The picture of this article comes from the film "Mirror"
If you can't reach the realm of being at ease with everything, life is a failure.
To achieve a state of unhurriedness, we must first have financial freedom. If the economy is stretched, food is not enough, and clothing is not covered, it is impossible to live calmly. If there is something that you aspire to have, you can't achieve it because you don't have financial resources, and you can't feel at ease in your heart.
To achieve a calm and unhurried situation, but also to deal with all interpersonal relationships, if the spouse is having an affair, if the friend is not friendly, if the relatives are not harmonious, it will be a mess, angry, it is difficult to be calm. The basis for the existence of good interpersonal relationships lies in the friendly motive, with a friendly attitude, and to be friendly and regulated. If it works, it's easy.
To attain a state of calmness, we must finally understand life thoroughly, see clearly the brevity, chance and meaninglessness of life, and be able to look directly at this bleak fact. Only by penetrating can we attain ultimate peace, give up all short-term goals, and finally give up all goals, and live a life of aimlessness, arbitrariness, and freedom. And once you live such a life, you also reach a state of calm and unhurriedness.
By that standard, I'm almost there. It is also necessary to give up further, further cultivate, and strive to reach the calm and unhurried state of life as soon as possible.