Life always requires us to experience fulfillment in regret.
The cruelty of life lies precisely in the fact that yesterday cannot be repeated, and this is also the root of the beauty of life.
Just think, if time could be turned back, people would waste and vent their lives more arbitrarily, and life would become worthless.
There are no years in life to look back, don't let life leave endless regrets in the wastes of time.
01, if anything can be said, it will be full of regrets
Pastor Nadransem, after listening to the dying confessions of thousands of people, summed up this sentence that was enough to wake up future generations: "If time could be turned back, half of the world's people would be great." ”
The old man regrets that he did not work hard enough when he was young, so that his career did not succeed, which confirms the old saying: "If the young man does not work hard, the old man is sad!" ”
Life is impossible to reverse, yesterday has passed, today will become yesterday.
The reason why people can become great people by turning back time is the result of people's reflection, so there are so many impossible "what ifs".
As Bing Xin said, "If life is boring, I am afraid of an afterlife; if life is interesting, this life is already satisfied." ”
So always be vigilant against weeping over the milk that has been spilled; don't worry about the leaves that will fall; the only thing we can do is to grasp the present and cherish what we have.
Only in this way, in the face of the past, we will not feel regrets, and in the face of the future, we can be calm.
02, all regrets, is another kind of fulfillment
Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "Life always requires us to appreciate the consummation in regret." Isn't it? We appreciate the happiness of being together from the thought of separation; we appreciate the preciousness of loyalty from the pain of betrayal; we appreciate the affection of long-term companionship from the sorrow of lost love. ”
Regret makes our hearts brighter and wiser, and makes us more aware of the preciousness of possession.
I remember that there was a TV series "Half Life", which does not deny that the hero and heroine are truly in love, but the trickery of fate and fate makes them run away.
Years later, they saw each other again, in great pain, with little regret left.
But it is precisely because of regret that the love is more and more precious, both immersed in the bone marrow and transcendent and eternal.
Some people say: "The mountains and seas that you love can also be peaceful, and the difficult peace is the people's heart." ”
Not getting it, but not being able to put it down, is a human tragedy.
Why not think of regret as another gift of life? With it, unfulfilled wishes will work harder to achieve, and people who have not loved can get along more hard...
Cherish this year of water! Even if I don't look good in the future, at least I can say to myself: "I have regrets, but after the regrets, I have firmly lived a good life, and I don't regret it." ”
All the loss in the world is a kind of fulfillment, and what is lost, God will return it to you in another way.
For the rest of your life, learn to give life a smile, and life will return the joy of your life.