There are marriages every day in the world, and marriages become fragmented due to various contradictions between husband and wife. Therefore, how to build a strong bond between husband and wife has become a fundamental problem of a family. If you want to make the marriage stable, then you can't take an oath at the time of marriage, or just a few words of good relationship between husband and wife. This bond must be communicated with each other for a long time with the joint efforts of both husband and wife, and then it is inevitable that selfless dedication to the family can be made.
We all know that doubt and betrayal are the trump cards of marriage. Of course, greed and reluctance to a colorful world can ruin a marriage. Ultimately, this behavior between husband and wife is due to poor marital management and lack of love communication between husband and wife. Such a marriage, even if there is good love as the basis, to be honest, we do not know how to proceed.
In marriage, for the relationship between husband and wife, the emotional communication between each other is like the relationship between fish and water, life and breath. Therefore, for couples, even if you are busy and don't have time, you should find a common time to drink coffee and talk about your mood. In this lonely moment, you don't need to think about any trouble, you can talk about entertainment, which star you like, or even some funny jokes. Good occasional drive. For couples, such behavior will increase the feelings of each other.
I might as well make an analogy here! For example, when your husband cancels various activities because he is tired, as a wife, can you take the time to cook him a candlelit dinner to dispel his fatigue? Of course, for a man who seems anxious when your wife comes to see your aunt, can you cook him some brown sugar water yourself? I have to say that the seemingly silent behaviors and small things in married life are actually very contagious for couples, and will sublimate and stabilize the love between each other.
Of course, I'm just giving an example. There are many romantic and warm things in married life. Practical implementation is only one aspect. There should also be verbal communication between husband and wife. After all, language is the best way for humans to communicate feelings. Anything, any joy, anger, sadness, people will express it in body language or behavioral language. Having said all this, for the emotional exchange between husband and wife, to sum up, the most important thing is these three points.
In marriage, for couples, the words of the other half should be heard from the ear to the heart. Of course, the opinions raised by the other party should also be carefully considered, rather than indifferent. We should observe and think about the joys and sorrows of the other half. For example, when a man sees that his wife is unhappy, can he properly care about it and adjust his emotions with some positive words? Conversely, when the wife comes home and sees that her husband is tired, she can also put down her chores, sit next to her husband, and give her a warm hug to help him reduce the pressure of work. I believe a couple can do that. The relationship between husband and wife will get better and better, and the marriage will become more and more stable.
Since it is an emotional exchange between husband and wife, it is inevitable that there will be disagreements or inconsistencies. Take, for example, buying a house. Maybe men prefer bigger ones while women prefer warm little houses. The decoration could have been better. Most importantly, however, both spouses must first have a common opinion and idea on what kind of budget to develop, according to their own ability. It may not be appropriate to give such an example, but the central idea is to summarize and organize each other's ideas, and the purpose and starting point must be consistent. Finally, you can buy a house that is acceptable in size and decoration. Of course, other things in marriage can also be treated this way between husband and wife.
We all know that things are clustered. When two people have common hobbies and interests, if they can't become confidants, they will definitely become good friends. For couples, why not? Between couples, we can find a suitable topic to increase the frequency of emotional exchanges, especially those things that will make both parties feel interesting. For example, you can talk about your favorite stars together, or talk about movies you're interested in, or do your favorite sports together. It has to be said that sharing happiness between husband and wife will not only add icing on the cake to their marriage, but also lead to the disappearance of contradictions. Why not?
My husband has been with me for 10 years. From my own experience, tell you that the perfect marriage needs to be transposed! If husbands and wives want to be long, they should learn to communicate, understand, and shift their thinking. Love life cannot be smooth sailing. In the process, we will also encounter wind and waves. When the storms come, we should face them bravely and solve the problem. At this point, you can ride the wind and waves. @April Locust Prologue/Text