科學育兒：最可悲的是普通人家的孩子被寵壞了。
最可悲的就是被寵壞了的。The saddest thing is spoiled 請耐心看完這個視訊。
普通人家的孩子Ordinary children：父母從小對孩子的生活，Parents' life for their children from an early age，照顧得井并有序。Take care of the well in good order，生活被無節制的滿足。Life is immeasurably satisfied。
被富養起來的普通人家的孩子，The children of ordinary people who have been raised rich，心氣高、認知低、能力平平。Heart Qi is high，cognition is low，ability is flat。沒有有錢人家的資源，They don't have the resources of the rich，又沒有窮人家孩子吃苦的精神。They don't have the hard-working spirit of poor children。
因為父母的過度保護，Because parents are overprotective，導緻這樣的孩子一直在心疼自己。Cause such a child has been distressed，稍微努力一點點。Try a little harder，就覺得自己在拼命。I feel like I'm trying so hard，别人稍微給個臉色。I get a slight look，自己就能難受好幾天緩不過勁來。I can feel bad for days，不敢放下自己的虛榮心。Dare not let go of his vanity，不懂得眼光放長遠一點。I don't know how to take the long view，規劃自己的未來。Plan your own future。而有錢人家的孩子不僅是更努力，And rich kids don't just work harder，人家努力的方向方法還更加科學。The direction and method of their efforts，are more scientific，認知更加準确。More accurate cognition，而普通人家的孩子，And ordinary children，很多時候跌跌撞撞找不到方向。A lot of time to England to find the direction，還怪社會不公平。Blame social injustice。是以從今天起别把孩子當回事。So from now on，don't take kids seriously，把注意力放在自己身上。Focus on yourself，物質的滿足遵循兩個原則。
一人賞個禮品。
一、真實且量力而行。
1 Be real and do what you can 2、能滿足盡量滿足，不能滿足不要傷害。
