Born in 1979, Zhu Yuchen is now 42 years old. The first love girlfriend Tang Wei has long been married and has children, and Zhu Yuchen's marriage event is still not settled. In the long late-night life, only the puppy is with him, zhu Yuchen's heart wants to get married more strongly than anyone, but several girlfriends have left him one after another. The elderly bachelor Zhu Yuchen can't get married, what is the problem?
Zhu Yuchen's journey to the Shanghai Theater Academy was particularly difficult. In the first year of high school, Zhu Yuchen stepped into the entertainment circle for the first time under the recommendation of his sister. He felt that filming was a very interesting thing, and Zhu Yuchen was determined to enter the entertainment circle in the future.
Zhu Yuchen was admitted to the drama for the first time, purely to test the waters. Later, in the third year of high school, it was a serious examination, and as a result, because of the obsession with love, I regretted to fall off the list. Zhu Yuchen was reluctant to dream, so he patiently prepared for another year and finally passed the examination.
Zhu Yuchen's girlfriend at that time was Tang Wei, Tang Wei and Zhu Yuchen were alumni, and at that time in high school, they were all young people who had just opened their hearts, and once it rained, Tang Wei took the initiative to call Zhu Yuchen, and the friendship between the two was established.
Zhu Yuchen later said that he had always been a slow-hot person. If it wasn't for Tang Wei taking the initiative to shout at him, the two people might not have become lovers. In 1997, on zhu Yuchen's initiative, the two fell in love.
The consequence of love is that neither of them was admitted to college that year, and both of them re-studied. After re-reading for a year, Zhu Yuchen was admitted to the play, but Tang Wei still did not get in. During the period of love, the little couple was reluctant to be separated for so long, so Tang Wei followed Zhu Yuchen to Beijing and rented a bungalow in Nanluoguxiang near the Chinese opera, while accompanying the study and studying.
In 2000, Tang Wei was also admitted to the Chinese opera. But soon after, the two broke up, because of various contradictions, the relationship ended.
Let's pull the timeline back to the day Zhu Yuchen entered the university. For a young boy who has just stepped into college, everything is fresh. The Chinese drama is a grass and a tree, a brick and a tile, all of which make Zhu Yuchen remember it. But the Ivy League outside the dormitory window made Zhu Yuchen's mother, who came to send her son to school, very disgusted.
She said to her son, "This wall is full of 'climbing tigers', what if there are bugs hidden in it and fly in and bite you?" So Zhu Yuchen's mother thought of a trick: burn the ivy to death with hot water, so that the worms could not bite her son.
Zhu Yuchen's mother's thoughts frightened Zhu Yuchen. The ivy outside the window is specially transplanted from the old campus to the new campus by the Chinese opera, for many Chinese opera elderly, the ivy has become a cultural symbol, and the nostalgia for the past years, these climbing chinese opera buildings of the ivy, for all Chinese opera people, has a very important significance.
When it came time to get to know the dormitory members, Zhu Yuchen's mother once again embarrassed many classmates. Perhaps worried that her son would not sleep well in the future, Zhu Yuchen's mother interrogated Zhu Yuchen's roommates one by one, "Classmate, do you snore when you sleep at night?" ”
Fortunately, after sending her son to school, Zhu Yuchen's mother went back to the house. Zhu Yuchen breathed a long sigh of relief.
In front of the stage, Zhu Yuchen rarely talked about his ex-girlfriend Tang Wei, and many people felt incredible after knowing that Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei had fallen in love. Why the two broke up has also become a mystery that everyone wants to know. Later, Zhu Yuchen's mother participated in a variety show and said that every relationship Zhu Yuchen had in the past would interfere with her. Maybe the reason why Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei broke up is here.
Zhu Yuchen's other very famous relationship was completed under the "encouragement" of Zhu Yuchen's mother.
In the filming interval of the crew, Zhu Yuchen received a warm reception from the actress Jiang Yan of the same crew, Jiang Yan's hand was very clever, one day she made a lot of "cucumbers", sent to the crew members, Zhu Yuchen took the cucumber home, his mother felt that the girl's hand was "good", and at that time there was a thought of pairing Zhu Yuchen and the girl together.
She asked Zhu Yuchen: This girl has a good knife work, does she have an object? Zhu Yuchen didn't know Much about Jiang Yan at that time, and said vaguely, "No." Zhu Yuchen's mother said, "I can try it without you!" ”
At the urging of her mother, Zhu Yuchen began to contact Jiang Yan. Zhu Yuchen is 7 years older than Jiang Yan, and her life experience and filming experience are much richer than Jiang Yan's, and soon, the two people are holding hands and talking about love.
Jiang Yan has a good cooking skill, which makes Zhu Yuchen's mother also praise. Not long after, the relationship between Jiang Yan and Zhu Yuchen was carried out to the stage of Jiang Yan "washing her hands and making soup" for Zhu Yuchen, and as for the names of "husband" and "wife", it was even more important. But Jiang Yan's other actions made Zhu Yuchen's mother unhappy.
Jiang Yan's cooking skills are very good because she likes food and likes to cook. Seeing that her boyfriend loves to eat her own meals, Jiang Yan's heart is full of satisfaction at first. But the number of times was more, and Jiang Yan was also confused. Once quarreling with Zhu Yuchen, Jiang Yan asked Zhu Yuchen: The reason why you are with me is because you like me as a person, or because I can cook and be suitable for being a wife?
As mentioned earlier, Jiang Yan is 7 years younger than Zhu Yuchen, and works in the entertainment industry, so the style of behavior is hot and bold, the summer weather is hot, Jiang Yan is used to wearing some cloth cool clothes, Zhu Yuchen's mother thinks that such clothes are very "decent" and very exposed, so Jiang Yan is forbidden to wear them many times.
Jiang Yan felt very offended, but the boyfriend's mother did not say anything at first. Later, the number of times increased, and gradually began to be impatient. At this time, Zhu Yuchen should have come forward to solve the "mother-in-law contradiction", but Zhu Yuchen could not choose between his mother and girlfriend, and Jiang Yan felt extremely disappointed and soon broke up with Zhu Yuchen.
From the beginning to the end of this relationship, there has always been the figure of Zhu Yuchen's mother. As a mother, she cares about her children more than anyone, but as a mother, she wants to control her children more than anyone, and Zhu Yuchen grew up in such an environment and gradually became a "ma bao man".
Later, Zhu Yuchen met Huo Siyan while filming, when both of them had stye. In order to cure the stye faster, Zhu Yuchen's mother gave Zhu Yuchen a soup to drink, Huo Siyan tasted it and said that this soup was good, so during that time, Zhu Yuchen's mother would cook two soups every time, Zhu Yuchen and Huo Siyan had one for each person.
On the surface, Zhu Yuchen's mother cooked soup to treat Zhu Yuchen's illness, but in fact, she wanted the two young people to spend more time together and cultivate feelings.
Yes, at this time, Zhu Yuchen's mother fell in love with Huo Siyan.
The shrewd Huo Siyan had already seen through Huo Siyan's mother, and she knew that Zhu Yuchen's mother did not care whether Zhu Yuchen could find a suitable object, but was eager to find a "new bride" for Zhu Yuchen.
Zhu Yuchen is a filial piety, and he does not want to argue with his mother because of this kind of thing, so Zhu Yuchen can only face it with evasion. When he was in college, he fled from his hometown to Beijing and gained a short period of free time, but after leaving the campus and starting work, Zhu Yuchen's mother began to follow her son step by step because she was worried that her son would be wronged outside.
Zhu Yuchen's mother chose to be her son's "fart worm" because Zhu Yuchen made him a meal.
Zhu Yuchen has been wandering outside for several years, and it is very normal to have a good cooking skill. Ordinary parents should be very happy to see that their son can make a large table of food for himself. But Zhu Yuchen's mother is different, when she saw her son bringing out food for her to eat, Zhu Yuchen's mother could not help but speculate, in the years when she was not around her son, what did her son experience and be so independent? Unable to see her son suffering outside, Zhu Yuchen's mother bid farewell to her husband and daughter and came to Zhu Yuchen's side with a large bag and a small bag.
Winters in Beijing are cold. Zhu Yuchen's mother, who loves her son, in order to let her son eat a bite of "chicken feathers", does not hesitate to brave the cold to choose fresh "chicken feathers" in the cold wind, when Zhu Yuchen eats the chicken feathers made by her mother, his mother spreads her hands in front of her son, "Son, you see, in order to let you eat a bite of fresh vegetables, your mother's hands are cracked." Zhu Yuchen felt that his heart was very unpleasant, obviously he did not take the initiative to say that he wanted to eat chicken feathers, but his mother's behavior seemed to push the responsibility to himself.
At the scene of the program, Zhu Yuchen admitted that the pressure his mother gave him was very great.
Operating in the entertainment industry for so many years, Zhu Yuchen had many representative works in the early stage of his debut, such as "Struggle", "Who Is The Master of My Youth", "The Nth Power of Home", during that time, he even became one of the four major students. But later, Zhu Yuchen's career began to decline slowly.
Friends who have struggled together, such as Tong Dawei, Wenwen and others, have long had a double harvest of love career, only Zhu Yuchen, and the love career, there is no one complete.
With the increase of age, Zhu Yuchen's skin problems are becoming more and more obvious, giving people a feeling of being like the kind of person who is constantly drunk, but in fact, Zhu Yuchen's living habits are very healthy, with his mother supervising outside, Zhu Yuchen does not dare to be arrogant.
Some netizens analyzed that the reason why Zhu Yuchen still has "pimples" after more than ten years of puberty is precisely in Zhu Yuchen's mother's love pear soup.
When Zhu Yuchen's mother went on the show, she said that before 8:30 every morning, he would stew a pot of pear soup for his son to "clear the fire and maintain health", but in this way, Zhu Yuchen's daily intake of sugar must exceed the standard. Drinking continuously for more than ten years, even if it is an iron man, there will be discomfort.
In order to better understand her son's movements, Zhu Yuchen's mother quietly paid attention to her son's social platform. Every time Zhu Yuchen finished sending the dynamics, Zhu Yuchen's mother would copy down the text published by her son in a dignified manner for the first time. At first, Zhu Yuchen did not know about this matter at all, and then once Zhu Yuchen was busy at work and did not publish the dynamic for a while, her mother finally couldn't help it, and asked her son: "Why haven't you sent a dynamic recently?" At that moment, Zhu Yuchen's head was numb.
More than ten years ago, it was very popular to vote on various networks, in order to let her son come out on top in the voting, Zhu Yuchen's mother would deliberately contact relatives and friends to let everyone vote for Zhu Yuchen. Elderly people have little energy, Zhu Yuchen is very distressed that her mother spends her energy on unnecessary voting, so he forbids his mother to vote, but privately Zhu Yuchen's mother still insists on "voting" for her son.
Zhu Yuchen's mother's desire to control Zhu Yuchen has reached a very terrible point, obviously Zhu Yuchen can live a very good life alone, but Zhu Yuchen's mother does not give Zhu Yuchen the opportunity to live independently. Zhu Yuchen tried to communicate with her mother seriously, but Zhu Yuchen's mother had her own set of logic and did not care about Zhu Yuchen's thoughts at all.
More than ten years ago, Zhu Yuchen and her mother appeared on the show, and at the end of the show, Zhu Yuchen's mother said that she would change, but three years later, only Zhu Yuchen changed. In order to make her mother satisfied, Zhu Yuchen had to back down step by step. When he was young, Zhu Yuchen used many methods to resist, but as he grew older, Zhu Yuchen felt that it was not interesting to dwell on these things. If he can be happy with his mother if he is a little wronged, then he feels that he is not okay if he is tired.
Let's talk about Zhu Yuchen's marriage. Zhu Yuchen is a lonely person, and he is also eager to build a family, but he has been repeatedly frustrated in this regard. Late at night, only the family dog was with him, but his marriage was not up to him.
Zhu Yuchen's mother proudly said that she was very capable, and one person was worth two servants. Speaking of Zhu Yuchen's future object, Zhu Yuchen's mother said that a woman should be a good wife and mother at home. As for the more meticulous requirements for the daughter-in-law, that is more.
Such a condition does not feel like looking for a wife, but a maid.
Zhu Yuchen's mother's behavior not only had a great impact on Zhu Yuchen's mate selection, but also had a great impact on Zhu Yuchen's sister Zhu Beibei. Jubeibei thinks that he can't be like his mother, a wife like a "maid", so he has been reluctant to get married.
It is reported that Zhu Yuchen and the well-known designer Du Ruo talked about love. With such a mother-in-law in front, the melon-eating masses looked at Du Ruo's eyes full of pity. Can Du Ruo win the favor of Zhu Yuchen's mother, this question, or let time test it!