Criticism is like a domestic pigeon, it will always fly back. Those of us who want to correct or condemn will also defend ourselves and condemn us in turn. If you want to stir up resentment about you for ten years or even a lifetime, just criticize him harshly.
Don't criticize, blame, or complain.
● Give your true and sincere appreciation.
● Arouse the desire of others.
The late Warner Meg once said, "Thirty years ago I understood that it was foolish to blame others. I don't complain that God doesn't evenly distribute intelligence, but I struggle to restrain my flaws. ”
Warner Meg realized this early on, but I walked blindly in this ancient world for more than thirty years before I suddenly realized it. Ninety-nine times out of a hundred, no matter how wrong things are, no one will be self-critical about it.
Criticism does nothing but raise alarm and try to defend oneself. Criticism is also dangerous, it can hurt a person's self-esteem, and even provoke that person's resistance.
From thousands of pages of history books, you can find many, many examples of "ineffective criticism."
The famous debate between Roosevelt and President Taft split the Republican Party and brought Wilson into the White House, leaving him a brave and glorious page in the world war and changing the trend of history.