The affair of the famous painter Fan Zeng

The famous painter Fan Zeng was not related by blood to his three wives and two sons, and the only daughter who was related by blood, Fan Xiaohui, broke off the father-daughter relationship with him more than twenty years ago.

Recently, Fan Zeng's favorite third wife Nan Li suddenly died of illness, and Fan Zeng sent a tribute to remind people of Fan Dagongzi's past affair.

Fan Zeng's first love was also his first wife, named Lin Xie, who was seven years younger than Fan Zeng and was a great calligrapher with both talents and appearances. His personality is high and his temper is stubborn, similar to Fan Zeng's personality. Two people with similar personalities can't look good. After five years of marriage, before the two had time to have a man and a woman or a woman and a half man, they parted ways and went their separate ways.

After the divorce, Fan Zeng was depressed, depressed, and his career did not improve. During this period, it coincided with his college classmate Bian Baohua approaching him, and Bian Baohua had long admired this talented Jiangnan talent, and this opportunity came. Bian Baohua launched one "warm bomb offensive" after another against Fan Gongzi, and in life, Bian Dajie, who was two years older than Fan Zeng, was considerate and cared for Fan Zeng, so that Fan Zeng felt the warmth of the family. Soon, they got married and had a daughter, Fan Zeng's only offspring.

In the early 1970s, Fan met an actor named Xu Zunde at the cadre school, who looked ordinary and acted normally, but was warm-hearted. After the "graduation" of the cadre school, he still did not forget Fan Zeng, the "dry friend", and from time to time invited Fan Zeng to his home as a guest, eat, and reminisce about the past.

Who knows, the first time Fan Zeng saw his "sister-in-law" Zhang Guiyun in the home of the "eldest brother" Xu Zunde, he was shocked. In Fan Zeng's eyes, this woman, who was a year younger than him and was already a mother of three children, was still so beautiful and atmospheric, gentle and charming. He fell into this unruly gentle township at once, his lust was difficult, he couldn't help himself, he fell deeper and deeper, and he couldn't extricate himself. Carrying the spouses of both sides behind their backs, this pair of middle-aged men and women who were like dry firewood and fire actually engaged in an underground affair for more than ten years. Fan Zeng also felt that the name of her lover Zhang Guiyun was rustic, and changed it to a very poetic "Nanli" for her.

During this period, Fan Gongzi wrote more than 200 love letters to Nanli:

"Until my gray hair, I will tell you deeply that I love you. I would also announce to the world, Nanlly—my eternal, true lover. ”

"'I love you' is a timeless phrase that some people use cheaply, while others give their lives, their history, and everything they have ever had. Ah, what have I lost for Nanli? All the fame, all the status, all the money – pitiful and bleak, just a shit! What did I get? - Nanli. The pelicans have sung, the beauties are late, and I have seen you like the rainbow at the beginning of the morning. For your sake, I have gone from black hair to whitehead. ”

"From the first time I saw Nanli twenty years ago, those clear eyes are the destination of all my life, the best place for my violent character, just like the refreshing spring in the desert of life; this love is the most violent and magical 'moment' in the depths of the soul." 」

It is a declaration of love between a man with a wife and a wife, how "romantic" and warm. It cannot but be said that Fan Gongzi really moved his true feelings.

Poor Mr. Beard's daughter, seeing her mother throw herself into the arms of another man, was unwilling and secretly told her old father, who was still in the dark.

Fan Zeng's daughter also knew about her father's unrequited love, had an argument with her father, confronted Nan Li, and offered to break off relations with her father. Fan once loved Jiangshan more than a beautiful person, and it didn't matter if his daughter wanted it or not, so he pushed the boat along the water and painfully fulfilled the decision that his daughter might have made on impulse, and publicly stated that he would forever sever the father-daughter relationship with his daughter.

This may not be the most heart-wrenching for the only child, but what makes her most sad is that Fan once took Nanli's two sons into the home, cared for and treated them like his own sons, and left his assets to his two sons. The two adult sons, whose original surname was Xu, also changed their surname to Fan in accordance with their mother's request, one named Fan Yifu and the other fan Zhongda.

Fan Zeng once praised Fan Yifu in public, saying: "My son Fan Yifu will definitely be a collection of poetry, books and paintings in one of the Chinese painters." When people say this, they are more righteous than their father calling their own son.

Anyway, since Fan had gotten along with Nanli, there had been no more gossip, and Nanli had really become his final destination.

So why was Fan so obsessed with a middle-aged woman who had three children? Obviously, beauty alone is not enough. Needless to say, Nan Li's handsomeness is more important than that she has a strong feminine taste in her body, and she behaves softly, gracefully, and delicately, which is not fully possessed by Fan Zeng's first two wives. In addition, she also has a certain wrist that can make men happy. Nan Li is very good at these three things, and it is strange that Fan Gongzi does not fall. You know, the most powerful bomb for women to deal with men is the beautiful gentle bullet.

However, people are watching in the sky, and it is a pity that Fan Zeng's first two wives are still alive, and the third one he is most reluctant to give up has gone before him and them. Unexpectedly, Nan Li did not become a widow first, and Fan Zeng became a widower first.