Conscience is at risk, and ambiguity requires caution

Two years ago, there was an explosive news among relatives, a model husband who usually seemed gentle and honest, honest and kind, suddenly brought back a woman with a child after two years of marriage. A few years ago, they once talked about a love affair that ended in nowhere, and after the two broke up, the woman found out that she was pregnant and secretly gave birth to the child. The model husband never knew he had a child. Now that the child is more than two years old, because of the lack of life, the woman hopes that the child's biological father can take on the obligation of support.

The model husband is the manager of a well-known business and earns millions of dollars a year, which is much better than the ex-girlfriend's living conditions. The model husband also gave the ex-girlfriend and the child a sum of money, but this money made the ex-girlfriend sink deeper into the quagmire of this 'husband battle'. She said the child's father must ensure that she and her family can live without worry, at least buy a car and a house. This is really a confused account, and the model husband is not cheating in marriage and cannot be morally condemned too much. However, it is not easy for a single woman to run around with a child, and it is impossible to make such a request.

It's just that the wife of the model husband also has children and she naturally does not want to divorce. The three people struggled for a year or two, and the last person who made trouble was well known, and all three of them were injured.

If it's a gamble, the only thing the ex-girlfriend can gamble on is the man's conscience. But 'conscience' is really an elusive thing.

Everyone knows the barrel principle; The capacity of the barrel depends on the shortest board, and if we want to fill the bucket with as much water as possible, we need to lengthen the short board.

The same goes for the risks of life. In order to enhance the ability to resist risks, it is necessary to improve controllability and reduce arbitrariness. In life, usually who is more likely to be injured, who is more unlucky; Whoever loves to take risks more will end up paying for sadness. You know, men are often more rational and cold than women, if you pin all your hopes on a man, how will you get along with yourself if you fail?

Gambling is often lost, but there is a chance to start over. Although the harm caused by life will be slowly smoothed by time, it will leave a scar on the conveyor belt of life, making our lives tremble with this scar.

Women should be more responsible for love, not only after the injury of the big mother man's negative heart, but should be in a relationship before the ability to identify the man's character, learn to control themselves and reject ambiguity, after deciding to give birth to a child, can be a financially and psychologically mature enough mother.