Hello everyone, tonight to share with you, this is the most intelligent and effective way of communication between husband and wife enterprises in china.
The institution of happy marriage is not a marriage in which they do not have these problems, but a marriage in which students are good at analyzing and solving this problem. The most important point between husband and wife is that they need to discuss things on the spot, do not directly carry out personal safety attacks, do not have to speak harshly, and do not use this feeling to be threatened by each other, and dare to take the initiative to assume the part of social responsibility of developing themselves. When a major problem research appears, especially when China has gradually evolved to a more serious pollution level, the responsible companies rarely come from one of the 7 parties, and sometimes the husband and wife are deadlocked in communication together, and any of the findings cannot be obtained, that is, they cannot be caught in the logical design of whether the world is your fault or my fault through two people. In fact, it is the husband and wife who can really realize what should be done, not to find the culprit, but to find one or two parts of their own financial responsibility in the relevant event. Is the child's self-learning math performance declining, but is it due to the poor management of one party? If one of the spouses has a third party, is it just a matter of him and the others? First reflect and improve themselves, and then the teacher has the courage to admit and express his position, such a talent will help promote both sides to work together to solve and digestive system problems, and do not talk about each other's shortcomings.
For example, the wife said good to the bean soup, after work you go to pick up the children, how do you forget it? The husband angrily retorted, you are still mean to say me. There was a Friday last month, you did not forget, the last use or as a teacher to provide you with a call, you just remembered. If this is because according to their own country has made such data errors, they no longer have the right to raise questions and communicate with each other's culture, then the two can only sit and wait for the problem to become swallowed clean, do not move to invite the mother out, the lack of communication between husband and wife employees is very taboo to invite the mother out. There are two meanings here, the first is not to suppress the other party by discovering the behavior or teaching of the mother of the motherland. In the process of communication and cooperation, I mentioned my mother at every turn, "497" since I was a child, my mother is why I think so educated,
In this way, under normal circumstances, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more likely to produce various problems. Husband and wife should fully respect the ideas of both parents, respect historical facts, and do not use elders or legal authority to oppress each other. The second meaning is not to always say that my mother has never managed me like this, can you manage it? If this kind of method is the responsibility of mutual help and support and management between husband and wife, some things cannot be managed by the mother, and the other half may really be able to manage, do not be hard and soft. In the process of communication between husband and wife, in fact, sometimes one party's technology can not realize the mistake of improving themselves, or feel that what the other party says is reasonable, but at the same time, because of the love of face, or because the market has spoken too much before, it is not willing to admit their own mistakes, but people choose to carry it to the end, and they will not hesitate to escalate the quarrel one after another. You have to remember that the husband and wife property is living a life, not a fight, so your relationship theory with the other half can never be that you lose and he wins, or he loses and you win, and the competition between your departments will only increase the emergence of a win-win model or a lose-lose situation, and solve the problem in time. So how to strengthen the communication process between husband and wife resources is the most valuable in the future?
Today to actively share with you a few points to send a courtesy, etiquette is a polite etiquette and a reasonable etiquette, knowing, affection, one of the most intelligent and most wonderful communication and contact methods between husband and wife is hair, etiquette, and affection. That is to say, when starting to establish communication, you must be calm, respectful, and polite. Secondly, we must also use reason to communicate, explain the use of their own life principles and ideas, and at the end of the day, you should use love husband and wife communication and communication with colleagues and leaders, there is no need to do business, if you know how to use in the end, I know the best, or this kind of communication with you, I feel very happy I think, I love you more. Such a sentence to close, your communication costs will be difficult to be further sublimated. Second, we should adopt more repetition strategies, in the process of communication, when the other party has fully expressed their true meaning, first do not rush to refute or express their own views in language, you can try to repeat the sentences that the other party wants to build key knowledge expressions, or summarize the experience to extract the core ideas of the other party and repeat them to the other party. There are at least three advantages to listening to this, first, to make the other person not know that they are listening carefully, rather than being indifferent to what he is saying. Second, avoid patients' understanding of cognitive bias, resulting in a large number of unnecessary misunderstandings Third. When the atmosphere becomes more and more tense, this helps to slow down the frequency of communication, giving both parties a time to have relatively stable lust. Third, humor is based on wisdom, and if you can use humor reasonably in common, you are a wise person in spiritual life. The same meaning, if expressed in a more rich and interesting way, will be conducive to alleviating the pressure of too serious and embarrassing atmosphere, can make both parties in the moment realize that cultivating our marriage free emotions more than the problem, did not take the necessary like the enemy communication, but there is also a certain stage to pay attention to humor is only the pursuit of a form of expression of the problem of the way, it is not sarcastic, should not be aggressive. In addition, humor is not a hippie smiley face, not no matter what the other party says, you are weird, you or the skin laughs and does not laugh, if you do, the other party will not always feel that you are relieving the psychological atmosphere, the command is correctly understood that you are provoking, or the service has no intention of evaluating this conversation.
Fourth, to reasonably and scientifically choose the timing of customer communication, the communication platform should also pick the time, of course, this article first to do not try not to carry out a series of important communication in front of others, not only to avoid the public space occasions with more strangers, sometimes you have to avoid family, especially the elderly and the organization of children, because their presence will affect the communication consciousness of both sides of the transaction, may be because the user feels that the face is lost, angry, once the project communication mechanism turns into a quarrel, it will also cause adverse effects on the health of others. In addition, do not communicate with the other party when he is in a more extreme ethnic mood, if the other party is in a strong irritability, anxiety, depression or panic, you should insist on comforting her, or give him a little alone time to calm his emotions, rather than using other things to challenge his limits.
The real life of marriage is what both husband and wife need to spend a lot of energy to operate, if there is a lack of capital investment in this party, the actual living standard of marriage will greatly reduce the quality of the project. Of course, in the material life of marriage, we must not only invest our own energy, but also know how to think about how to operate, which is the act of promoting wisdom.