"Self-bin" is a concept proposed by Lao Tzu, which comes from the thirty-second chapter of the Tao Te Ching: "The Tao is often nameless, although the simplicity is small, the world can not be a subject." If the prince can keep it, all things will be at his own mercy. ”
The Tao has always been a nameless and simple state, and although it is too small to distinguish, no one in the world can make it surrender. If the princes and kings can rule the world according to the principles of the Word, all things will naturally belong to him.
And we often say in our lives that we must have a sense of ownership, so we regard ourselves as the masters of the earth and wantonly destroy; we regard ourselves as the masters of the enterprise, scattered at will; even in our homes, more manifestations of the sense of ownership are possessive rather than cherished!
What you have is no longer so precious, it is a common human being, so the guest consciousness is more important than the sense of ownership. Always treat ourselves as natural guests, as corporate guests, as family guests, only in this way can we fear nature, respect rules, and respect family affection!
Self-guest is the Tao, is the law of operation, only when we have the consciousness of self-guest, can we obtain true "freedom" in nature, work and life.
When we visit other people's homes, we always show ourselves the most polite appearance, and we will be extra careful about other people's things. Because once we become as wanton as if we were in our own home, when we go to anyone's house, it means losing a friend!
We have never been a borrowed guest to the planet. It's just that too many of us think that people will win the day, but when the epidemic comes, who has the courage to say such a thing? When we feel that nature can destroy human beings effortlessly, does it ignite our reverence for nature?
When we are guests, we will be somewhat restrained and will give the host enough respect. Because there must be full respect between guests and guests, otherwise they will eventually lose both!
Once everyone said how to manage intimate relationships and parent-child relationships, many people gave the answer: treat husbands and children as people from other people's families! Husbands play games, don't make noise, after all, it's someone else's husband; children don't eat, don't sleep, don't scold, after all, you won't beat up other people's children.
This answer is another form of "self-guest." Whether it is to treat others as guests, or to treat ourselves as guests, when there is a sense of guests, we will have more understanding and easier to let go of emotions!
So when we have such "respect", we will naturally be unfavorable!
We came into this world for only one word: repair! And one of the most important of these is this "self-guest way"!
Success is difficult to replicate because of lack of persistence.
Keep an eye on the nightcrawlers before dawn
Accompany you through the darkest hours
Text (Original): Walker
Figure: Network
Date: 11/21/2021