#不当家的男人, can you be a good leader of the unit? #
Lao Huang, 38 years old, has been a mid-level cadre of the company for many years. This year, due to the company's high-level personnel changes, Lao Huang will be dispatched by the group headquarters to the subsidiary as a leader.
This is also a kind of "promotion" for Lao Huang, and the subsidiary he wants to go to has a scale of several hundred people, and it is never experienced to be a leader.
In order to celebrate Lao Huang's transfer, our brothers specially invited him to dinner. But at the dinner table, he said that his wife at home was not very optimistic that he could be the leader of the subsidiary.
Why does Sister-in-law Huang say this? I think it may be because Lao Huang is basically not in charge of the family at home, and his wife may think that a man who is not a family at home is not a good leader when he arrives at the unit.
In view of this situation, I personally have the following comments.
There are many men in the workplace who are career men. This type of man puts most of his energy into his work and can be very successful in his career, but he really can't be more brilliant when it comes to being at home.
For example, I have a senior executive friend of a listed company next to me, who earns millions of dollars a year, but the family is completely handed over to his lover, and then he also hired a nanny to help take care of it.
I understood that it wasn't that he was really incompetent, but that he had to give up the path of being in charge in order to make money.
This is completely different from the concept that some female friends think that "men are not suitable for the family, they can not be the leaders of the unit".
A man who is not in charge of the house does not mean that he is not able to be in charge, it may be that he does not have time to be in charge or gives up the matter of being in charge.
On the other hand, those men who can be good at home may not be able to achieve career success when they return to the workplace.
To be a good home at home, you need to manage the family's economic accounts and take care of various chores and other chores in the family.
However, to be a leader in the unit and a good entrepreneur, it is much more difficult.
For example, Lao Huang wants to go to an important subsidiary to be a leader this time, he must be familiar with the business, but also familiar with management, and even need to deal with a variety of complex interpersonal and business relationships, has controlled the company's macro strategy.
Judging from the above content, the difference between the two masters is really quite large, and it is not a level that can be compared at all.
If Lao Huang can be the home of a good enterprise, it means that his comprehensive ability is relatively strong. A professional man with such ability, once he comes to the house to be in charge, I think the probability that he can be good is also higher.
Although the specific content is different, some capabilities can be shared.
Some people will say: Since men are so successful in their careers, they really don't need to take care of their families.
This statement seems to make a lot of sense, but in my opinion, I don't agree with this view.
First of all, family is a good foundation for a man to work outside. Without the foundation of the family, a man's career will also be affected.
For example, a friend next to me always broke out family conflicts because of various trivial matters, resulting in his extremely poor state at work, and several good promotion opportunities were not seized.
Secondly, men have successful careers and make money outside, and eventually they must be used in their own families. And a man who will only meet the material conditions of his family will not get real happiness.
In addition to material things, happiness also requires harmony and warmth between relatives.
As working men, it is ideal for us to achieve success in our careers, but we must also pay attention to the needs of our families while making money and working hard.
It is okay for men not to be home, but they must not forget home.