popular all over the country.
Huang Qishan said that she was very open to this:
In fact, there is really nothing to regret, if it is not yours, it is not yours.
The third marriage was that she fell in love with Zhang Ying, the music director of her studio, after participating in "I Am a Singer".
In fact, the two are old acquaintances, when Huang Qishan was stationed in Hainan, Zhang Ying was the drummer in the store, but he did not have much contact.
After the reunion of the two, Huang Qishan felt that the door of her heart was opened again, and she bravely and enthusiastically took the initiative to pursue Zhang Yinglai, and said that for him, she could give up her career.
Finally, at the end of 2012, the two formalized their relationship and registered their marriage the following summer.
It may be that after two failed marriages, Huang Qishan was particularly sensitive to her marriage.
She has to check Zhang Ying's mobile phone every day, and even her agent will go to ask Zhang Ying's mobile phone to see, which makes Zhang Ying feel helpless and feel that he is not trusted.
The marriage lasted only three years before it ended with rumors of infidelity.
Paparazzi filmed Huang Qishan and a man in a hotel in pairs of pictures, the truth of the fact we do not know, but her third marriage, indeed ended again.
Looking back at Huang Qishan's past emotional experience, perhaps due to her lack of love in her childhood, she lacked a sense of security, which led to a strong desire to control, which also laid hidden dangers for unhappy marriages.
Huang Qishan, who was completely disappointed in the marriage, stopped talking about love and spent all her energy on her singing career.
Where the time is, the reward is there.
Her album "Xiaoxia" was nominated for the "27th Taiwan Golden Melody Awards" for best Chinese singer, and the following year won the "21st Global Chinese Chart and Asian Influence Ceremony" Best Album Award for her album "Everything Will Pass".
How brilliant the career is, how lonely the feelings are.
Huang Qishan, who is now 53 years old, in addition to Du Haitao's "dry son", has no marriage and no children, and she really feels a little regretful.
And after experiencing the popularity brought to her by "I Am a Singer", she is not as persistent as before;
For her, red or not red is less important, she wants to be a gospel singer, with her own stories and love to light up other people's lives.
Now Huang Qishan has a lot of public welfare activities every week, which makes her very busy, but also very fulfilling.
Perhaps only in this way can she forget her past rather bumpy experiences and pains.
Some time ago, Huang Qishan was invited to become the third guest of Hunan Tv's "Singing Caravan", singing a song "Sunny Day", the audience sang and laughed, and the atmosphere was harmonious.
Now, her heart is stronger than before, and many pasts have turned into smoke clouds in her heart, precipitating herself more completely.
Throughout Huang Qishan's life experience, she has a voice that has been kissed by God, but she has not had a good life that has been favored by God.
On the one hand, it may be related to her original family, the misfortune of childhood makes her sense of grasping too strong, because she is too afraid that her happiness will be lost, so it leads to her control and suspicion, which makes the people around her have a sense of depression and want to escape;
On the other hand, it may also be related to her own personality. Huang Qishan is a typical Chongqing girl, with a hot and impulsive personality, and often offends people when she speaks.
In such a complicated place as the entertainment industry, it is obvious that such a character will become a stumbling block to her development, and even she herself said:
From childhood to adulthood, because I was so talented, I began to see no one, very proud, and could not hide the sharp edge. Sometimes it's not quite right to speak and can hurt others.
In this life, success will have many accidental factors, but there are also many inevitable factors.
But "character determines destiny" definitely makes sense.
Do you agree?