We often say that people are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden by horses, if you are too honest in the workplace, colleagues feel that you are honest, they will entrust your share of things to you to do, the boss feels that you are honest, will give you a lot of work to organize, because you do not resist to let you work the lowest cost, if you do not change the following four weaknesses, then you will always be at a disadvantage in the workplace.

Why do honest people always suffer? Because these four weaknesses do not make up for the loss forever
We often say that thick skin to eat enough, thin skin can not eat, the same is true in the workplace, if you are thick-skinned, then you can have more resources, if you are not embarrassed, then even if you have interests in your hands, you will give up others.
From an early age, we are taught to be honest and to suffer hardships as a blessing.
But when I grew up, I found that many times, losing money is not a fortunate thing at all, but a hard thing. The so-called honest people are often the most vulnerable to being bullied.
At work, honest people are good at carrying pots; emotionally honest people are toyed with; in marriage, honest people can easily become the recipients of the worst....
Most misfortunes are often associated with honesty. While integrity is important, it shouldn't be too upright. Many fail because they are too upright.
On this subject, Wang Yangming, known as the "Master of Spiritual Studies," has something to say. Wang Yangming's life has experienced many hardships and hardships that ordinary people cannot imagine.
Wang Yangming, Yu Yao, Zhejiang, Shourenren, along with Bo'an and Yangming, was a famous thinker and philosopher of the Ming Dynasty, who founded the great system of "mind science" and is one of the best philosophers in Chinese history.
When his idea came along, it caused a big reaction.
Zeng Guofan commented: "Correcting the old atmosphere and opening up a new atmosphere is not caused by Yu."
For hundreds of years, Wang Yangming's ideas have influenced countless people at home and abroad, and many people such as Zhang Juzheng, Zeng Guofan, kang Youwei and many others have benefited from it.
Harvard University professor Tu Weiming once said that the 21st century is the era of Wang Yangming.
His upbringing also points to the infinite possibilities of the human mind, even including changes in the rules of life and the fate of mankind.
Wang Yangming: How many people are not too honest, beware of the four weaknesses of honest people, don't be bullied anymore!
01 Lack of heart machine
As the saying goes, "You can't have a heart that hurts others." Many honest people remember this sentence in their hearts, but often forget that "you can't have a heart to protect others." ”。
We can be harmless and simple, but we cannot be brainless and completely unthinking.
Society is complex, just like relationships: for a mentally sound person, it won't necessarily stab you in the back, but it will always happen.
That's why it's best to have some eyesight, keep it between words for a few minutes, and think twice before acting.
Don't talk deeply, don't blindly trust others, so that you can better protect yourself!
02 Is so kind
Confucius once said: "When the administration is lenient, the people will ignore it, and when the people neglect it, they will correct it with strict measures; if it is strictly managed, the people will be hurt, the people will be hurt, and they will be lenient." ”
"He Kuan is used to manage strictness, and strictness is used to manage leniency, so politics is harmonious."
In fact, being a human being is like Confucius said: the best principle for treating people and things is "rigidity and softness". To be tolerant is to be strict. You shouldn't be too kind.
For example I have a friend, kind, charitable, open to anyone.
A lot of people owed him money, but over time, these people came to borrow money again. When my friend didn't have money to borrow, he added ugly words.
Being too kind is not a good thing. As the saying goes, "good horses are ridden, good people are bullied". To be a human being, you must have a bodhisattva heart and a Vajrayogini means in order to do better in the workplace and be proud of your life.
03 Timid
Many people are very down-to-earth, especially timid, do not dare to fight for opportunities, and finally miss the opportunity in vain.
Caution is a good thing, timidity is a very bad character. Many times, you can't be timid. There's no harm in being brave.
A lot of things, you are afraid, others are afraid, fear is a normal human emotion, can be understood, but can not stop because of fear.
Yu Minhong once said: When you lose courage, all the doors in the world are closed. But it's much more than that. As fearful prisoners, not only will the doors be closed, but the windows will also be locked.
Everyone has something to be afraid of, but when they feel scared, they hide and the world gets smaller and smaller.
Remember, courage may fail many times, but at least a few times; but if you choose to back down, you will fail for the rest of your life!
04 Forever humble!
Successful people always say that people should be humble and humble.
It's true, but only from their point of view, because you don't have to advertise yourself, others will know that they are good.
But ordinary people who are too humble will not only make people look down on you, but also make people look down on you. It seems to be a hint or reminder that the person is really bad. Look, she looks down on herself!
This is not good!
The lower layer cannot be too humble, because the lower layer is different from the upper layer, and the resources are not enough. You have to show your strength in order to defend your interests.