Text/Romance Talk Lee
First of all, I would like to share with my friends a piece of my favorite words:
The highest punishment is silence, and the most reserved revenge is disregard. Less entanglement in bad things, less anger for people who are not worthy. Let yourself live a little more noblely. Learn to let go, in order to move forward better. This world seems to be complex, but in fact, the essence is still your own world.
Deeply.
In everyone's life, they have to meet countless people, but few can become close friends. Complex interpersonal relationships make us very tired, and bad people and bad things always disturb our good mood. In the face of frustration, how to let go, face the future, how to move forward?
Maybe this passage gives you and me an answer: the highest punishment, the most reserved revenge, is ignorance.
Someone said: I respect all the silent people in this world. The decency of silence, the splendor of the sea of stars, the loneliness of the other side of the Yellow Spring, are all left to themselves, and the people they love the most, and the others have nothing to do with them.
It really is. Every bad thing we encounter in life, in the end, has nothing to do with us.
The people you treat with your heart and lungs do not know gratitude, but will talk behind your back and live up to your good intentions.
There are always some people in the workplace who take advantage of your kindness and think that he is the smartest, and you are stupid, in fact, there is no need to argue, just understand in your heart, from now on, stay away.
Whether it is relatives or so-called "friends" in life, there are always some people who think that you are a bully, constantly asking for you, and when you wake up and no longer help each other, they will scold you for being ungrateful and not thinking about family affection. This kind of person, there is no need to explain.
The water is silent, and the people are steady.
In the face of groundless accusations, laugh it off.
In the face of rotten people and bad things, stop pestering.
The wiser the person, the more he knows how to cultivate obscurity in silence and precipitate himself.
Dear friends, remember that keeping silent is not because of cowardice, nor is it indebted to anyone, but the highest punishment for those who are not worthy.
In life, everyone will be suspected, misunderstood, and mistakenly injured for no reason.
When being suspected, the most taboo thing is to explain, to justify, to please others, to wronged themselves.
Since there is no trust, there is no need to get along, between people, trust is mutual, since you are not ashamed of heaven and earth, but the other party is always suspicious, then what reason is there to continue to communicate? The best revenge against people who like to suspect others is to ignore them.
When misunderstood, the most taboo is to try every means to find evidence to prove themselves.
Since you are bright and upright, don't be afraid of being misunderstood by others, everyone has their own judgment ability, and your repeated explanations are useless, and there is no suspicion that there is no silver three hundred and two here, why bother?
When injured by mistake, the most taboo thing is to become angry and angry, and there is a verbal conflict with the other party.
Since it is a mistake injury, it means that you are right, the other party is wrong, for things that have no meaning, is it worth going to the liver fire? Know that you are angry can only make you feel bad, affecting your body, not others. So, why make yourself angry?
Tao Li does not speak, and the next is a mystery.
Barking is the nature of dogs, and if you think about it, as soon as you open your mouth, you are wrong.
Ignoring is not a retreat, but a choice. Ignoring is not a natural aphasia, but the turbid waves in front of you, and you are as calm as the heavens and the earth.
Dear friends, in the face of people who are hostile to you, in the face of people who put cold guns behind your back, in the face of people who slander you, in the face of incompetent villains, your most reserved revenge is: ignore.
Life is morning rise and dusk, and the days are chai rice oil and salt.
Live plainly, simply live, don't like to cause trouble for others, and don't find trouble for yourself.
The wind comes to listen to the wind, the rain listens to the rain, life is full of flavors, just feel free.
You tell me?