科学育儿：最可悲的是普通人家的孩子被宠坏了。
最可悲的就是被宠坏了的。The saddest thing is spoiled 请耐心看完这个视频。
普通人家的孩子Ordinary children：父母从小对孩子的生活，Parents' life for their children from an early age，照顾得井并有序。Take care of the well in good order，生活被无节制的满足。Life is immeasurably satisfied。
被富养起来的普通人家的孩子，The children of ordinary people who have been raised rich，心气高、认知低、能力平平。Heart Qi is high，cognition is low，ability is flat。没有有钱人家的资源，They don't have the resources of the rich，又没有穷人家孩子吃苦的精神。They don't have the hard-working spirit of poor children。
因为父母的过度保护，Because parents are overprotective，导致这样的孩子一直在心疼自己。Cause such a child has been distressed，稍微努力一点点。Try a little harder，就觉得自己在拼命。I feel like I'm trying so hard，别人稍微给个脸色。I get a slight look，自己就能难受好几天缓不过劲来。I can feel bad for days，不敢放下自己的虚荣心。Dare not let go of his vanity，不懂得眼光放长远一点。I don't know how to take the long view，规划自己的未来。Plan your own future。而有钱人家的孩子不仅是更努力，And rich kids don't just work harder，人家努力的方向方法还更加科学。The direction and method of their efforts，are more scientific，认知更加准确。More accurate cognition，而普通人家的孩子，And ordinary children，很多时候跌跌撞撞找不到方向。A lot of time to England to find the direction，还怪社会不公平。Blame social injustice。所以从今天起别把孩子当回事。So from now on，don't take kids seriously，把注意力放在自己身上。Focus on yourself，物质的满足遵循两个原则。
一人赏个礼品。
一、真实且量力而行。
1 Be real and do what you can 2、能满足尽量满足，不能满足不要伤害。
