preface:
Women are generally the main body of revealing things between husband and wife to outsiders, this is because women naturally love gossip, that is, they like to gather together to discuss some of the short things of the Zhang family and Li family, many women like to be open-mouthed when they are in a good mood, and tell others everything, even the most intimate things between husband and wife. In fact, it is not right to do so, although there is nothing wrong with confiding in itself, but everything has a degree, and this degree cannot be exceeded, otherwise it will cause disasters to itself. Ms. Chen, 36, said that because she told outsiders the secret between husband and wife, she almost ruined her marriage later. Let's take a look!
Ms Chan, aged 36, said:
I am a more playful woman, when I have time I will go to the bar with my girlfriends, although I and my husband are married, but it does not affect me to play outside, my husband is also a very fun-loving man, so he does not say anything about me.
I am in a company to do administration, work is not very busy, after work I will ask my sisters to go to the bar to sit down, when we get together, especially like to talk about gossip, sometimes talk about things between husband and wife, at the beginning, I was embarrassed to say things between husband and wife, but my group of sisters like to spit on their husbands, and then say things between husband and wife for everyone to share, and then I slowly let go, I also said things about me and my husband, I even told my sisters that my husband was not very strong in that regard, and my sisters felt incredible, because they all thought that my husband was a very strong man and should not be like this, I told them, I can't do it, I used to think it wouldn't be like this.
Once my husband had a birthday, originally planned to celebrate his birthday in KTV, and then my husband said that it was better to have a party at home, I thought this proposal was very good, so I began to prepare, my husband's birthday day, my group of sisters came, they all prepared gifts for my husband, I think they really worked hard.
Our slogan that day is not to get drunk, anyway, the next day is the weekend, don't worry about not getting up to work, and then drink with confidence, there is a sister who is drunk, he actually went to my husband, and then asked my husband if that is not okay? She also vowed to introduce the hospital to my husband, many people were present at the time, they all heard her say those words, my husband felt very embarrassed, at this time my husband looked at me, I immediately lowered my head, I did not dare to look at my husband's eyes, I rushed over, and then pulled the girlfriend away, that night I and my husband were not happy, after the guests left, my husband began to get angry with me, my husband was angry with me for the first time, I was very scared, my husband even told me that he wanted to divorce me, I kept asking my husband, I told my husband that I knew it was wrong, I didn't expect the problem to be so serious, I would never do such a thing in the future, but my husband was still very angry, he felt that what I did hurt his self-esteem, he was a man, such a thing was known to others is very uncomfortable, that night my husband was still in tears in front of me, my heart was very painful, I felt particularly guilty.
Later my husband did not divorce me, but our marriage can not go back to the past, my husband has always been particularly concerned about that matter, after my husband is not willing to have sex with me, usually I want to talk to my husband, but my husband is not willing to take care of me, I don't know what to do later.
Author's Point of View:
The matter between husband and wife is the privacy of two people, there is no need to tell outsiders, if it is a good thing to often tell others, people will think that you show off, over time, are not willing to give you contact.
If it is a bad thing, people will be annoyed if they listen to more, which person is willing to listen to complaints every day, negative energy?
Therefore, married women take care of their mouths, do nothing else, and cause trouble.