Now many girls have become very blind for love, insisting on their love at first sight and vowing mountains, weaving beautiful dreams for their future. But if the dad at home doesn't agree to your marriage, will you stick with it?
Tell a story about my sister-in-law. My grandmother had four children, my sister-in-law was the youngest daughter, and in '92, my sister-in-law had a boyfriend in her hometown, a math teacher at their school.
I heard that the math teacher chased after my sister-in-law, and when the sister-in-law saw this teacher Sven Wen and honestly began to fall in love with him. I still remember a date, my sister-in-law also took me with me, the math teacher was very considerate to my sister-in-law, specially made his hand of mara cake for my sister-in-law to eat, because I have to eat, so I was particularly impressed, to be honest, this taste I still remember quite fresh
But my grandfather didn't like this math teacher, saying that he was poor and earned more than 100 yuan a month. Because my grandfather was the leader of the government unit at that time, and our family also ran a small supermarket, so the income was relatively generous. Grandpa meant that he didn't want my sister-in-law to suffer with him, and to find a door to be right.
Then my grandfather entrusted the relationship to find an object for my sister-in-law. It didn't take long for my sister-in-law to go on a blind date, and the math teacher knew that he would personally come to my house to propose to my grandfather, and at that time, I heard my mother say that this teacher gave 999 yuan to my grandfather, but my grandfather did not accept it, and I think this money may be the most money that this teacher can take out.
Later, the sister-in-law went on a blind date with other people, and grandpa agreed with this marriage. Half a year later, I married the son of an organ unit, and this person became my aunt. My mother said that my uncle gave me 8999 pieces of dowry at that time, and my grandfather gladly accepted it.
Up to now, the math teacher still stays in his hometown as a teacher, marries a girl in his hometown, and lives a plain and simple life. But my sister-in-law and my uncle went to Shenzhen to work in 2003 because of the background relationship, and they have been living in Shenzhen. Their daughter, my cousin got married last year, and my uncle bought my cousin a suite in Shenzhen as a dowry.
My sister-in-law's life was very full and rich, which was also the result of my grandfather's persistence at that time.
There is an old saying that your father said that if you can't marry, you must not marry, and the man's perspective is more worthy of reference.