In my four or five years, I have not been in love, and I have not met a girl who has three views. The main reason is that it is busy at work, from 6:30 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., basically in the company. The second is that the circle is very small, and there is no opportunity to communicate with the opposite sex.
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Like less than the same, in recent years, takeaways, couriers, online car drivers and other new formats of employment single groups due to narrow dating circles, busy work, looking for objects has become a problem in their lives.
The 11th Blind Date Carnival, co-sponsored by the Municipal Federation of Trade Unions and the 19th floor, is nearing its end, and the organizers focus on the new format and new employment single group, and launch the "Blind Date Warm New Series Action" for the new format and new employment single group during the event.
01 Interview with single group figures in new formats and new employment
Restore the most authentic state of life
At the 11th Blind Date Carnival, the Municipal Federation of Trade Unions invited representatives of the new format and new employment single group to conduct exclusive interviews with them and fully understand what they look like in life and work.
"When I was young, I was busy earning money and didn't have time to fall in love. It's a bit rushed now, but it's just a matter of letting it go. Xiao Hu, who has been working as an online ride-hailing driver for 6 years, lamented that it is really difficult to find a partner. In his early years, Xiao Hu, who usually loves to travel and raise cats, has bought a single apartment in the West Lake District with his brother. In 2018, he continued to save a sum of money and bought an 80-square-meter house in his hometown of Anhui, which was beautifully decorated. There are houses, cars, and stable jobs, and the only regret is that at the age of 36, the relationship has not landed.
Xiao Hu feels that he can't fall in love, has an introverted personality, doesn't like to talk, and seems to be unable to grasp the fate: "I also hope to be able to help me find my other half through the blind date jointly held by the Municipal Federation of Trade Unions and the 19th floor." Thank you very much. ”
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The SF courier who joined SF at the age of 24 and became a leader in the express delivery industry for five years said: "I hope that I can meet a suitable girl through blind dates." It would be better to stay close to me and see each other often. My work is already too busy to be shadowed, and I don't want the woman to be so busy. My own personality is also relatively slow and hot, and it is easy to chat with the opposite sex, it is easy to be cold, I am afraid of embarrassment, and I don't like to talk much. ”
Fang Jing, a young man in Quzhou, Zhejiang, has been running online car-hailing for nearly a year and has a considerable income. Fang Jing graduated from university for two years and enlisted as a technical soldier, and five years later demobilized and turned into an online ride-hailing driver.
"Emotionally and in life, my parents don't want to put too much pressure on me, and I don't want to bring negative emotions to them." Fang Jing figured out a set of adjustment methods: drinking a cup of tea, watching variety shows, and making handicrafts with his head stuffed, which could make Fang Jing feel relaxed. Fang Jing was very patient with things of interest. He developed a daily exercise routine in the army, and now he still maintains the habit: running and exercising three or four days a week in the morning, and adjusting his physical condition.
The blind date carnival jointly held by the Municipal Federation of Trade Unions and the 19th floor expanded the circle of friends for Fang Jing. He didn't ask for anything from the other half, just hoped that the two of them would have time to meet each other. "I work hard to give her happiness and will not make her suffer", he will use solid work to improve her financial ability to take care of each other.
02 Questionnaire survey of single groups in new formats and new employment
Haven't been in love for a long time and long for a new one
At the 11th Blind Date Carnival, the organizer conducted a questionnaire survey on the new format and new employment single group, and deeply analyzed the reasons why they were single and their living conditions. New formats and new employment single group accounted for 68% of the post-90s, the survey results show that 74% said that they have not been in love for more than a year, eager to fall in love, single will bring themselves anxiety and pressure. The main reasons for the failure of love are that the personality is inappropriate, there is no feeling, and the relationship will not be maintained.
Regarding finding a partner, 92% of the new format and new employment single group are more concerned about whether the personality and temper are appropriate, 50% hope to have common interests and hobbies, and 47% are more concerned about appearance. Their ideal girlfriend is intellectually gentle, lively and cute, rejecting unreasonable girls; their ideal boyfriend is a sunny home warm, rejecting iron rooster type and boys who do not love cleanliness. Their ideal age of marriage is between 25-30 years old, and marriage must be emotionally stable and have certain economic strength.
03 New format and new employment single group
The online special blind date was warmly held
At 20:00 on the evening of November 23, the special blind date of the new format of "love new format, be a good mother's family" of the new format and new employment single group was chatted online, a total of 124 people signed up, and 40 single netizens participated in the activity. For 1 hour and 30 minutes, they chatted passionately about whether they would accept flash marriage, whether they would confess when they met someone they liked, cooking skills display and post-marriage housework assignments, and they were reluctant to leave for a long time after the event.
04 New employment groups make friends off the single wall
Data on the wall to help off the order
In addition, the Municipal Federation of Trade Unions also added a new format and new employment single group blind date wall at Yuewang Road AixinYijia to display their blind date information on the spot, if you are interested, you can go to view.
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Information / Municipal Federation of Trade Unions Grassroots Work Department, 19th Floor
Editor / Han Xiaoyun