It is a very happy thing to spend a lot of time with your children

Recently, we have seen that many provinces are intensively revising local population and family planning regulations. Maternity leave has been generally extended and parental leave has been added.

Society is getting more and more progressive, and spiritual civilization is getting better and better. Forty years ago, the bare stone road has long since become a shiny highway.

Forty years ago, I grew up in my grandmother's house, like two worlds apart from my parents and sister. They're in the city, I'm in the countryside.

Despite the hardships of life in the countryside, I still like to go back there, and when I go to school for the holidays, I can't wait to run to my hometown. Spending an extra minute in the city with their parents felt like they were tied up.

This feeling has not been alleviated much. Although he spent a long time with his parents from infancy to youth and then to adulthood, he never found himself in his own home in the relaxed state of the years when he first lived with his grandmother.

So later, after I had a child, I was particularly reluctant to hand him over to others to take him. At that time, I was on maternity leave for four months, and I was going to work after four months, and I cried and didn't want to leave the child, afraid that he would be like me, and the relationship between him and his parents would be estranged.

But the mother-in-law persuaded them one after another, saying that I had no job, how could he support the family alone by his father? Moreover, the maternity leave time at that time was not very long, and it could not be mainly based on children, but only on work.

The child was entrusted to outsiders, and when commuting to work every day, the tension was really like a heart war. Cry yourself when you send your child, and cry when you pick up your child. That's annoying, how uncomfortable.

Think about my mother, they also put me in my grandmother's house for work and to earn more money. But how could I understand when I was young, a gap had formed.

Now there is a prolonged maternity leave, parental leave is good. Forming humanistic care, everyone can relax their minds and move forward.

Only by being a mother can accompany her children more, so that her children can get healthy growth. Although you can't have more contact with society during this time, you will leave things at work behind. But working on the road of life is a pedal. And the child's affection is the companionship of a lifetime.

When accompanying children to grow, they do not forget to learn, cultivate their own body and mind, and not only raise children, but also grow themselves. Not to mention that there are also things that can make money with a baby at home now.

Spending a lot of time with your child is a very happy thing, not a drag. The tenderness in my heart cannot be replaced by anyone. Only then do I feel that life is the most solid and precious.