Marriage is not a child's play, but in tv dramas, marriage is always played as a child's play.
I don't know if you have noticed that the people in the film and television drama always understand the reason better than the people in our reality, understand the great righteousness, what contradictions, what disputes, what misunderstandings, what do not understand... Slowly it was unraveled, it began to make you die, and slowly it was as good as a person again.
I always feel that the people in the TV series are so sensible, and the people in life are so ignorant. You see the mother-in-law relationship in the family, the relationship between concubines, so fierce in the film and television, but after a few episodes, it will be as good as ever, as if any kind of knot can be solved, and any misunderstanding can be eliminated.
Another example is divorce, even if you have children with each other, on the grounds of seeing children, the possibility of remarriage in reality is not large, there is almost no child, almost old and dead, and even if there is a child, even if you visit is a very simple kind, not like the TV series because you have children, after the divorce, you can repair each other's feelings after a few times to see the children, you can eliminate the misunderstanding between the two sides, and then come to a sober tear-jerking confession drama, men and women remarry together, the whole family and the united life.
I admire those passionate screenwriters and directors, they can always express the dark things in their hearts in a beautiful form in film and television works, such as the scumbags in reality who see different thoughts, see a love one, they can always shape it into a model for the prodigal son to turn back in the TV series. They always beautify the unseen things in life in the form of art in the form of obscenity.
Of course, there are also some film and television dramas that are very real and very good, such as "Blood Romance", such as "Chinese Divorce", the former of which makes the male protagonist's love history vivid, while the latter portrays the female protagonist's emotional drama of the woman's madness and irrationality.
But there are still a lot of emotional dramas, the marriage and love in the world as a child's play, how to waste how to waste, how to make up how to make up, men and women can play a game overnight to become partners, can be drunk at night until dawn to get a marriage license, and the staff played like a stupid B, can not see whether the marriage is sober or confused? Can't smell the wine on your body?
The most annoying thing is the article, Yao Di and the scum played by the "Naked Marriage Era", they take marriage as a child's play, from the original parents strongly opposed to marriage, and then to the divorce after marriage, the two personalities are not compatible with the divorce, after the divorce and then in the name of seeing children, the two slowly remarry, the whole marriage as a child's play, how to play how to play, this plot is too false.
Not to mention, the performance of these two in the play and the performance in life can be described as quite consistent, and it is really a good partner.
It is said that the reason why the article cheated was that he had an extramarital affair with Yao Di from this play. Really, this is really an extramarital affair, an affair, not the usual kind of extramarital sex, pure low-level physiological needs.
At the Golden Rooster Awards ceremony, the article won the Directorial Debut Award at the 31st Golden Rooster Awards of Chinese Film with "Lu Yao Zhi Ma Li", which was successfully whitewashed. At that time, a reporter interviewed about the article about Yao Di, and the article said that he was sorry for Yao Di and hoped that Yao Di would be happy after that, and he also shed tears on the spot. Many netizens have said that the article was really emotional at that time.
And how does Yao Di view this disgraceful affair?
When she was a guest on "Very Quiet Distance", she was asked about the matter with the article in those years, and finally revealed the words in her heart that had been held back for a long time, she said, "I Yao Di has not done anything to shame her conscience."
These 13 words say it all. What does this mean? At least it shows that Yao Di had feelings for the article at that time, and obeying his own will and respecting his love will certainly not be ashamed of his conscience. Unfortunately, the article is a married man, and this underground relationship can only be over.
If the article, Yao Di and his lover Ma Yili are not stars, if they are ordinary people, maybe this love triangle, or infidelity may continue, just like the bosses who are now sullen and rich, it is too normal to pack a second milk and find a small three, people can live happily like the ancient Ximen officials, but the stars are not OK, it seems that the positioning of public figures is not shallow!
Fame has the troubles of fame, ordinary has ordinary happiness, so people can live how to live, the key depends on what kind of life you want.
For those outrageous TV series and emotional dramas, let's just take a look at it, don't take it seriously! Don't be like the article, the drama is not clear, and eventually the city is full of storms and reputations.