Who is Li Zhihui? Why is it always so hard to live past 40?
On the weekend of early summer, I played a popular board game in South Korea with a few girlfriends: "Lee Wisdom Survival Game". Friends said that the game is very simple, one person plays Li Zhizhi, drawing three cards each from the four age groups of young children, teenagers, youth, and elderly, each card has an age, and the age encounters problems. Other actors can play Li Zhizhi's father, mother, brother and friend, and give Li Zhizhi's answers after discussing these questions.
According to the answer analysis book, Li Zhizhi himself added and subtracted points from Li Zhizhi's social, stress, and compliance characteristics. All attributes start at 50, and when the pressure reaches 100 or other attributes reach zero, Li Zhizhi dies and all members fail; so the other members must ensure that Li Zhizhi lives to old age, and then determine which player wins according to the attribute value of the oldest Li Zhizhi!
Of course, these attribute values are invisible to other members during the game, and only Li Zhizhi alone knows.
In the game, the characters representing dad, mom and brother all have their own skills. For example, Dad's skill is to decide directly without listening to other people's opinions; Mom's skill is to reduce the pressure value of Li Zhizhi or increase other attribute values; the younger brother's skill is to skip this question and proceed to the next question!
Doesn't that sound hard? Isn't it just to give advice?
My girlfriend and I were four people in total, playing this game together, taking turns to be Li Zhizhi, but we only once let Li Zhizhi live to old age!!! None of the other Li Zhizhi lived past 40 years old, and the youngest was 30 years old, and the social attributes returned to zero, and the game failed!
Let's take a closer look at the problems that Li Zhihui encounters at each age:
5-year-old Lee Ji Ji ji wants to be an astronaut, but the neighbor's uncle said that girls should be Miss Korea, how should Lee Ji Ji answer?
17-year-old Li Zhizhi met his uncle's salted fish hand on the way to school on the bus, what should Li Zhizhi do?
18-year-old Li Zhizhi's mother let her do all the housework alone, what should she do?
What should 20-year-old Li Zhizhi do if he is judged by the seniors at the ceremony?
After the 30-year-old Li Zhizhi got married, he found that his mother-in-law had her own door key and entered and exited at will, what to do?
40-year-old Li Zhizhi was disliked by her husband without makeup and no exercise, what should I do if my charm declines?
What if 50-year-old Li Zhizhi is blamed by her husband for cheating at school?
What if 60-year-old Li Zhizhi and her husband are retired, but what if her husband still does not do housework?
What if 65-year-old Li Zhizhi was asked by his son to take his grandson?
80-year-old Li Zhizhi needs to see a dentist, but he doesn't have enough money, what to do?
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As a woman, are these questions very substitutionary? Although it is a Korean game, does it make Chinese women feel the same way?
Every time in the game, the father, mother and brother we played tried to make Li Zhizhi deal with all the problems encountered, or what we thought Li Zhizhi should do, and the results were not satisfactory.
5-year-old Lee Ji Ji ji faced with the choice of Miss Korea or an astronaut, as a father, mom and brother, all felt that the five-year-old child would definitely ask a question, and the answer analysis told us: Uncle will feel that Lee Ji Ji is very rude, and then social and compliant are reduced by 10 points!
Li Zhizhi, 17, was harassed on a bus, and she questioned loudly and resisted, which angered the harassers.
18-year-old Li Zhizhi faced his mother's request to do housework, and the other actors felt that Li Zhizhi should consult with his brother and complete the housework together. However, the answer analysis is: the younger brother will feel that Li Zhizhi's requirements are excessive, unwilling to do housework, and the relationship with Li Zhizhi has deteriorated!
Li Zhizhi, who is more than 30 years old, faced with her mother's illness, and her mother-in-law asked her to go back to her in-laws' house to help, everyone felt that in order to be safe and balanced, let Li Zhizhi rush back to her mother's house overnight to see her mother, and then go to her in-laws' house to help during the day, and the answer analysis tells us that Li Wisdom runs all night and is sick and hospitalized!
After playing this board game a few times, we found that it is really difficult for Li Zhizhi to survive!
The first time we let Li Zhizhi live a very personal life, try not to be wronged, but the 30-year-old Li Zhizhi failed because of social zero;
The second time we carefully let Li Zhizhi balance, try to tolerate, although there is a "mother" to reduce the pressure value of the stunt, Li Wisdom is also 45 years old pressure burst;
The third time we let Li Zhizhi be as neutral and impartial as possible, well, the 35-year-old Li Zhizhi also failed because of the zeroing of conformity;
Isn't the game designed to resemble the state of our actual lives?
1, a girl's life, the dictatorial father of the family, the mother who can give the girl appropriate relief, and a brother who is useless and shows his face at a critical moment, and all kinds of same-sex friends, you encounter problems, who can you ask?
2, the problems in life are borne by themselves. Although you can ask people around you for advice when you encounter problems, in fact, all the pressure is borne by yourself, and others cannot feel it.
2, the people around you are for your own good, give your so-called advice, but the real satisfactory answer is not.
3, whether it is personality or patience, women in real life are so helpless.
Are all the problems encountered by Li Zhizhi also very representative?
1, early childhood may be chosen, or even have no chance of birth;
2. When she encountered a salty pig hand or even more serious situation in her teenage years, there was no way to complain;
3. How to deal with the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in youth;
4, people in middle age, there are old and young, husbands or bystanders, how do you bear all this?
5, it is easy to retire smoothly, children grow, but in the face of children's old age, old age and physical decline...
Seeing the above, I really want to sigh: the life of Li Zhizhi, who is not easy!
After playing for a few hours, we finally once let Li Zhizhi successfully live to the age of 80, and the final attributes, in addition to the sensitivity almost zero, other values were almost better than the average.
All four of us women who are wives and mothers laugh, is this the rare confusion of the legend? Just ignore your true feelings and live longer?
Although it is a game, sharpening all the problems to the extreme, but looking back at our own situation, everyone is silent.
How to continue life, how to communicate with parents, love with husbands, and harmony with children... Family and career, giving and giving, each one is the subject of modern women.
Every woman is Li Zhizhi, and every woman is not Li Zhizhi.
No one can give us an answer to this question of life, and only we can give the answer to how to go.
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