Men who want to pursue you will often give you these gifts and learn to discern

After a man is moved by a woman, if he wants to pursue a woman, he needs to take the initiative to understand the woman, take the initiative to get close to the woman, and do something that he likes, so that the woman will have a good feeling for him.

As Swedenborg put it: "Love exists in the desire to give and regards the pleasure of the lover as one's own." ”

If you want to capture the heart of a woman, men naturally need to pay, how to pay in the end, which requires men to study and spend their minds.

The most common behavior, that is, to take the initiative to ask women to eat and watch movies, as far as possible to create more opportunities for each other to get along alone, in order to enhance the understanding between the two. At the most appropriate time, men will also take the initiative to give women some gifts, in order to win the favor of women, so as to achieve the purpose of capturing women's hearts.

If a man is in love with a woman, he will spend a lot of thought when giving gifts, and will think about what kind of gift he should give, so that the woman can know his intentions and win more favors.

If a man doesn't like a woman so much, even if he needs to give some gifts, men often just want to achieve the purpose of giving gifts, and don't really think about women's minds. In such a situation, the man's behavior of giving gifts will obviously be a bit perfunctory, or men will deliberately avoid gifts with more obvious meanings.

Shakespeare also said, "Don't swear by pointing to the moon, it is fickle, every month is full of profits and losses; if you swear by pointing at it, maybe your love is as impermanent as it is." ”

Women should also learn to distinguish men's minds from men's gifts, and know whether men are sincere about you or have a perfunctory attitude. Generally speaking, if men really want to pursue you, they will often give you these gifts, and you must learn to distinguish.

01 Will take the time and effort to make a gift for you.

Bacon said: "Love not only occupies the open mind, but sometimes it can also break into the well-fortified mind." ”

Men want to pursue a woman, naturally because this woman has long lived in the man's mind and affected the man's life. The more a man is obsessed with a woman, the more obvious it becomes in behavior.

Men will often think about giving women some gifts, but in the stage of pursuing women, the gifts that men give to women are very critical. If the gift is not given well, it is likely to affect the image of the man, and once the gift is selected correctly, it is also of great benefit to the relationship between the two.

Men will naturally struggle with what gifts they should give, after all, they are still in the stage of pursuing women, if they are too expensive, it must be inappropriate. In such a situation, men will generally choose to make a gift for the woman himself, even if it is not so valuable, it can make the woman feel his friendship.

The woman's mind is very obvious, if you know that this gift is a man who has spent a lot of thought and time, it will be very touching, and the good feeling for the man will increase.

02 Will observe what you need most in your life and give it to you.

I still remember that in the TV series "There Is You in This Life", after Nie Yusheng reunited with Tan Jing, the first gift given to Tan Jing was a pair of shoes. And this pair of shoes is because Nie Yusheng saw that Tan Jing was wearing a pair of very old shoes on his feet, so he gave Tan Jing a gift to buy a new pair of shoes.

If a man really loves a woman in his heart, he does not need to think hard about what he wants to give to a woman, or to treat the gift as a very troublesome thing.

Just like Nie Yusheng, in his heart, Tan Jing has a very important position, so he always pays attention to Tan Jing. Knowing what was needed in tan jing's life, he could do it immediately. This is a spontaneous act that does not need to be tangled.

Belinsky said: "Love needs reasonable content, just as a raging fire asks for oil to maintain it; love is the harmonious fusion of two similar natures in infinite feelings." ”

When a man wants to pursue a woman, his heart will naturally think about what gift to give. What is given to women is not as simple as the superficial gift, but also reveals men's care and concern for women.

03 Will send something that is good for your life.

After a man has moved his true feelings for a woman, his heart not only wants to pursue the woman as soon as possible and start a relationship, but also cares about the woman's life, afraid that the woman will encounter some unhappy things in life and affect the woman's mood.

The more men think like this in their hearts, the more they care and care about women. Even if the woman has nothing to do at the moment, the man will take the initiative to consider the woman's mood and the woman's health. In order to make women live better, men will also take the initiative to send some things that are good for women's lives. Maybe it's fruit, maybe it's something about health, maybe something women love.

In short, in a man's heart, a woman's happiness and health are more important than anything else. As Pope said, "The joy of love cannot end in a passionate embrace." Love must have a constant quality, to love yourself, but also to love each other. ”

A man who truly loves you will naturally take the initiative to understand your character, understand your mind, understand your hobbies, and thus give you some gifts that have spent your mind. In these gifts, it is easy for women to feel this care and love from men.

Therefore, when a woman receives a gift from a man, don't always care about the price of the gift, but also learn to distinguish whether the man is sincere or false, don't confuse.