There is a saying in the movie "The Godfather": Those who spend half a second to see through the essence of things, and those who spend a lifetime unable to see the essence of things, are doomed to a completely different fate.
Many women feel that they are better than their girlfriends, but why is the husband of a girlfriend so good, and they always meet one scumbag after another. She is not convinced, so she will be blinded by jealousy, no longer cherish the affection between girlfriends, but will find ways to grab her husband.
Women feel that men are animals that think about problems with their "lower body", and as long as women send ambiguous signals first, then men will definitely be hooked.
In fact, a truly wise man will stabilize his rear, love his wife well, find the shining points on his wife, and can also see at a glance that his wife's girlfriend is not close to him because of love, but out of vanity and with a purpose. Such a woman is the "doom" in life and must be avoided. Otherwise, if you go the wrong way, it will be difficult to turn back.
Women should also understand that there is nothing wrong with kindness, but when interacting with people, they must also be defensive, and if the other party behaves very strangely, they must re-examine their girlfriends, whether it is worth your attention.
Sometimes, some of her actions are not for you at all, but use this as an excuse to try to approach your husband. Don't be foolish enough to think that everything is unintentional, a coincidence. Instead, we should alienate such friends and protect the marriage well.
Miao Miao has a girlfriend named Feng Qing, who made a "black fish stew papaya" at her home, and her husband Wen Feng instantly changed her face, allowing her to break off her friendship with Feng Qing. It turns out that "fireproof, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend" can not only be listened to as a joke, but must really be taken seriously.
Girlfriends come to the door frequently and show off their cooking skills.
Miao Miao is a very simple girl, she has a good girlfriend called Feng Qing, usually the two people just go shopping together, since once Wen Feng drove to pick up Miao Miao, let Feng Qing see, since then Feng Qing and Miao Miao have been in contact with Miao Miao very frequently.
She inquired about Miao Miao's husband's information from time to time, and Miao Miao also told her truthfully: "Wen Feng is the legal director of a company, and he also opened a law firm with others, usually work is very busy, the salary is very high, but others are particularly good, as long as there are some free time, they will cook for me at home, which will hurt people."
These words made that Feng Qing particularly jealous. Feng Qing is a graduate of a prestigious university, and also has a good job, Miao Miao is not as good as her everywhere, but she has found such a good man, which makes her unconvinced.
Thinking back to her boyfriends, either they were fatal or liars, in the name of the company's boss, in fact, it was just to chase the girl's score, there was no such thing at all. She hated the unfair fate and didn't know why God had given such a wonderful man to such an ordinary girlfriend.
So, she had a plan in mind, and after thinking about it, she began to implement the plan.
Feng Qing often went to Miao Miao's house frequently, and deliberately joked about Miao Miao's figure, saying that she was like an "airport" and had a feeling of malnutrition. Say that you want to make a good dish for her to make up for it, if you eat it often, it will have a great change in body shape.
After saying this, he also deliberately looked at Wen Feng very ambiguously, and showed him his good figure. Wen Feng deliberately pretended not to know and did not want to have too much contact with her.
After a while, Miao Miao made a few simple small dishes, and Feng Qing made this dish from the kitchen: "Black fish stewed papaya". Miao Miao called out the good fragrance and picked up the spoon to taste it first, while Feng Qing looked at Wen Feng and deliberately said, "Is this dish more suitable for your taste?" After saying that, he also deliberately approached Wen Feng and whispered to him, "You deserve better."
She was originally bold in dressing, and deliberately dangled in front of Wen Feng, making Wen Feng very uncomfortable, and after eating this meal with a black face, the "black fish stewed papaya", Wen Feng did not eat at all.
My girlfriend came to my house to show her cooking skills, only to make a "black fish stew papaya", the husband: "Immediately cut off sex with her." Miao Miao was very puzzled and wanted to know why. Wen Feng hugged her, sighed helplessly, and said, "You are a little fool, you have to count money for others when you are sold, obedient, don't play with her, go make some new friends."
The husband's choice makes the marriage happy all the time.
Miao Miao was very obedient, and since then she has gradually alienated Feng Qing. And Feng Qing didn't care if she and Miao Miao could still be friends, what she cared about was how she could lose.
She directly asked Wen Feng to meet, and at the beginning she couldn't wait to ask, "Where did I lose?" My stature, education, job, etc., are a hundred times stronger than Miao Miao, why don't you even look at me? ”
Wen Feng said, "Miao Miao is nothing like you, but she is a thousand times stronger than you, and that is that she really loves me." We are a husband and wife who share hardships, and I think that when I had nothing, she could accompany me through the difficult years and never give up. What about you? If I don't look good and don't have money, will you seduce me? What exactly you are plotting, you know in your heart, compared with you, a woman with a simple heart, is an insult to Miao Miao."
Feng was so angry that she couldn't speak, and the man didn't give her a chance to explain again, but didn't want to stay with her for a minute, and quickly checked out and left.
Miao Miao also knew Feng Qing's thoughts, and she also met feng qing and said to her, "You and I are not the same person at all, so the man we are looking for will definitely not be the same kind." You value fame, status and wealth, and I value whether you have feelings for each other. You can't rob my man, because there is too much affection between us, although I am simple, but I believe in him, love him, and never have other thoughts. Even if he is sick, disabled, and has no money, I still love him, such feelings, do you understand? ”
Feng Qing does not believe that the love in this world can be reliable, when she always uses "selfish" eyes to find men, her own temperament will also attract more selfish men to appear. So she has been looking for good men, but good men avoid such women.
A long time later, Miao Miao said goodbye to Feng Qing, she was still single, although on the surface she was still bright and beautiful, when she saw Miao Miao with two children, her arms were still carrying her husband's arms, and there was a trace of loneliness in her eyes. She still refuses to admit defeat, or will say that she is living well now, but Miao Miao and her husband understand that if she does not understand love, in a long time, she will not find anyone who can share her honor and disgrace, and grow old with her white head.
Love is trust in one another, there is no utilitarianism.
Two people together, are mutual trust, rely on each other. Men know what kind of woman they want, and they know what kind of woman can make him more at ease.
Maybe women have such and such shortcomings, do not have a perfect body, are a little confused, love to make mistakes, and always keep causing trouble for men. However, this woman is simple, kind, and truly loving to men. No matter what happens, women can do it without abandonment.
Men may have hesitant attitudes about what kind of woman to choose as their lifelong partner at the stage of being in a relationship. But once he is sure, he will not give other women another chance, because marriage and love are not the same.
The more mature and excellent men are, the more they understand this truth. In this world, the wife is the one closest to her. Marriage needs to be responsible, it needs to be faithful to each other. Running a good family is also responsible for your own life.
No matter what temptations you encounter, you must choose to ignore and defend the marriage, which is something that both husband and wife have to do. They know how to cherish their wives and will not make their wives sad for the sake of "girlfriends".
Women should also look after the portal, when the girlfriend has great interest in your husband, you should be vigilant, do not give her the opportunity to seduce men, but directly fall out with her, and never interact again.
Don't bring her into your own home frequently, and don't let her have her husband's contact information. If she is still unwilling to give up such an opportunity, do not be polite, and if necessary, she can take some measures to make her retreat.
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Women like to rob their girlfriends and husbands, what kind of psychology is it?
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