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Cai Kangyong was rejected three times by Li Chengru to see how he cultivated high emotional intelligence

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On November 5, "Director Please Advise" began broadcasting. And "The Birth of an Actor" and "Actors Please Take Place", these two shows are the same. It has also created countless hot topics and attracted the attention of countless audiences. No, the latest "Director Please Advise", there is no suspense and is on fire again. As soon as the show began broadcasting, Li Chengru and Cai Kangyong were on the hot search, because Li Chengru refused Cai Kangyong's invitation. And it was three times of refusal, no matter how sincere and how good Cai Kangyong was. How high the emotional intelligence is, but when it comes to Li Chengru, he does not give any face at all. Say not to go, do not go without being afraid of embarrassment, and Cai Kangyong, who has always been known for his high emotional intelligence. This time, I didn't expect to fall on Li Chengru, as the host of "Kangxi Lai". The mentor of "Strange Story" and the director of the movie "Eat Eat Love". Cai Kangyong's development in the entertainment industry can be described as very multi-habitat, and we can be in cai Kangyong who has been in the entertainment industry for many years. I have seen many very contradictory traits that are always confusing. Whether he was a warm man or an alienated man. Perhaps as early as 2001, Li Ao hosted the program to tell the truth, he frankly admitted the news of his coming out in Li Ao's questioning. He became the first star in Taiwan's showbiz circle to come out, and what he did not expect was. This answer cast a shadow over his life, so much so that in a later interview. His sentence that we are not a monster expressed all the heartache and also made people understand Zhang Guorong's plight at that time.

Cai Kangyong was rejected three times by Li Chengru to see how he cultivated high emotional intelligence

In 2014, a film was directed by Wu Yusen. Zhang Ziyi, Jin Chengwu and others participated in the movie "Taiping Wheel", which left a deep impression on the audience as soon as it was released. In the movie, after the defeat of the Kuomintang army, they boarded the Taiping Ship and left Shanghai to flee to Treasure Island. In order to avoid the curfew, the ship did not turn on the navigation lights. Accidentally collided with the Jianyuan, which also did not turn on the navigation lights, so the hull sank nearly a thousand people at sea and died. But few people know about this Pacific ship, which is like the Titanic encounter. It was the ship of the Zhonglian Steamship Company that Cai Kangyong's father drove, after this shipwreck. An insurance company in Shanghai, where Cai Kangyong's father insured, declared bankruptcy, and all compensation could only be borne by the Cai family. The Cai family, which was originally prosperous, has since fallen in the middle of the family road. So in 1962, Cai Kangyong was born, born and raised in a frustrated environment. He understood the vagaries of the world early on, and also laid the foundation for the cold and alienated side of his personality. His father named him Cai Kangyong to mean eternal well-being, and at the same time, Cai's father, who did not do shipping business, returned to his old business and became a lawyer. He often took himself to the business circle, although he was a declining aristocrat. However, his family's former connections still have the ability to create wealth again. It is still very comparable, and the interest field is the supreme side of the interest field. Let Cai Kangyong learn from a young age to observe the color and the cold eyes. It paved the way for the future high-quality shops, and it is precisely because of this that Cai Kangyong performed very well after entering the school. In school, it can be said that it is outstanding, thanks to what I learned in the business circle. Cai Kangyong has grasped a lot of contacts in school and won over many people's hearts. In between, Cai Kangyong got to know many students, but one thing hit him deeply.

Cai Kangyong was rejected three times by Li Chengru to see how he cultivated high emotional intelligence

In 1979, in high school, Cai Kangyong felt the injustice of society for the first time. It turns out that there are still many children's homes, and there is a huge gap between the situation and themselves. He began to feel the inequality and injustice of society, his own superiority and ease. Originally based on the suffering of others, Cai Kangyong, who was violently impacted, began to learn to rebel. He began to fight with society to the best of his ability, publishing a large number of critical articles in the school magazine. When the school found out, he was punished, and Cai Kangyong was also expelled from the school. After dropping out of school, Cai Kangyong was admitted to Tunghai University again, despite his parents' objections. I chose an extremely niche foreign literature major and negotiated with my parents that I would insist on studying film. Although Cai's father hopes that his son can inherit his own legal career, he is faced with Cai Kangyong's choice. He still compromised, but the only requirement was that the academic qualifications could not stop at the bachelor's degree. This agreed to let him continue his studies in the United States, and also used his lifelong connections. Help Cai Kangyong better enter the show business circle, relying on his father's relationship and Cai Kangyong's own efforts. Soon he directed his first film " A Baby " , when Xiao S was still imitating Wang Zuxian. Cai Kangyong has already called Wang Zuxian to be the lead actor, and thus became Shaw's contracted director. But when she entered Shaw's, she found that there was nothing to do, so she had to temporarily give up her dream of directing. He returned to Taiwan again, where he had the biggest turnaround in his life.

Cai Kangyong was rejected three times by Li Chengru to see how he cultivated high emotional intelligence

In 1990, Cai Kangyong met Zhang Xiaoyan, a descendant of Zhang Ailing. Because she is the niece of Cai's father, Zhang Xiaoyan arranged for Cai Kangyong to be the host of the program "The King of Electric Shock on The Book". After that, he began to appear frequently on the screen, so he was recorded in a variety show in 2001. Li Ao suddenly asked, "Cai Kangyong, are you gay?" Cai Kangyong smiled and said, "Yes, do you want to introduce me to someone?" It was the first time he had publicly admitted to coming out, when he was accompanied by a male lover named George. He and George met in 1994, and at first the two were just friends. George was attracted to Tsai's writings and wrote to the newspaper. The relationship between the two began here, and then became friends in real life. George has a lot of experience in studying plants, and the literary qualities and delicate emotions shared by the two of them. Let them cling tightly to one, so the two meet and travel to Japan together. As a result, they happened to encounter the Kobe earthquake, and the two faced life and death together during this period, and were rescued by the rescue team. They agreed in the heavy snow in Kyoto, "We will always be together." When talking about this, Cai Kangyong revealed his true feelings: "I hope to be together in the next life." But it was this interview that made Cai Kangyong bitter, and he once thought that he could be more authentic with his partner after coming out. But in the face of the media's pursuit and the incomprehension of others, he realized that he and his boyfriend would be looked at by some colored glasses. The boyfriend also refused to appear in the media page again, and the experience of coming out also allowed Cai Kangyong to be in the next few years. He has become a "mentor" for LGBT people in the entertainment industry, so many people who intend to come out have come to ask Cai Kangyong for advice. It made him lament not to push me out every time until he met another "trump card" in his life.

Cai Kangyong was rejected three times by Li Chengru to see how he cultivated high emotional intelligence

In 2004, "Kangxi Lai" was officially launched. Before this, Cai Kangyong hosted a lot of variety shows, so his high emotional intelligence and talking talent were soon discovered by Wang Weizhong. He was invited to record a talk show "Kangxi Lai", in fact, the original name of this show was called. "The Strange Ten O'Clock Kangxi Came", at first only Cai Kangyong came as the host of the program. But then he found a small s that complemented his own style to be his hosting partner. The program was also changed to "Kangxi Lai", and the original content of the program was based on interesting interviews with social novelties. The practitioners of unpopular occupations are the mainstay, and later the program team found that the interview ratings with the participation of artists will be relatively high. As a result, it has transformed into an entertainment variety show that mainly interviews popular news figures or artists. And "Kangxi Lai" can be said to be a "large-scale chronicle of the entertainment industry". There is even a saying circulating in the entertainment industry: "You can't be considered an artist without being on "Kangxi Lai"." Although it is a joke, it is enough to explain the status of this show at that time. At that time, this show can be said to expose the little-known side of many artists, and also made Cai Kangyong feel happy for the first time. He can show his true self at will, but no matter how good the show always has an ending day. With the internet age and the rise of mainland entertainment, coupled with the decline of its own creative ability. Audiences began to experience aesthetic fatigue, and ratings began to decline continuously. In 2015, Cai Kangyong announced on Weibo that he was going to quit "Kangxi Lai". Subsequently, Xiao S also officially announced that he and Cai Kangyong were in the same way, so in 2016. The 12-year-old "Kangxi Lai" officially came to an end, and at this time, Cai Kangyong decided to turn to the mainland, but the prospects of the mainland market taught Cai Kangyong a deep lesson.

In 2014, "Strange Story" hosted by Ma Dong was launched on iQiyi. Gao Xiaosong and Cai Kangyong served as resident guests, and Cai Kangyong officially transferred to the mainland. He began to be a guest on "Strange Story" for a long time, and he was equally comforting in this show. Let many viewers feel his high emotional intelligence at the same time, but also witness her pain. In an episode of "Strange Story" about coming out, Cai Kangyong was out of control: "We are not monsters! ”。 It is conceivable that as an artist, he has suffered many injuries along the way, but he said for Cai Kangyong. Although I faced a lot of pressure after coming out, I didn't regret it, because regret didn't help life. Even if I live again, I will still choose to come out, "I can't hide the lie for too long, and I can let go of it and face the outside world." Cai Kangyong said this to the media, and it is clear that Cai Kangyong wants to do it. He is the true self without disguise, and in "Strange Story", he also speaks up for himself and the LGBT community. Everyone has the right to choose their own happiness, and no one is qualified to comment on the happiness of others. Love should be brave to chase, do not look at others with colored glasses. Because we are no different, respecting others is also respecting ourselves. And the world will become more and more inclusive, I hope that one day in every corner of the world, people see love instead of gender.

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