Wen 丨 West Wing has feelings
Time is not long, may you be in my words, see you not too late!
Gibran once said: "Loneliness is a companion to sorrow and a close friend of spiritual activity." ”
Life is a one-way mysterious journey, we have embarked on the journey from birth, but we do not know what will be experienced in the next second, where we will go.
Everyone is born to die, and everything along the way can only become a memory of our old age.
Since we all came into this world alone, we are doomed to one day, and we will leave alone.
At that time, no matter what kind of people we have met and what kind of things we have done, it will become a cloud of the past, and it will disappear forever with the last person who remembers us.
Loneliness is always unavoidable, we are all independent individuals, and the emotions and experiences that can communicate are always limited.
In this world, the only person who knows you best is yourself, and no matter how hard others try, they can't really empathize.
Therefore, we can only adapt to loneliness under the tempering of time and enjoy the peace of mind it brings us.
Many people are afraid of loneliness, do not want to disconnect from the world, and appear to be alone. But in fact, loneliness is actually a kind of beauty.
In this short lifetime, we will all experience joy and joy, sadness and sorrow. But all of this is nothing more than our own feelings.
Everyone has their own life, to be busy with their own lives, even if we have established a connection with many people, we are still alone.
But loneliness is not a terrible flood beast, but the most beautiful thing in the world, it can be a light flower, it can also be a babbling stream, the softest dream in our flashy life.
The world is noisy, there are always countless people coming and going, exchanging their sorrows and joys, and the most rare thing is a peace.
Therefore, people who know how to enjoy loneliness understand the true meaning of life, can accompany themselves, and enjoy the happiness that truly belongs to themselves.
Its beauty never causes eye-catching noise, but is quietly contained in every detail of life, and with the passage of time, it brews a strong fragrance.
Sometimes, instead of forcibly integrating into other people's groups, it is better to go back to your own little world and do what you really like.
In life, you can't always rely on others, relatives and friends can't fully understand you, and you can only try to be with yourself.
Only when you are alone, you do not have to seek perfection, make concessions and compromises, and you can gain real freedom.
Therefore, you must understand that the beauty of loneliness is that it can help you temporarily withdraw from the world of flowers and flowers, get out of the cage of society, and spread your wings.
In the world of lodging, it is inevitable to obey its precepts and rules, and to suppress one's own nature. But when you accept loneliness, you will slowly find its beauty and cannot extricate yourself.
Even if no one in this world can understand you and tolerate you, you can also be your own confidant.
Loneliness is not a passive avoidance, but a positive way of dealing with the world, which allows you to spend all your time on really meaningful things and maximize your enjoyment.
It represents the breadth of your heart and the height of your life, and can help you reconcile with the world.
People often say, "May you go through a thousand sails and return as a teenager." ”
Yes, when you are in a hurry, you must not forget your original appearance, and you must give yourself enough time to face your own soul.
You know, when people live a lifetime, the fear is never loneliness itself, but the negative emotions generated by fear of loneliness.
Meaningless bustle doesn't bring you practical meaning, it's just a bunch of people huddled together to increase the decibel of sound. After the hustle and bustle, all that is left for you is greater emptiness.
In the world, everyone has to be busy running for their livelihood, tying themselves to countless rules and regulations, and wearing a heavy mask every day.
There are too many times of smiling faces, and people may not be able to distinguish how much sincerity their laughter is mixed with.
Dealing with others is indispensable to the process of running in, you need to pick up your spirit, you can not relax at all, a little careless will be unhappy and scattered.
Therefore, if you think about it, loneliness is particularly important. In a state of loneliness, you can take off your defenses and disguises and breathe a sigh of relief.
A person's time is always peaceful and comfortable, you can make yourself a pot of tea, read a book, or simply do nothing, completely empty, it is also a spiritual practice.
The next day, you can devote yourself to your career with full energy, and sweep away all the tiredness and displeasure.
Life just needs to be relaxed, we can't blindly tighten our nerves and always place ourselves in the collective.
When the gears in our bodies are spinning at high speed, causing us to be overwhelmed, loneliness is a bottle of lubricating oil that allows us to relax wholeheartedly.
Only in the process of enjoying loneliness can we truly calm down to be the most authentic self and relive our original intentions.
At that moment, we stripped away layer after layer of identity given to us by the outside world, just our original appearance, away from all the chaos and noise, and set up a glass cover for ourselves to shield the wind.
I once saw such a sentence on the Internet and thought it was very beautiful: "Be a cat in the next life, and then go wandering and find a warm nest." Live quietly. ”
Yes, loneliness is not terrible, on the contrary, it is a kind of beauty that we need to feel with our hearts.
We will one day become alone, so it is better to discover its beauty early and try to accept it.
Only after adapting to loneliness can we attain the greatest freedom, ease, and happiness in the world.