Text: Jing Ma
Sister, you take the bow of the boat brother on the shore, and the affection and love are swinging......
Even the songs are written like this, and most of the relationships and couples are men and women.
Especially in the industrial age, men are the pillars of the family, and the older ones can have a more stable social status and a stronger economic foundation, and the older the men, the better the economy in the family. #头条创作挑战赛#
And older men also prefer young girls, because when choosing a wife, there is a very important criterion that is fertility, and young women will have stronger fertility, so in our parents' generation, grandparents' generation, basically men and women!
With the progress of society, women have gradually come out of the stove, and even to the world, many women with the improvement of their education level, they have also shown amazing work ability after they come out to work.
According to the 2022 Statistical Monitoring Report of the Programme for the Development of Chinese Women (2021-2030), there are 320 million female employed persons nationwide, accounting for 43.2% of the total number of employed persons. In addition, women are widely involved in the decision-making and management of enterprises.
Because women have a sense of accomplishment in their work, many women are not so enthusiastic about getting married, after all, when they can control their own destiny with their own hands, the choice is in their own hands.
Therefore, many women have not married at the age of 30, of course, getting married and having children from traditional families has become a hurdle that is difficult to bypass, so many women start to consider personal problems when they have a successful career, and they find that excellent men of the same age or older around them no longer focus on them, because these high-quality men are more inclined to find some women who are much younger than their own age, so backward compatibility has become the choice of these women.
For example, looking for a younger boy, although the job is still average, but it is a potential stock, or good-looking, or has a good temper, after all, two people in a family must have a family and one to work outside.
And many boys mature later than girls, and they will be more inclined to like those mature and stable sisters, so now sister-brother love has become a trend.
A survey on the post-80s generation released by the Social Data Research Center of Fudan University found that seventy percent of married people have a partner age difference of less than three years, and men are most satisfied with their partners when they are 3~4 years younger than women.
That is, the relationship between sister and brother is actually very stable. And some psychologists say: The older the woman, the more stable the marriage, because the woman will be more tolerant and mature!
Sibling love has become a trend, because sibling love has the following advantages
Advantage 1: Men will be less stressed
In many cases, men also have to take on the responsibility of raising a family, but if a sister and brother are in love, the sister will generally be more sensible, even if the sister herself does not make more money, but she will be more restrained in consumption, and she will understand her brother better, so it can make the man feel less pressure and feel more comfortable.
Advantage 2: Men get more emotional value
Many times we say that men don't flick when they have tears, or that men carry everything by themselves, but in fact, most men need to be strong in their growth, in fact, they also need emotional relief, and they also need emotional support.
Advantage 3: There are fewer disputes between sisters and brothers
If the sibling love can really get married, the two are actually psychologically strong enough, after all, there is a secular vision in this, especially those with a large age difference, if the two people can come together, they will also go through a lot of hardships, and people will cherish what they have worked so hard to get.
In addition, my sister will be more tolerant and tolerant, and she may be more financially well-off, and there will be fewer disputes in the natural family.
Of course, feelings vary from person to person, and the person who may just attract you is your sister, so you don't have to care too much about age, but if a man is only attracted to his sister, especially by those who are much older, it is very likely that he received too little love from his mother when he was young, causing him to have a mother-love complex.
This actually tells our mother: when the boy is young, we should also give him enough love.
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