Suffering is one of the greatest life teachers. Life is full of misery, loneliness and suffering—and it’s all over much too soon. When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment, he needs help. That’s the message he is sending. In some ways suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds a meaning, such as the meaning of a sacrifice. Life is both dreadful and wonderful. It’s natural—you need to smile to your sorrow because you more than your sorrow.
磨难是人生最伟大的导师之一。人生尽是不堪、孤独和磨难——且这一切不过都是过眼烟云。有人让你痛苦，那是因其内心很苦，恰是其凄苦的一种发泄。他无需惩罚，只需帮助。此刻这就是他传递的信息。从某种程度上说，一旦痛苦意义被发现那一刻，人就不再痛苦了，恰是献身之意。人生具有两面性：可怕与美好交织。此乃稀松平常——面对悲伤需报以微笑，因为与悲伤相比，你更重要。(听风)
