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I like a line in "Passing Through Your World", and some viewers asked Ji Ji: "Sister Yi Ji, what if the person I like doesn't like me?" ”
The chicken replied: "There are so many interesting questions in the world, why are you obsessed with the most boring one?" ”
The answer to this boring question is actually very simple, that is: let go and turn around and pursue your own happiness, even if you have to go through a labor pain.
There are two men in "Splendid Weiyang", one is Li Minde, the other is Tuoba Yu, both of them are concerned about Li Weiyang, but Li Weiyang already has a heart.
Li Minde and Tuoba Yu's experience in the first half of life are somewhat similar, Li Minde is the illegitimate son of King Ruoran, who has been "abandoned" since childhood, and it is the young grandmother of the li family's third room who raised him.
The Li family is a large family, naturally there is no shortage of open and secret struggles, and the people inside are snobbish and indifferent. Fortunately, he still has maternal love, which makes him feel a sense of belonging in this great Li Mansion.
His childhood experience and growing environment made him only use indifference as his protective color.
Tuoba Yu, the son of a sinful concubine, the emperor naturally did not want to see him, since he was raised by the side of Zhaoyi Niangniang, he was wronged, and never felt half a warmth. He was a prince, but even eunuchs could look down on him.
Every sun and moon in the palace was night for Tuoba Yu, and he cried helplessly, but there was always indifference around him.
Eventually, he forced himself to be strong and cut off his desire for love and light.
The appearance of Li Weiyang made Li Minde and Tuoba Yu feel the warmth of a long absence. People are always attracted to what they desire, not to mention that Li Weiyang is still such an excellent woman, she is kind, intelligent and independent.
Because of love, one went to tang for Li Weiyang, and the other revised his plan again and again for Li Weiyang.
Li Minde is kind, he puts Li Weiyang first, and guards Li Weiyang as a younger brother.
Tuoba Yu was vicious, he was vicious to everyone, only gave all his affection to Li Weiyang, and even died for Li Weiyang in the end.
Heaven is fair, energy is conserved, and what you give to one person will eventually be made up for by another.
Therefore, Li Minde has a ninth princess Tuoba Di who loves him, and Tuoba Yu has a Li Changru who regards him as his destiny.
The Ninth Princess was the emperor's most beloved little princess, with a noble status, but for the sake of Li Minde, she was willing to accompany Li Minde, even if she clearly knew that Li Minde loved his "second sister" Li Weiyang.
Li Changru, the eldest lady of the second room of the Li family, has been concerned about Tuoba Yu since she was a child, and she regards Tuoba Yu as her fate, in order to do all bad things for Tuoba Yu, even if it is to sacrifice the most sincere "sisterhood".
Li Minde, the reason why he was finally happy with the Ninth Princess, is because he understands that when love is not possible, love is to let go, and then turn around to find his own happiness, not to live up to the Ninth Princess's affection for him.
Tuoba Yu is different, perhaps he has never felt warmth in his life, and Li Weiyang is the only one who has entered his heart, so his love for Li Weiyang is paranoid and must be possessed, even if Li Weiyang is with him, He will not feel happy.
It is precisely because Tuoba Yu loves to be paranoid, so he can't see or even accept Li Changru, who loves him to the bone.
Trying to keep someone who doesn't love you is doomed to have no luck with happiness. Love is sometimes to let go and complete, and to complete the other party also to complete oneself.
This is also the reason why Li Minde, who is also love and cannot be, is ultimately happy, while Tuoba Yu ends up desolate.
Li Weiyang and Tuoba Jun have long been in love with Jin Jian, and have agreed to live and die.
On the other side, Li Minde, holding the Ninth Princess who loved him the most in this life, was full of pampering, and he said softly: "Ninth Son, we are born together in life and never give up." ”
On that day, Tuoba Yu forced Li Weiyang to marry, and Li Changru rushed to Li Weiyang with a sword, and Tuoba Yu rushed to block this sword.
Tuoba Yu said to Li Changru, "Why are you so persistent (loving me)? ”
Li Changru said, "Why don't you?" If it weren't for Li Weiyang, would you love me? ”
Tuoba Yu: "I'm sorry, after all, I failed you." ”
The ultimate purpose of love is simply to hope that the person you love can be happy, if the other party does not love you, then your love is likely to be a burden for the other party. Love and can't, please let go and leave, to complete the other party, but also to complete yourself. The world is conserved, and there will always be someone to love you and make up for what has been done to others. Love and can not, please let go, belongs to your happiness on the way to come.
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