The object is always frantically trying to contact you
Is love too hot? Or is the desire too strong?
Actually, none of them...
Name implies
It is the skin that is particularly eager
Be touched and hugged by others
This is actually a mental illness
The skin sensitivity of such people is far beyond that of ordinary people
When the skin is touched
Especially when hugging
Strong physical and psychological satisfaction can be obtained
But over-reliance on this satisfaction
It also has a negative impact
People with skin thirst
Once the desire is not satisfied
Insomnia, anxiety, and depression will follow
Serious and even affect normal life
Girls with skin hunger and thirst ask for hugs
You will be afraid that you are too clingy and not independent enough
Boys with skin hunger and thirst ask for hugs
It is easy to be mistaken by partners as too hungry and thirsty
Patients who have no target are even worse
You can't forcibly hold someone else
We can only find another way
As a result, there were many "Yosu Cannon" invitations on the Internet
The desire to be touched is human instinct
It's the same as having to eat when you're hungry
Let's start with a famous "Hades" experiment
The researchers isolated the newborn monkeys from the mother monkeys
And in front of the little monkey two model female monkeys
One is a simple barbed-wireed mother monkey that can provide milk
The other is a furry muppet mother monkey
See which "mother" it will prefer
The experiment begins
The little monkey didn't even think about it
Just rush to the wire model and drink freely
After drinking milk
As the researchers expected
The little monkey prefers to snuggle up
The Muppet mother monkey who couldn't give anything to it was around
Because the fluff is soft and warm to the touch
Met the little monkey touch needs
The same is true of us humans
The skin acts as the largest receptor
It is the first of many receptors to develop
We are from infancy
It can be done by hugging and touching
Feel the benefits of oxytocin secretion
It helps shy people overcome shyness when socializing
It can also relieve stress, be cheerful, and have a sense of belonging
This can be done for a number of reasons
More and more people can't enjoy this feeling anymore
(1) Lack of emotion in childhood
Grew up in an insecure environment
It will make them subconsciously guard against those around them
Lack of trust in people
Longing to be loved but afraid to be loved
(2) Social does not have to be face-to-face, and payment does not have to be hand-to-hand
That's right, ask how many people are in this room
There was no physical contact with anyone else at the end of the day
Hands with temperature become phones that are frozen
Skin thirst is found in young people who work alone
It is becoming more and more common
You already know the answer
Most people will think
Skin-like phone case
Or a plush phone case
Better feel than the general transparent plastic shell
And what does this idea of "good" feel come from?
Don't think about the phone case
Let's see how to get out of this predicament
First of all, everyone should face up to their own needs
Uncle used a whole article to tell everyone
It is human nature to desire to be touched
So don't be ashamed of your needs anymore
If it's a shy single guy
Come, Uncle give you a hug
If you don't like Uncle Nine
You can also opt for a throw pillow
When you throw a pillow, the brain also produces tactile stimulation
It makes people feel very secure
Conditional
Uncle also recommends that everyone keep a pet as a companion
When we pet cats, dogs and dogs
Oxytocin is also secreted
Stress hormones, blood pressure, and heart rate all drop
The muscles become stretched and relaxed
The mood also improved
In fact
When you put down the phone and walk out the door
You will find
There are many others who share the same troubles as you
A dance party
A corporate networking
A hilarious match
Maybe it will be a turning point to change the status quo
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Resources: [1]thompson， e. h.， &hampton， j. a. (2011). the effect of relationship status on communicatingemotions through touch. cognition & emotion， 25(2)， 295–306. [2]hui yang， peter a. bath. (2020) predictingloneliness in older age using two measures of loneliness. international journalof computers and applications 42：6， pages 602-615.