She was in a critical coma for 30 hours after the cancer and worked wonders when she woke up with an incurable cancer

"Live Again, Embrace the Tenderness of Life" is the Chinese mainlandChinese edition of the famous English bestseller Dying To Be Me, and it has another more famous but less pleasing Hong Kong and Taiwan translation of "Learn to Love After Dying Once". It is an autobiographical work by author Anita Moorjani.

With sensual and delicate brushstrokes, this book reviews the author's growth trajectory from childhood to adulthood, and then tells the darkest moment of dying of cancer, which is also the miracle moment of his life. When she awoke from her coma, the terminal cancer was cured in just a few days, and this astonishing fact shocked countless readers. And in the 30 hours of near-death, how her extraordinary experiences and feelings are soothing. As this miracle gradually spread and more and more people learned her story, she gradually took on the mission after her rebirth - to communicate to the public in interviews, books, speeches and other ways what she had learned from her near-death experience: unconditional love, love yourself, be yourself.

In the process of expounding the facts, this book has a fresh and natural literary atmosphere, which makes people feel immersed. Compared with other inspirational books, its literary nature makes this book more interesting and extremely readable.

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Anita Mujani's parents are Traditional Indians. Born in Singapore, she settled in Hong Kong at the age of two with her father's business. Her parents chose to open an English school in Hong Kong for her, where she received a systematic British education with the children of many British expatriates. Growing up in a Western-style culture, he grew up with a HongKonger nanny, but his family was a traditional Indian way of life. The special background of cross-cultural growth has made her proficient in English, Cantonese and Indian dialects, but also brought her confusion and troubles due to the collision of multiple cultures and beliefs.

Little Anita excelled in her studies, but she had a secret buried in her heart that she never revealed to her parents and teachers. That is, because of her dark skin color and dark curly hair, she has long been bullied and bullied by a group of British girls. At the same time, in the traditional Indian culture conception of male superiority over female inferiority, women are inferior creatures that are not valued. This double shadow gradually shaped her inferiority and low self-esteem, always feeling that she was not good enough, ugly, inferior. There was no way she could love herself like that. Even so, as she grew into an adult and struggled to find a balance of gravity in her life, she always tried to resist the influence of traditional Indian culture and then grew into an independent woman.

After graduating from high school, her father did not want her to continue her studies, fearing that she would become more independent and rebellious after leaving home to go to college. In his opinion, continuing her studies only reduced Anita's chances of becoming a courteous housewife in the future. In the Indian cultural concept, the less a woman goes to school and the earlier she becomes a parent, the more she can become a good wife and mother, and only in this way can a woman be commendable. After some struggle, Anita made a compromise and took a photography class near her home while listening to her parents' arrangements to keep dating people. At this time, Anita has a dream of traveling the world, and does not want to give up her personal pursuits early and become a housewife trapped in the family. The conflict and resistance developed to the end, and she ran away from marriage and became an outlier in Indian circles. After a period of depression and self-denial, she began to have a job in marketing, where she could travel a lot and meet all kinds of people. He also met his soul mate, Danny, who was highly compatible with him. Even in such a beautiful moment, she still can't be confident, worried that her other half will find herself a "defective product" that is not good enough one day.

In January 1995, Danny proposed to Anita, and two months later, bad news came that Anita's father had died while seeking medical treatment in India due to illness. After her father's funeral, in December of that year, Anita hosted her own grand Indian wedding in Hong Kong. After a quiet life after marriage, Anita, who always had her own unique ideas, once again felt out of place with her environment—she didn't want to have children early. In 2001, her best friend Suni and Danny's brother-in-law, two young men of similar age to Anita, fell ill with cancer, which caused her great fear. This cancer-phobic mentality intensified, and as she watched her relatives and friends come to the end of their lives, she desperately searched for a variety of active cancer prevention lifestyles. However, on April 26, 2002, accompanied by her husband, she was diagnosed with early and medium-term lymphoma by doctors.

From that day on, the Anitas embarked on a long journey against cancer. After quitting her job, in fear and despair, Anita resists chemotherapy and tries every opportunity she can to fight the disease. Over the next four years, she studied various books on cancer; traveled to India and China to seek healing from Buddhist monks and Indian yoga teachers; and tried various medical systems such as faith therapy, Indian Ayurvedic therapy, Chinese herbal medicine, Western naturopathy, etc., but her condition continued to deteriorate.

On February 1, 2006, Anita felt a different sense of ease and pleasure than usual, and she was finally tired of the war that was destined to lose, and was ready to let go of everything she had once loved and did not give up. In the early morning of the 2nd, she did not open her eyes. Her whole body was swollen horribly. The doctor asks Danny to rush her to the hospital for rescue. Anita, on the other hand, is ready to end the struggle.

Senior oncologists organized rescue teams, and the ward was filled with tension. With her eyes closed and her coma in a coma due to multi-organ failure, Anita is experiencing incredible feelings of detachment alone: unparalleled relief and relaxation, beyond perception, insight into everything, and seems to be slowly merging with the world. Surrounded by intense unconditional love, she meets her father, who has been dead for ten years, and her friend Suni, who has been dead for three years. After breaking through the linear limitations of time and space, in this realm of consciousness of infinite freedom, Anita was pleasantly surprised to feel a sudden enlightenment. She was finally able to understand why she had cancer and knew the true mission of her life.

Meanwhile, doctors are preparing to inform Anita's relatives that she has died of full-blown organ failure caused by terminal cancer. Inspired by her father, Anita chose to return to her body with strong willpower. She believes that as long as she chooses to return, her exhausted flesh will quickly heal, and the cancer cells in her body will soon disappear without a trace.

On the night of February 3, 30 hours into a coma, Anita woke up from her coma and sat up, telling her family she would soon be well. She also had a brief conversation with the oncologist, who was surprised that she knew herself. In the days that followed, doctors witnessed the miracle of her incurable cancer. Within 3 days, she was transferred from the intensive care unit to the general ward. In early March, she was discharged home. In July, Anita officially ended all treatment and returned to the normal life of a healthy person.

When looking back on this experience, someone will ask Anita, "Why did you get cancer?" Her answer can be summed up in two words: fear.

What to fear? "Fear of everything, fear of failure, fear of others not liking you, fear of failing to live up to the expectations of others, fear of not being good enough." They are also afraid of getting sick, especially cancer and chemoradiation. Fear of living, but also fear of dying. Fear is pervasive and ubiquitous. Sneaking in and grabbing our hearts before we even know it. ”

"Cancer is not punishment, it is just the externalization of long-suppressed inner energy."

So why does she think she will heal?

Anita said: "One thing I need to clarify is that my healing did not come from a change of mentality or belief, but because I finally released my true self. Many people have asked me the same question: Is it because of optimistic and positive thoughts that I have recovered my health? The answer is no. My state of near-death experience transcends the mind, and I am healed because the harmful thoughts in my mind have completely disappeared without a trace. I am not in a state of thought, but a state of being. A pure introspective self-consciousness – a being I would like to call "magnificent"! I am one with the universe and the earth, completely transcending the dualistic opposition of the two parts of matter and self. I was finally able to communicate with the true Spirit of Me, the true Spirit of Me, eternal, infinite, encompassing heaven and earth and all things. ”

Now, she is often invited to speak and be interviewed around the world, talking about how to face terminal illness, death, and let go of fear, choose love, and rebuild spiritual beliefs. Healing oneself and the vast number of readers, listeners, etc. with pure love.