Last weekend, in two days, I did two very valuable and meaningful things.
On Saturday, the mother's birthday, with the child to accompany her on a day trip, while doing filial piety, while taking a baby, the joy of the world, but so.
On Sunday, with the child, he got on the train to attend his cousin's wedding, and immediately got on the train for the return trip after the wedding banquet in the evening.
Such a situation is really daily in many people and is not worth mentioning. It is worth mentioning that in the past, I must not have imagined that I would arrange my trip like this now.
The wedding feast of the child's cousin is a major event in life. Have the privilege of witnessing, time permitting, must go. However, with the mother's birthday, it just happened to conflict again. Because it is in the field, the custom on their side is to live for three consecutive days, and the picture is lively.
If it was in the past, I would think that birthdays are every year, don't care too much, my mother will not feel unhappy because of this conflict!
Now I think that if you can arrange the time well and properly resolve the contradictions and conflicts, there is no need to make trade-offs.
Therefore, after understanding the wedding process of my cousin's side, the wedding day was Sunday, and I decided to accompany my mother to celebrate her birthday first, and then go to the two without delay!
I got up early on Sunday morning, took the kids, and took the train to another city (in fact, he went to school every day, and I went to work every day and got up so early).
I just didn't expect the weather over there, it was colder than expected. The child's clothes seemed to be a little thinner.
According to most people's ideas? I must have felt that just one day, carrying a shoulder will pass. In fact, many times, carrying a shoulder can not pass. Especially winter, it is a sensitive season, and it is difficult to compete with cold weather, and the consequences are very serious.
So I immediately decided to go to the surrounding malls to buy a new dress. At that time, I heard the sound, mostly, that there were still many pieces of clothing at home that were not necessary. Or, find a relative of the same age and "borrow" a piece of clothing to wear. However, I think it is not appropriate, so why bother? Now a piece of clothing is not very expensive, and moreover, it is also necessary to buy it every day.
I feel that the main thing that causes this kind of thinking, mainly people's inertial thinking, will feel that in other cities, can be on the day. But I was thinking, what if I was shopping in my own city today? Then I will also buy a dress for my child? Buy it back, you can wear it later?
In that place, there is no big complex for the time being. I said, go to the busiest commercial street to buy clothes. The taxi master gave me the illusion that the most prosperous commercial street had to go to the "city", which was far away. Therefore, I said that it was also possible to go to the nearest large supermarket, and listed several famous supermarkets for the master.
As a result, when I went shopping in the commercial street in the afternoon, I learned that the large supermarket I went to was separated from the commercial street of "the city" by a bridge.
When others say why are we running so far? Train in the morning, train back at night? It is completely optional, stay an extra day or two, and there is no place to live, and there is a big meal to eat.
However, for those of us who are on the run, the time of each day is arranged, and today on Monday, I have to go to work and my baby has to go to school. Taking leave of absence from work, not going to school, the same as taking the train back, but in fact, the invisible cost is higher.
Looking back, the times are developing, and the current intercity links are all developing at a speed of "a thousand miles a day", and their cognition should be improved, they must break the original territorial pattern, think of things, and make decisions.
In that place, to go to the "Drum Tower" is to go to the "city", very far. Thirty years ago, on our side, going to the "Drum Tower" was also going to the "city", and it felt very far away. Now, I shuttle through the drum tower every morning and evening, one back and forth. Bus drivers, six or seven times a day, are normal itineraries.
In the past, going to another city may make sense for a day, after all, the journey is tiring and you need to have a rest. That's a person with leisure, yes. Now the traffic is so developed, the train arrives in an hour. We commute to work in the morning and evening rush hours, and the time stuck in the road is more than an hour.
After self-perception and cognitive improvement, the way of thinking can be accelerated like a high-speed rail train. The city where you can travel back and forth in one day by high-speed train in the province is like a tour around the city.
Now you can appreciate what the big guy once said, an idea, go to another city to do hair, eat a big meal, and then return.
I think, breaking the "thinking" and enlarging the "pattern", is that generally the case? Break the "limit" and don't limit yourself to a small range.
Be sure to let yourself grow up and know how high the sky is, how thick the ground is, and how contradictory people are. Looking back at the many things around you, you will feel very interesting!
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