Shakespeare said, "Faithful love fills my heart, and I cannot estimate the wealth I enjoy." ”
This shows how important a loyal love is to us. From the beginning of meeting a love, we will have hope in our hearts, we will begin to fantasize about the future life, we will look forward to all the warmth and beauty in life, and we will hope that our feelings can continue smoothly.
There will be many stages of love, and at different stages, we have different expectations, and at the same time there will be different states. At the beginning of love, we will have great enthusiasm and will feel that this relationship is full of freshness. When love begins to settle down, we will take a lot of things in our relationship as a habit. The more you care about a relationship, the more you will rely on it.
When we give all our hearts and minds, we naturally expect the other party to do this. If we can't feel each other's feedback, we will also lack a sense of security in our hearts, worrying that the other party does not love ourselves so much, or worrying about whether the other party has changed their minds.
Since we are together, we must love each other well and manage a relationship well. If you don't love, you don't have to waste each other's time, and waste your years in a love that is doomed to be fruitless.
Belinsky said: "Love is the harmony and tacit understanding of two intimate souls in life and in the faithful, kind, beautiful things." ”
In love, we all look forward to such harmony and tacit understanding, and hope that the person we love deeply can also love ourselves. In this way, even if life is a little difficult, as long as each other's hearts are firm enough for this feeling, we can still see the hope of the future and see the beauty around us.
When we meet a person who likes each other, we must not only learn to cherish this fate, but also feel each other's thoughts from some of each other's behaviors, and know what position we have in each other's hearts. Between lovers, when they are willing to share some of their secrets, it means that they really care about each other and want to manage this relationship well.
Generally speaking, between men and women, love to the extreme, will share these secrets.
01 About some bad things in your own family.
In ordinary interpersonal relationships, we rarely take the initiative to talk about our families, and even if we talk about them, they only say a few words, and we do not show our original families too much to people in general relationships. Even if it's our best friend, we often share the usual thing in the family, or some good thing, such as how good our parents are to themselves, or the picture of the family usually getting along.
And for some things that are not very good in our own family, we will not easily share them with outsiders. As the saying goes, "Good things don't go out, bad things spread far and wide", for those who are not trustworthy enough, it is difficult to guarantee that he will not spread our things.
However, when we love someone to the extreme, such an idea no longer exists. Because in our hearts, we have long regarded him as a very important person, and naturally we will trust him unconditionally, and even hint at him in this way, so that he can better understand our minds.
02 Some untold secrets from the depths of the heart.
Pope said: "The joy of love cannot end in a passionate embrace. Love must have a constant quality, to love yourself, but also to love each other. ”
When we have some thoughts in our hearts, we must not only consider our own feelings, but also consider each other's own feelings. If a person still maintains a selfish mentality in love, it is difficult to guard his love. Love is like this, we need to continue to love ourselves, but also to love each other, only by balancing this relationship, we can master our emotional life.
When we have some secrets in our hearts, we need to share them with each other appropriately, and if we blindly keep our secrets, it is difficult for the other party to believe that we have paid our hearts.
As long as we love to the extreme, we will not consider so much, in many unexpected moments, we will urgently want to share our secrets, hoping that the other party can know more about themselves. Such behavior will occur, not only to show their love to each other, but also to hope that the other party can also share their inner secrets with us.
03 About your weaknesses and the things you are most afraid of.
When we fall completely in love with a person, we will not only trust each other unconditionally, but also involuntarily rely on each other in many cases. When you are sad, you hope that the other party will accompany you; when you encounter some lows, you hope to get the encouragement and trust of the other party; when you need help, you also hope that the first person standing in front of you is the person you love in your heart.
In front of outsiders, each of us will build a hard shell for ourselves, so that in the eyes of others, we will become an independent, confident, mature and stable person. Only in front of the people we love the most will we unload all our defenses and be that simple, natural self.
Love tends to prompt us to be childish in front of our beloved, without thinking too much about things and without having to disguise ourselves. For our own weaknesses, we will truly show themselves in front of each other, and we will also take the initiative to tell each other the things we are most afraid of.
If we don't love someone very much, how can we tell each other these untold secrets? If we don't love someone very much, how can we let go of all our defenses and trust each other completely? If we don't love someone so much, how can we allow ourselves to lose our minds?
Between the opposite sex, if someone is willing to take the initiative to share these secrets with you, it means that he actually loves you very much, don't miss it easily.