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Many people's memories of Wang Feifei are still stuck in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves", but recently Wang Feifei participated in the recording of the variety show "I Am an Actor", but she did not expect that she sold a miserable operation, but was stifled.
After Wang Feifei finished performing, several mentors evaluated her separately, first a "killing" of the mentor Zhang Ziyi, Zhang Ziyi said that she liked and was optimistic about Wang Feifei, which really surprised her.
However, on the other hand, after Hao Lei saw Wang Feifei talking about her previous experience and crying miserably, she said a few words, which probably means that as an actor, you must be strong, everyone has come this way, and it is certainly not possible without a strong heart.
In the same way, in "Actors Please Take Place", director Er Dongsheng also said to the actor Li Xirui, at that time, Li Xirui was also very active on the stage, saying that he could not be strong, And Er Dongsheng said that if you have no way to resist pressure, you should not engage in this line.
In fact, no matter what industry it is, there are their own difficult places, everyone has pressure, if because the pressure is too great, they openly cry in front of others, it is really unnecessary, because it is useless.
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There is a saying called "the workplace does not believe in tears", what you want to get, crying or selling misery is useless, you only have to improve your strength, use strength to speak, is the best counterattack to the people who question you.
The 33-year-old Faye Wong originally debuted as a girl group, the starting point is not low, can sing and dance.
According to the time, she is also the "old man" in the entertainment industry. As early as 2007, she had already entered the Korean entertainment company as a trainee and debuted as a member of the group in 2010.
Before her debut, she was active as a member of the Sisters group in Zhejiang Satellite TV's "The More You Jump, the More Beautiful".
In addition, she won three awards in the 2010 MAMA Awards Best Newcomer Award For Female Singer, Best Dance Performance Award for Women's Department, and Golden Melody of the Year award in the year of her debut.
However, show business is like this, many singers or actors have some achievements in their field, but will develop in other directions, such as singers will challenge acting, and actors will challenge singing.
To be honest, it is actually quite surprising to see Wang Feifei come to participate in "I Am an Actor", because in terms of her conditions, she should actually sing.
However, she said that acting is her dream, in fact, after a person reaches the age of 30, he will be more obsessed with chasing dreams, because once a few years later, I am afraid that even the courage to chase dreams will not be there.
In addition, I also watched the clip of the "Beneficiary" she played, although it was still a little worse than Liu Yan, but for a person with no acting experience, it was barely calculated.
Throwing aside the part where she sold misery in public, in fact, there is nothing wrong with other places, so in the future, if she really wants to get some achievements in the field of acting, as long as she spends more time to study and improve her acting skills, and then use her own strength to prove that she Can sing and dance, and can also act, which is the greatest success.
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People whose emotions are too exposed are often people who cannot control themselves. When a person shows vulnerability, the more it gives your opponent a chance, so if you don't want to lose, then don't expose yourself too much.
I don't know if you also have this feeling, after people reach middle age, they will become vulnerable, not as strong as when they were young, and not as dare as before.
It may also be because of age, resulting in some gains and losses, fear of failure, so when encountering problems, there is no way to calm down, can not sink the heart, and sometimes even particularly prone to emotion, for solving the problem, this is actually very unfavorable.
For example, in marriage, many people will react instinctively in the face of betrayal, to question men, to make trouble, in fact, there is no use at all. Smart women don't cry in front of their husbands, because they know that once a man changes his heart, it's useless for you to cry.
What to do in a marriage fight back?
If you already have the courage to leave and can live better after leaving, then decisively file for divorce and leave this unworthy man.
If you don't have this ability yourself, then you have to learn to be patient for the time being. You can give yourself a time limit, such as a few months, half a year or a year, in this time period, work hard, to make money, to give yourself a better material foundation in the future, while constantly improving yourself in other aspects.
However, one day when the time was ripe, he proposed to break up.
Men are like this, when they are dissatisfied with the other half, it is often the woman around them who has poor ability, such as giving birth to a child with a change in body shape, ugly appearance, no job and no earning ability, at this time men are often the most likely to dislike their wives and change their hearts.
But if you are in a very good state, your figure is restored, your appearance is getting more and more beautiful, and you are very confident in both work and life, giving people a new feeling, and men will regret it in their hearts.
To make yourself better is the strength you give yourself, the confidence you earn yourself, these wealth will make people who see you regret, but also make you love yourself more.
If you want to be looked after, then you have to make yourself stronger, not to show your weaknesses and win the sympathy of others.
The world is cruel, the weak never deserve sympathy, what people need is appreciation, when you become strong from the weak, you will automatically have the appreciation of others.
The more mature people are, the more they know how to exercise restraint, not arrogance.
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About author:Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage and family counselor, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?