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It was found that no, folk collectors in the antique world are almost scolding each other, that is, they do not discuss scholarship.
In group psychology, there is a proper noun called "internal friction effect".
"Internal friction effect" refers to the negative effect phenomenon caused by unnecessary consumption of human and material resources caused by uncoordination or contradictions in the group, society or department.
This "internal friction effect" is also very accurate in explaining the phenomenon of folk collectors in the antique world.
To put it bluntly, the reason why folk collectors in the antique world often feel psychologically tired is because energy is more consumed in psychological friction than on external actions.
For example, if you pay too much attention to the evaluation of your own collection of antiques, even if this evaluation does not have an obvious pejorative meaning, you will think of it as a criticism of yourself, and then you will be depressed.
Therefore, folk collectors in the antique industry often feel very tired, and this tiredness is not physical, but mental, which causes a lot of harm to the folk collectors in the antique world.
1. The antique appraisal is hesitant and does not dare to make a decision, and if others say it is false, they will believe it themselves
To a lesser extent, it is indecisive, procrastinating and inefficient when buying good fine antiques in the future.
To a large extent, this kind of hesitation will make people miss many opportunities to make a fortune, affecting the future and career.
2. It is easy to be affected by the words of others in the antique industry, resulting in low mood and ups and downs
3. Folk collectors in the world of antiques often tire themselves out
4. Folk collectors in the antique world slowly dislike themselves and even throw away antiques
Why do angry scolding and internal friction form?
1. Folk collectors in the antique world are extremely unconfident in themselves
Have you ever wondered why you should find an antique treasure expert for identification? The main reason is the lack of confidence in their own eyesight, a 500 yuan appraisal fee, not far to hand over to the expert, the result of what the expert said, sometimes you do not believe, you do not know whether the expert is deceiving you, say the truth and lie are troublesome. Immediately after that, 1 piece of antiques appeared, 10 experts and 15 appraisal conclusions appeared. So the folk collectors in the antique industry began to angrily scold the experts as liars, for example, some time ago Cui Kaihao gambled 10 million, directly angered Lu Chenglong, Li Zhiyan, folk collectors also came to 300 million yuan, Cui Kai himself also sent it.
2. Folk collectors in the antique world are very sensitive at heart
Excessive concern for people and things around the antique industry, and even unconsciously associate with themselves, and often draw negative conclusions.
3. Folk collectors in the world of antiques always put their thoughts on things of the past or the future
4. Folk collectors in the antique world set high demands on themselves
Set yourself an idealized goal and then force yourself to implement it every day.
This effort lasts for a while, and when you find it increasingly difficult to progress, anxiety fills your heart.
At this time, if you have tried various methods and still have no results, you will fall into a long-term state of self-depreciation, aggravating your anger and internal friction.
How should folk collectors in the antique industry deal with their own anger and internal friction?
1. Separate your own affairs from the affairs of others
2. Stimulate action with incentives
3. Overturn negative emotions
4. Learn to accept yourself
5. Don't be too demanding of yourself
In fact, the most fundamental reason for all the anger and internal friction in the antique industry is that it cannot meet your expectations. Before scolding Shi Shuqing, Yang Boda has no professional quality, for each person 5 million yuan, estimated at 2.4 billion yuan, the back scolded Liu Yan is a pseudo-expert, do not tell the truth to the folk collectors, send poly to get tens of millions of yuan, when will the antique industry have a return? Later, Ji Baozhai, Beishida donated porcelain, Wenchuan donated porcelain, Han Dynasty jade stools, warm water bottles, Xu Ming, Zhu Ji, Qiu Xiaojun, Qiu Jiduan came to power, and there was another burst of anger, and they were beaten into the Quanzhen Sect Leader, the Stinky Daoist Qiu Zhiji, and the National Treasure Gang Leader, and later zhai Jianmin was said to be a broker, and Li Jianchen was said to be a white glove, but what has changed in the antique world? No, the speed of the tongue can not solve any problem, and recently cui Kai said that Cui Kai is a fur blow, Yang Shi said to be Yang, please ask, is this still the civilization quality that people in the antique industry should have?
Stop all the swearing and infighting, you don't know how much money is watching your jokes in front of the watermelon-eating audience!